I used to feel inferior 1 I used to be a child with inferiority, but my parents didn't realize my inferiority.
I didn't realize my inferiority complex at that time. I just like to find a corner in group activities and lose the liveliness of schoolwork time. Even if someone invites me, I shake my head and wave my hand for fear of dragging my feet. The students were very disappointed and walked away one by one.
I was still in a daze in the corner when my classmates came in. He was the only one who handed me a bottle of water and said, "Why don't you attend?"? With your strength, it is easy to win. " "I, I am afraid of dragging my feet." I looked down. "What is holding you back? Come on! As long as you try your best, there is nothing to regret. " I still hesitate. "Losing is not terrible. You have no confidence to participate in terrible things. " At that moment, my heart was clear. He understood me and my inner indomitable spirit. I beat myself for the first time because I got good grades in my class. (Original submission)
But my inferiority complex has not been completely cured. In street dance class, it's still the same. Even if you are performing, you will be in a daze in the corner, afraid of making mistakes when you perform on stage. The teacher said, "Go ahead, it won't matter." So, I went up. In the end, the performance was very successful. I think the teacher is a person who can read my mind. I didn't expect other students to make mistakes, so I felt inferior again, thinking a question in my heart: "Is inferiority contagious?" My classmates and teachers seemed to see something, and they all earnestly advised me to change my mind. They understand me and my inner desire not to fail and pursue success.
At that time, my street dance class had an activity outside, and the teacher sent me to exercise me. "hello! ..... "I haven't finished greeting, and the next sentence hasn't come out. He seems to be complaining about the unfairness of heaven like a machine gun, and he stomps his feet from time to time. After that, he said to me angrily, "What do you want to say?" I resisted the urge to cry. "You stepped on my foot ..." So I felt inferior again. I'm afraid to talk to strangers.
My inferiority complex is influenced by my parents. My inferiority complex is called by my parents: I have no opinion.
I will never forget: I once felt inferior. And those who read me.
I used to feel inferior. Maybe many people feel inferior at a young age for one reason or another. Until now, standing at the age of twenty, I still feel like an ordinary person with average looks and qualifications.
But what does it matter? Although I was born mediocre, I have a heart that wants to shine.
Even Haruki Murakami feels inferior: "As a teenager, I have always felt inferior for this. I feel that I am a special existence in this world, but I have nothing that others should have. "
Therefore, inferiority is not terrible. Those who dare to admit their inferiority have never felt inferior. I am fat, yes, I am fat. What you said is just an objective fact, and there is nothing to hide (my flesh can't stop me anyway).
But just because I am fat now doesn't mean I will be fat all my life. Just because I'm fat doesn't mean I'm not smart in reading, and it doesn't mean I'm incompetent. Just because I'm poor now doesn't mean I can't afford high-end products in the future; Just because I'm short now doesn't mean that I'll be so tall all my life (you forget that I'm only 15), nor does it mean that I can't increase invisibly (insoles and high heels).
I didn't know what inferiority complex was when I was a child. Only when playing with friends, parents get together and say to other friends, "Wow, this skin is super white and really bursting;" Yours is not bad either, long-legged handsome.
When it comes to me, it is: "Your children will study hard, and they will definitely be able to go to famous universities in the future, which will have university prospects." I didn't know the situation at that time, but my heart was full of joy. Anyway, I didn't lose, and I was praised.
In my memory, the only time an uncle praised my long and straight legs and said to my father, "Your daughter will definitely not have to worry about size in the future." At that time, I was very happy. I ate three bowls of rice every meal for many years, because I couldn't delay my growth because of lack of nutrition.
However, with the growth of age, I found that my peers have entered adolescence, and their voices and physiology have changed for a long time. Only then did I find that I didn't seem to have experienced puberty, otherwise why didn't my height change at all?
The once unique pride is gone. ...
Without my beauty, I have to study hard and write hard. Write your innermost words in words. Until I went to a good university, I could also support myself by writing.
In fact, everyone has inferiority complex. When you get through that gloomy period and turn your attention to other places until you do well, you will say, "I have an inferiority complex."
When you find yourself feeling inferior, don't blame others blindly, blame God for being unfair, and blame your parents for not posing to cultivate you. But to face up to your inferiority complex. If your inferiority complex can be changed (such as your bad temper), then abandon it. If you can't change it, you can be excellent in other aspects. Others will cast envious eyes, and you can shine.