Education for children should be started from an early age, because what you teach a child when he is young will become what he is. For example, if you infect and educate a child with love, the child's heart will be full of love, and he will be full of goodwill towards everything in this world.

The letter written by a Japanese boy to his sister is on fire: Why are the Japanese never soft on education?

Once upon a time, a letter written by a little boy in Japan caught fire. This letter was addressed to his sister, but his sister never got a chance to hear it ... He grew up in an ordinary and happy family with a pair of loving parents.

Originally, the boy's mother was pregnant with a second child, and it was a girl. The whole family was full of joy waiting for the little princess. They prepared all kinds of beautiful little skirts for the little princess in advance, and the boy even practiced changing diapers and fantasized about the time when the family of four would play together in the future.

However, this dream was finally broken, and the child left the world before he was born. For a time, the whole family was shrouded in the shadow of sadness, and so was the little boy, but he was afraid to show it, because he was afraid that his parents would feel even more sad when they saw that he was sad, so he turned this feeling into a letter, My Angel Sister: "You must be born well next time and do all kinds of things together. I have a sister who has become an angel and is very, very important to me. "

This letter shows the boy's sadness and yearning in a few words, which is not a letter describing death, but a postcard comforting "You and I will travel separately in heaven and earth in the future, and see you soon".

What a gentle and kind mind can do. In this case, the boy showed his strong sense of responsibility and consideration for his parents. Such strong empathy is exactly what many children lack, and it is also the result of high quality education.

What's the difference between education in China and Japanese education?

The difference between "soft-hearted" and "cruel"

Parents in China are worried about their children, and they want to be guardians of their children all their lives. Therefore, there are still many children in their families who are 3-4 years old and still don't work as neets, and parents can't bear to go out to suffer hardships. Some parents have bought old-age insurance for their children. They hope that even if they are gone, their children will receive pensions in the future.

However, education in Japan is very cruel. For example, the little princess of the royal family has to carry her own schoolbag when she goes to school every day, and her parents never do it for her. In China, parents usually drive the most luxurious car at home and help their children carry their schoolbags to the car for one-stop service.

Because they think that "there is nothing wrong with giving children the best", while Japanese parents think that "only when they are young, they can eat more bitter than others, and when they grow up, they can enjoy more sweetness than others".

The difference between focusing on achievements and focusing on quality

Japanese people have to learn to work by themselves since childhood. Children in kindergartens eat food that teachers lead them to plant in vegetable fields. Their education on environmental protection has reached an almost crazy level. When they see a petal on the ground, they can walk around the road without stepping on it.

They also carried out garbage sorting many years ago. Children can master how to sort garbage from the time they are sensible. The main purpose is to maximize the use of all resources. In terms of currency, the characters printed on banknotes in general countries are all printed with politicians, but the Japanese banknotes are printed with literati and scholars.

It is in this environment of paying attention to details that Japanese education has done so well. Up to now, China still focuses on exam-oriented education. Many parents pay more attention to whether their children will succeed when they grow up. Some parents even bluntly say to their children, "Just do your study well and don't consider anything else."

Every country has its own main educational methods. Parents can learn from each other's strong points and learn from their excellent points in the process of educating their children, so that their children can become more excellent.