1, the rest of your life is not that long, and you don't have to pay blindly. If you are used to pushing your luck, please be loyal to yourself and live as you were.

2, life is short, living is a very difficult thing, why bother to please others. In fact, what we should love most is ourselves.

3. Don't be too shy. You can refuse what you don't want to do. Don't be forced to do what you can't do. Pretend not to hear if you don't like it. Your life is not to please others, but to be kind to yourself.

Apart from birth, illness and death, there are very few really important things in life. There is no need to frown over trifles, and there is no need to argue with villains. Remember to be nice to yourself.

5, dear yourself, don't care too much about some people, care too much about some things, let nature take its course and face everything with the best attitude, because the world is like this, and many times we will look worthless in front of what we care about.