Guan Zhong was a native of Qi in the Spring and Autumn Period. He is handsome, knowledgeable and knowledgeable, and has the ability to help the country and the world.
When he was young, he did business with Bao and made money. Guan Zhong always took more.
Everyone is very angry. Bao said, "Guan Zhong is not a greedy man. He took more because his family was poor. I am willing to let him take more. "
After that, Guan Zhong joined the army. Every time he fought, he shrank behind and retreated ahead. Others called him a coward, and Bao stepped forward to stop others from laughing at him, saying that Guan Zhong did this because he had an old mother who needed his support.
Guan Zhong was very moved by these words and said, "My parents gave birth to me, but it is Bao Shu Ya who really understands me!" From then on, the two of them became friends of life and death.
It is said that Qi Xianggong has two sons. The eldest son is Jiao and his mother is from Shandong. The youngest son is Xiao Bai, and his mother is from Juguo.
Guan Zhong said to Bao, "After death, either Jiao succeeded to the throne or he succeeded to the throne. At this moment, we will be Jiaohe's teachers, and no matter who is the monarch, we will recommend each other. "
Second, Liszt accepts students.
There is a girl who is going to give a concert. The poster says that she is a student of Liszt.
The day before the performance, Liszt appeared in front of the girl at the moment.
The girl was frightened and sobbed, claiming that she had no livelihood and asking for forgiveness.
Liszt asked her to give him her bullet and give him some advice. Finally, she said brightly: "Come on stage and act boldly. You are my student now.
You can announce to the theater manager that the last program of the party will be played by the teacher for the students.
"Liszt played the last song at the concert.
Tolerance is a kind of wisdom and strength-Mr Tao Xingzhi's four sweets
As early as more than half a century ago, Mr. Tao Xingzhi infiltrated the idea of democracy and tolerance into his educational practice and made it play a wonderful role.
When Mr. Tao Xingzhi was the principal, one day he saw a boy hitting his classmate with a brick, so he stopped him and told him to go to the principal's office.
When President Tao returned to the office, the boy was already waiting there.
Tao Xingzhi took out a candy for this classmate: "This is a reward for you, because you got to the office before me.
Then he took out another candy and said, "This is for you, too." I won't let you hit your classmates. You stop at once, which shows that you respect me. "
The boy took the second candy in doubt, and Mr. Tao added, "As far as I know, you beat your classmate because he bullied girls, which shows that you have a sense of justice. I will reward you with another candy. "
At this time, the boy was moved to tears and said, "Principal, I was wrong. If my classmates are wrong again, I can't take this approach. "
Mr. Tao then took out another candy: "You have admitted your mistake, and I will reward you with another piece."
I ran out of candy and our conversation was over. "
Fourth, Napoleon's tolerance
Napoleon developed the virtue of tolerating others in his long military career.
As the commander-in-chief of the whole army, it often happens to criticize soldiers, but every time he is not domineering, he can take care of the soldiers' emotions.
Soldiers often readily understand his criticism and are full of love and gratitude to him, which greatly enhances the combat effectiveness and cohesion of his army and becomes a powerful force in the European continent.
In the battle to conquer Italy, the soldiers worked hard.
Napoleon patrolled the post at night.
During the patrol, he found a patrolling soldier leaning against a big tree and falling asleep.
Instead of waking the soldiers, he picked up a gun and stood up for him. About half an hour later, the sentry woke up from a deep sleep. He recognized his supreme commander and was very scared.
Napoleon was not angry. He said kindly to him, "my friend, this is your gun." You have worked hard and walked such a long way. Sleeping can be forgiven and tolerated, but at present, a moment's negligence may ruin the whole army.
I'm not sleepy, so I stood for you for a while. I'll pay attention next time. "
Napoleon didn't swear, didn't reprimand loudly, and didn't put on airs as a marshal. Instead, he criticized the soldiers' mistakes with a serious and gentle breeze and drizzle.
With such a generous marshal, how can soldiers not fight bravely? If Napoleon did not tolerate soldiers, it would only increase their sense of resistance, lose his prestige among soldiers and weaken the combat effectiveness of the army.
Verb (abbreviation for verb) Peng measures magnanimity.
More than 30 people, including Peng, commander-in-chief of the Third Army of the Red Army, inspected the terrain ahead, and the messenger shouted out of the way while holding the red flag.
Only one soldier sat still.
Peng shouted a few words when he saw someone in the way.
The soldier stood up and gave General Peng two punches.
Mr. Peng told him to hurry.
Later, the messenger tied up the soldiers and went to see General Peng.
General Peng immediately told him to go back. The soldiers knew that they were in trouble and they were afraid. He was deeply moved to see that General Peng was indifferent. Then he said to everyone, "The commander-in-chief is really generous!"
Six, the story of "three feet lane"
During the reign of Kangxi in Qing Dynasty, there was a college student named Zhang Ying.
One day, Zhang Ying received a letter from home, saying that her family had an argument with her neighbor in order to fight for a three-foot wide homestead, and asked him to use his power to smooth the relationship and win the lawsuit.
After reading the letter, Zhang Ying smiled indifferently, wrote a letter with a pen, and attached a poem: What's wrong with paper books just for going to the wall? The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but I haven't seen Qin Shihuang.
After getting a reply, the family gave up the three-foot homestead.
Neighbors learned that they also gave way to the three-foot homestead.
As a result, it became Liuchi Lane, and this story of turning an enemy into a jade has been passed down to this day.
Paper books are just walls, so what's wrong with letting them be three feet? The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but Qin Shihuang is not there.
Seven, Zheng Banqiao and the thief
It's raining at night, and the gentleman on the beam enters our door.
There are thousands of poems in the belly, but there is no gold or silver at the bedside.
Don't provoke the yellow-tailed dog when going out, and don't damage the blue flowerpot when climbing over the wall.
It's better to dress cold and catch up with the giant while the moon is on.
Zheng Banqiao, one of the Eight Eccentrics in Yangzhou, is a famous writer, painter and calligrapher.
He was dismissed because he opened a warehouse to help the victims without authorization when he gave an order in Wei County, but his body and mind were freed, with a bright moon on his shoulders and clean hands. He only brought a yellow dog, boxes of books and a pot of orchids, and settled in Yangzhou leisurely.
One night, it was cloudy and rainy in Mao Mao.
After a hard day's work, people have fallen asleep, but Zheng Banqiao can't. Suddenly, when he heard the door rustling, he saw a thief flash into the room. Banqiao was a little panicked and wanted to call for help, but he was afraid of annoying the thief and asked for it.
On further consideration, I came up with this plan.
Whispering; It's raining at night, and the gentleman on the beam enters our door.
The thief who was busy looking for the object thought it was broken and the owner found it.
Just turned to go, and listen to the chanting; There are thousands of poems in the belly, but there is no gold or silver at the bedside.
The thief knows that he is a poor man who can only read, so he'd better run away and turn around to be reminded by some listeners. Don't mess with the yellow-tailed dog when you go out.
The thief thought, the gate can't go.
Let's jump over the wall and run
At this time, I listened to the warning in the room; Don't go through the wall and damage the orchid flowerpot.
The thief looked up and found a potted orchid on the wall.
So he jumped over the wall to avoid the blue flowerpot.
I just want to shrink down and jump down and listen to the loud chanting in the room; It's better to dress cold and catch up with the giant while the moon is on.
Thieves listen to music.
What a kind gentleman of poetry and calligraphy.
Eight, Picasso did not care about fake paintings pretending to be his works, and never paid attention to them.
When you see the fake he painted, you can only erase the forged signature at most.
"Why should I make a fuss?" Picasso said: "People who fake paintings are either poor painters or old friends.
I'm Spanish. I can't embarrass my old friends.
Moreover, the experts who identify the original work have to eat, and I have nothing to lose. "
Nine, the prime minister can punt in his stomach.
Shu in the Three Kingdoms period appointed Jiang Wan to preside over the state affairs after Zhuge Liang's death.
One of his subordinates is Yang, who is withdrawn and speaks slowly.
When Jiang Wan talked to him, he only answered.
Someone didn't like it, and muttered in front of Jiang Wan: "It's outrageous that Yang is so rude to you!" Jiang Wan smiled indifferently and said, "Everyone has his own temperament.
It's not in Yang's nature to praise me to my face. Let him criticize me in front of everyone, and he will feel ashamed of me.
Therefore, he had to keep silent.
In fact, this is his valuable place.
"Later, someone praised Jiang Wan," the prime minister can punt in his stomach ".
After X. Lee was humiliated,
After Li and Faye Wong got married, their first child was born with cleft lip and palate.
They jointly initiated the establishment of the Ranyan Angel Foundation to actively raise medical funds for more poor children with cleft lip and palate.
On that day, as usual, Li began to hand out leaflets when the plane was about to land, because everyone was awake and didn't want to disturb them.
When he politely handed the leaflet to a man, an unexpected scene happened: the man dropped the leaflet on the ground without looking at everyone, posing as if he were dismissive.
Li was startled. That was the first time he was humiliated in public! He was so angry that he wanted to argue with him, but he finally held back.
I saw him take a deep breath, try to calm his emotions and pick up the leaflet, thinking that people may be in a bad mood now and don't like being disturbed. They are doing charity, can't they be generous? So he smiled and said to the man, "I'm sorry to bother you."
"As usual, he bowed slightly to him, and then continued to distribute leaflets politely-this time the man was shocked.
One day not long after, when Li was working in a foreign country, the office of their foundation suddenly called him and said that he had received a donation of 654.38 million yuan, but he didn't sign it. Only the words "I'm sorry" are written on the money order, which is puzzling.
However, Li knows who donated the money.
Extended data:
Tolerance is the most beautiful emotion, tolerance is a good state of mind, and tolerance is also a lofty realm. People who can tolerate others are as broad and transparent as the sky and as broad and deep as the sea. It is easy to tolerate their family, friends and acquaintances, because they are the people we love.
However, it is the most difficult to forgive those who have deeply hurt themselves or their enemies.
Tolerance is the most beautiful flower in human nature, and tolerance is the regulator of mental health.
People will always suffer, be misunderstood and be wronged in social communication. Faced with these, the wisest choice is to learn to be tolerant.
Tolerance is a good psychological quality; Tolerance is extraordinary tolerance and broad mind; Tolerance is a noble quality and lofty realm; Tolerance is a light of love and a supreme blessing; Tolerance is the wisdom of survival and the art of life.
It not only contains understanding and forgiveness, but also shows temperament and mind, strength and firmness.
A person who is intolerant but only demanding of others is often in a state of mental tension, which leads to nervous excitement, vasoconstriction and high blood pressure, thus leading to a vicious circle of psychology and physiology.