I published a passage in the signature of qq (not in the dynamic) "If you hate hurting people the least, even if it's just a joke, if you are serious.
The more you do this, the less people will care about your feelings. If you treat them as friends, tell them that you hate these jokes. If you don't treat them as friends, I will scold them directly. Anyway, my friends basically know which jokes won't be told to me. Of course it doesn't hurt me. hope this helps