Don't waste your attention. Has your meta-understanding improved? Are you doing something more important?
1. Outlook on life refers to a person's lifestyle. 2. Values refer to what is more important? What's the most important? 3. World outlook refers to the overall situation. Up to now,
1. There are two lifestyles here, one is self-centered and "loved"; One is a lifestyle that is self-centered and "loves". The former is the way of life in childhood, and the latter is the way of life in the adult world. The so-called correct outlook on life means to develop a lifestyle of "loving". This way of life means that a person can take on his own responsibilities, will not easily ask for and complain, and can take the initiative to contribute.
? 2. Values, what is more important as defined by Li Xiaolai? What's the most important? However, this definition is easily reminiscent of comparison. In fact, it is not comparing at all, but reminding us to think deeply, recognize what is the most important thing, and then stare at it.
? For example, money, time and attention, the correct order is: attention > time > money. For example, spending money can save time for ourselves, and spending time to save money for ourselves, we should decisively choose to spend money to save time. Because the value of time is higher than money. Similarly, in terms of time and attention, we should make a decisive choice and take time to save our attention. The same is true when you are in love. To judge whether a person really likes you is not to see how much money he spends on you, but to see whether he spends time on you, and what's more, to see whether his attention is spent on himself.
? We can imagine that if this order, or your values are not like this, but come in the opposite direction, this is not just a question of freedom or not, personal choice is not personal choice, but there will be many problems in life.
for another example, in a family relationship, the correct values are: husband-wife relationship > parent-child relationship > parent relationship
and in education: people > environment > when we say that a person's values are incorrect, we mean that there is a dislocation in the order, and most of the problems we encounter are in these unclear orders or compromises on the correct values.
? There are many things like "greater than the number" just written. Behind this "greater than the number", it is not as simple as wishful thinking about different values, but deep thinking and growth.
For a child, he will think that poor teachers and poor environment are the decisive factors for my poor study, but one day he will understand, or be taught by others, that "self" is the most important factor.
? A few days ago, for example, the high-scoring kid who was admitted to a university in Tsinghua, many people dug up three generations of his ancestors, the kindergarten he attended and the kindergarten teachers. Even, I want to send my children there. With my toes, I can understand that there must be the last one in that child's class, and they are definitely not all admitted to Tsinghua University. Didn't they grow up with the same teacher and the same environment? You send your children there, why should you take the Tsinghua University exam?
? In our words, there are problems with the underlying values, teachers' problems and environmental problems, but the most important "people" problem is ignored. ?
? 3. To improve your world outlook, a better direction is to study economics and finance. Economics and finance can make us look at a problem from a higher dimension, instead of following the crowd or guessing by ourselves.
Take the breakup between Fan Bingbing and Jerry Lee two days ago. Many people will scold Jerry Lee as love rat, and some people will lament "love", saying that there is no love in the entertainment circle, only acting.
If you have a little perspective, you can easily imagine how old Jerry Lee and Fan Bingbing are this year. How old were they when they broke into the Jianghu? It is not an exaggeration to say that they have more life experiences and experiences than many 9-year-old grandfathers.
even if it rises to the level of "love", this "love" may not be the same as your imagined love. On the other hand, is Fan Bingbing really that shy golden lock now? She's a real boss with assets over 1 million. Will she have nothing to do with you?
To sum up, in fact, I haven't made much efforts in the world outlook, but I just found a learning direction. More time is spent on polishing the outlook on life and values.
So, many times, when reading articles, novels or big events, we will subconsciously use outlook on life and values to benchmark.
? These are the three views to be discussed today, but in real life, many of us have different views. Of course, we can't simply say who is right or wrong. The question is, how do we get along with people with different views?
-Hakka said that the movie
"Three Provinces" means asking themselves three questions every day: 1. Did you waste your attention today? 2. Have you polished your metacognitive ability? 3. What is more important? What's the most important?
These three questions come from the column "The Road to Wealth Freedom". The reason why I want to ask these three questions is that if you want to get to wealth freedom, you must ask yourself these three questions every day. Otherwise, no matter who you are, you can't get real wealth freedom.
1. Did you waste your attention today? Attention is our most precious resource. All growth and all output depend on attention, just like the "three great pits of attention" mentioned earlier. If a person pays attention to "joining in the fun, worrying blindly and following the crowd" every day, how can he grow and gain? All growth comes from the use of attention. Therefore, it is extremely necessary for us to reflect on the use of attention, that is, ask ourselves every day: Have we wasted our attention today?
2. Have you polished your metacognitive ability? The so-called metacognitive ability is the cognition and understanding of one's own thinking process.
? The definition of "I" in western psychology is that I am my observer. Metacognitive ability is a bit similar to this, that is, jumping out and observing your own thinking process to see if it is correct and logical.
? The process of polishing and functioning metacognitive ability is as follows: I used to think like this (now). Is it wrong to say so? I should think like this ... (keep going round and round until I find the right thinking)
It's hard for us to think about how a person with a unclear mind who talks nonsense all day can achieve ultimate success. Trump is a person with poor metacognitive ability. From his recent speech, we can see that he has not started his metacognitive ability and reflected on his own thinking. Is it a problem to say so? If yes, what should I think and do ...
? 3. What is more important? What's the most important? This question is kept asking, in fact, it is polishing one's own values, which is also the definition of values.
? We should keep asking ourselves this question anytime, anywhere. What is more important and what is the most important?
then, do the most important thing. There is no choice in life. As long as you have a choice, you must ask yourself, "What is more important and what is the most important?"
From the perspective of choice, we often say that "everything is the best arrangement" has a profound explanation. In my opinion, the so-called everything is the best arrangement, which refers to those arrangements after making a profound choice, doing everything possible and resigned to fate. It's not the best arrangement to listen to destiny directly, it's just self-consolation of speculation.
And behind it, I keep asking myself: What is more important and what is the most important?
Look at the title "The Road to Wealth and Freedom", and then look at these three questions. Are you like me, and suddenly find the connection between them?
-Hakka speaking movies