1.. I hate you. You walked into my world so easily, left my world again, and walked so freely.
2. Don't cry in front of others, because no one will help you wipe your tears.
3. Sometimes I don't understand, but I just don't want to understand; Sometimes I don't understand, but I understand. I don't know what to do.
4. Time can't measure the temperature of love. How long will it take me to accept the fact that you left me?
5. I suddenly feel lonely and want to miss someone, but there is no one to think about.
6. There is a person who is [1/1] in your column, then see it become [/1] and finally become [/]
7. If one day you love someone as much as I love you, you will know how tired I am!
8. No matter how beautiful this place is without you, it is only desolate.
9. Looking at the back of you leaving, I told myself to be strong and not to cry because I love you, but also because I understand you.
1. I stumbled to understand a lot, but I was reluctant but helpless.
11. The saddest distance in the world is that two people were so far apart that they didn't know each other. Suddenly, one day, they met, fell in love and became very close. Then one day, they stopped falling in love, and the two people who were very close became far away, even farther than before.
12. Actually, the reason why I often look at your space is just that I want to see if there is anything about me.
13. Thank you for coming to my side. It's a pity that you finally left.
14. Sometimes, the meeting between people is like a meteor. In an instant, generate sparks enviably, but it is destined to just pass by in a hurry.
15. I personally changed his remarks on QQ to the original appearance with his first name and surname. You're finally leaving me. Tell me sadly, let me hug you again.
This time, you're finally leaving me. When you went to the security check, my tears could not help running down. It's been 21 years. At the moment you came, I knew that one day, everything I did for you was for today.
There is a kind of love that means separation, and that is the love between parents and children.
that day, I heard you say to me: mom, my classmates all say that no matter where Keren is placed in the world, she can survive and will live well! You know, this is the best compliment I have ever heard. At this moment, how proud I am, for you and for my mother!
It was an accident that you came. I didn't fully prepare you. From the moment I knew you were coming, I became a mother, and I had a sacred mission. I want to prepare everything for you, so that one day when you leave me, you will live better than being by my side.
You were born in a cold winter, and the winter of that year was particularly cold. You refused to come out, and I suffered a lot from childbirth. From the first day I met you, I knew all my pains were worth it.
The day after birth, the nurse carried you to take a bath. When she came back, she said strangely, you can laugh. Many children don't laugh until several months later. You are only two days old. It's really incredible that you can laugh.
Later, I saw you smile, too. It was in your sleep, so sweet! What did you dream about? Is it flower girl in the sky, or the immortal grandpa who sent you here? Tell him that you have found a responsible and good mother, so that he can rest assured, right?
A few days after you were born, you had diarrhea. On that day, when your family went back to get things, I held you in the delivery room and kept crying. You were so small and weak, I was really worried that I couldn't feed you. I was a helpless mother and I didn't know how to give you a future!
You finally survived, and you finally let me seriously perform the duties of a mother.
Before you were born, I read more than a dozen books on prenatal education and early education. I want to make all preparations for being a qualified mother.
after the full moon, I walked behind your back in the streets and parks and shopping malls. I showed you the world where you were born, and enriched your mind with more information. I kept talking to you while pointing to various things. Whether you understand or not, I saw your big bright eyes hovering around. I guess you must feel what your mother was saying?
I insist that all people speak Mandarin with you, and use correct expressions, such as taking a bath, instead of taking a bath for nothing or taking a bath. When you grow up, I insist on inducing you to say what you want, such as wanting to drink milk. When you point to a bottle, I teach you to say milk, but you refuse to say it or cry, but you insist on teaching you, and then you say milk angrily.
When you were a few months old, I bought a lot of picture books and kept teaching you to identify the animals and plants, transportation, etc. I took pains to tell you about the world and made up many stories. I became a fairy tale king.
When you are two years old, I think you should gradually enter independent text reading. I began to prepare for your literacy reading. First, I labeled all the items at home with text names, so that you can gradually associate the text with the real thing. This process is a bit long and requires patience. I will even write the names of many things outside with cards, and I will find opportunities to teach you when I see them when I go out.
When you were two and a half years old, you knew a lot of Chinese characters, but they were scattered. I knew that literacy was not the goal, but independent reading was, so I transferred you to the early education stage of game literacy+reading.
I don't know who can prepare lessons to teach children like me. I have designed nearly 1 kinds of parent-child games to focus on teaching you literacy. I don't teach you from shallow to deep, nor from concrete to abstract. I teach you one article at a time. I let you read a simple story independently every few days after literacy, so that you can taste the joy of success.
Every night is the happiest time for our mother and daughter. After dinner, you will say, Mom, let's play literacy games, so we use those small word cards as props. We play bunny, Little Red Riding Hood and Black Cat Sheriff ... Learning has become a pleasure and a need for you, so you learn quickly. At the fastest, you can recognize nearly 3 words every day. At the most.
Soon, you will be able to read some short stories in pure text independently, so there is a strange phenomenon in our family. It is not that mothers tell stories to their children, but that children tell stories to their mothers, but it makes you feel particularly fulfilled. Because of this, you are more in love with literacy reading.
In this way, it took me a year to help you clear the reading and literacy barrier. Before you were four years old, you could not only read fairy tales in pure words, but also read the juvenile versions of The Journey to the West and Romance of the Three Kingdoms. Therefore, when you were five years old, when you were in the first grade of primary school, others brought comics to school, and you brought Readers, Yilin or The Journey to the West. Reading became your first hobby. As a result, when you were 7 years old, as the only small author in this city who won the first prize in the World Chinese Primary School Composition Competition, your work was included in the composition selection of outstanding primary school students in China. When the news came, I didn't feel surprised!
until today, I think that the cultivation of reading habits and abilities is the best gift I can give you in my life!
In terms of mathematical thinking training, unlike other mothers, I don't teach my children to sing numbers from the beginning and let them count to 1 like parrots. I first let you learn to count numbers at a glance by looking at objects without counting them, and even use imagination to count numbers, starting from 1 until less than 1. I'll play blindfolded counting with you, and listen to the game of reciprocal and antonym with you ... Cultivate your attention, sense of numbers, logical reasoning ability, reverse thinking and mathematical imagination in various ways.
I won't teach you how to count until everything is ready. You've made great progress because you don't miss chopping wood when sharpening your knife. I just said that if you count to 1, you'll jump to 11, and if you count to 2, you'll jump to 21, and so on. I actually taught you to count from 1 to 1 in one bath.
I always think that interest, habit and ability are more important than knowledge for education. I insist on this idea in the process of raising you. Before I train you to learn any knowledge and skills, I always start with these six words, never eager for quick success. Even if I walk slowly at first, I will make rapid progress later, far exceeding children of the same age. Before you are 5 years old, you can add and subtract multiple digits in your mind, and you also know the currency and conversion.
at this time, you can help me to buy daily necessities such as oil, salt, sauce and vinegar in the shop downstairs. I think I can give you pocket money. I'll give you 2 yuan a month, and it's stipulated that you should arrange to buy your daily necessities except books and clothes. I said, you can use them all at once, or you can use them as needed, but I won't buy you what you want after using them.
You always make good arrangements. You even saved money and bought me a base coat on my birthday. I will wear it for ten years.
When you entered the first grade at the age of five, it was stipulated in our city that you can go to school at the age of seven. In order to make you walking to school by yourself, I gave up one of the best famous primary schools in our city (my father and sister are teachers of that primary school, and my registered permanent residence is there, and the principal has agreed to accept it), and I chose a new primary school that is closest to home and has just enrolled students in the first year.
I remember that night, I took you to the new headmaster's house for an exam. The headmaster couldn't refuse in person because of his kindness (I did find an acquaintance). However, when he saw a little one coming in, he frowned and said, how can you go to school at such a young age? He doesn't know anything! You said to the headmaster unconvinced: Principal, you are wrong. I don't know everything. Don't believe you test me!
The headmaster became interested in this self-righteous little guy. He asked your name and age in English first, and you answered like a stream, because the headmaster didn't know it. I have shown you Disney cartoons in pure English every day since you were three years old. I used this to cultivate your sense of language.
Then the headmaster took out a book for you to read. Wow, didn't the headmaster deliberately make it difficult for us? Let a 5-year-old child refer to the San Zi Jing? And read from the place he specified. I didn't expect you to have a plan, read it at one breath, and looked at the headmaster's surprised expression, and you smiled proudly!
Who knows that the headmaster is not dead? He added and subtracted three digits and two digits to make you do mental arithmetic. Who knows that you worked out the correct answer without wasting any effort. Finally, the headmaster laughed and said, I'll take this student, and let the best teacher teach her. Don't waste it!
The day before school, I told you that going to school is your own business. I have taught you to use the alarm clock before, and you have learned to tell the time long ago. I showed you the way to school, including one of the small roads. I taught you all the ways to pay attention to safety. I said that on the first day, I was responsible for sending you to school. From now on, you must listen to the alarm clock to get up, wash your face and get dressed, pick up your schoolbag, go to school by yourself.
Every morning, you get up, run to the balcony to try the weather, and then decide how many clothes you want to wear. After washing, you go to school with your bag on your back, and say goodbye to your parents before you go out. Often, I get up after you leave!
I remember one day, it was raining heavily outside. When I watched you walking carefully in the rain with an umbrella on the balcony, I suddenly burst into tears. I don't know if I am a cruel mother, but I know that I must cultivate your independence from an early age for your future.
I haven't checked your homework (except your composition) since your first day at school. Because you read the words early, you don't need me to read the questions, let alone explain the meaning of the questions, so I never watch you do your homework, and sometimes you don't finish your homework, or you don't finish it well, so let the teacher criticize you. I didn't even help you with the dictation. You wrote it by yourself.
You sometimes miss things before going to school. You don't have a notebook when taking dictation in class. Although I go to work not far from your school, I have never tried to send you something that you missed, because I hope you will take your own responsibility. Many times, you have to borrow your classmates' paper to finish dictation.
the worst time, one month before the exam in the second grade, you actually lost your schoolbag because of fun. When I learned about this, I could have lectured, scolded and punished my children like other mothers, and then tried to buy or borrow textbooks for my children, but I didn't!
I didn't scold you. On the contrary, I expressed my sympathy. Without books, how troublesome it is to attend classes and do homework. You can buy schoolbags and notebooks with your pocket money, but I said that there is nothing you can do about books. You can only solve the problem by yourself. I am ready to make you do badly in the exam. I want you to bear the consequences of your actions!
You can't help it. Because there are no books, you can only listen more carefully and remember what the teacher said in class than usual. But because there are no books to do your homework at home, you have to use the textbooks to finish your homework during recess, so you lose time to go out and play with your classmates. You have tasted the consequences of being careless.
to my surprise, your final exam was 1 points in all three subjects, yes, it was really 1 points in the subject, but I know that you worked hard. I didn't punish you or help you when you made mistakes. You learned what you should have learned from your mistakes.
I've been cultivating your independent thinking ability. I never told you to be obedient. On the contrary, I said that even when both parents and teachers are at fault, you should learn to think for yourself, because you start reading early and your values are established relatively early. So when you meet something, including problems in your study, I almost never tell you the answer directly. I use questions to guide you to think and let you find the answer yourself.
Teachers in lower grades like to give content and words when teaching composition, so that students can follow the gourd painting gourd ladle, or even connect words into sentences. Let me tell you clearly, mom doesn't like you like this. You can't write according to the teacher's instructions. You want me to write my heart by hand. If the teacher gives you low marks, mom will give you extra points. If it is an article written without your own thinking, mom wants you to rewrite it.
I forbid you to read the essays of primary school students. I don't want those essays to bind your thinking. So your articles have various genres, such as playing with mud, fighting with children, beggars, and all kinds of interesting things. One year, on Teachers' Day, Zhanjiang Daily wrote an essay, and others wrote about the teacher's hardships, which was melodramatic and heavy, but you did the opposite, writing an article "Me and Mis"