Let me remind you first that autism needs a doctor's diagnosis. If you think you have autism at present, you can talk to a doctor first, and then you can have a targeted method.
The following is my opinion:
The first autistic person I came into contact with was my brother, who was severely autistic.
To me, he is like a child, living in his own world, very simple. When he was a child, he was bored and unresponsive, but the more he grew up, the more he envied him. Because we were all changed by the world, he still focused on his own world, very happy and simple.
Although he has autism, he is very able to identify who is good to him. He never looks people in the eye or dares to look them in the eye, but he will express his goodwill in his own way, such as holding my hand. If you take him to the dentist, he will shrink back in fear. Every time he leaves home, he is reluctant to let go. He never talks, because autism keeps him away from people, but if he thinks you are nice to him, he will come over.
I don't know. What's he thinking? Will he envy others, too I don't know. I haven't heard him speak for nearly 30 years. I wonder if he, who never talks, is also eager to talk.
To tell the truth, I don't have deep feelings with him. After all, there is no way to have much communication.
But the elders around him like him very much. The older I get, the more I like him. Maybe I feel the same way. I unconsciously feel close to him, because he has a simple trust like a baby. He never loses confidence or doubts himself. He is loved like a child, as if he had never joined the WTO.
The second autistic person I know is my primary school classmate, with mild autism.
He has the same temper as his peers and is very skinny. Because of autism, it is difficult to communicate with people. The specific impact is that teachers will find it difficult to manage.
But as a classmate, to be honest, I don't feel anything, because I am his classmate, I will only play with him, and I will think he is very interesting and cool.
My third contact is my student, a member of the autism spectrum, who suffers from mild Asperger's disease and is easily stimulated out of control.
It should be easy for you to see that I am no stranger to autism. Because of my childhood experience, I was not bothered when I met this student.
The child is very lucky. His mother volunteered for him in relevant institutions and intervened early before he was six years old. So, on him, I obviously feel the impact of only two points:
1, avoid irritating him (harsh or loud), and deal with it as soon as possible if it is stimulated.
2. Do a good job in the ideological work of other students and parents and create a friendly environment.
Many parents actually exclude their children from being in the same class as autistic students. More precisely, these parents usually exclude their children from students who are "not good at learning, being naughty or hyperactive" and stay in the same class with them.
I usually say this:
Autism has specific symptoms and coping methods. In fact, as long as you know his needs, you will get along well. More importantly, children should learn to get along with all kinds of people in order to learn to be considerate and gain resilience. In my class, this is a good practice opportunity. I will act as a lubricant to protect them and let them communicate safely.
In fact, as long as children know ... children are more likely to accept people who are different from themselves.
This is autism in my eyes.
Best wishes to you.
Hello, personal opinion.
First of all, it is correct to confirm that you have autism under clinical diagnosis. If you feel self-doubt, don't sit in the right place Once you really sit in it, the original fake will come true. The gain is outweighed by the loss. Make trouble for yourself.
If you have a diagnosis, but you are conscious, you must make adjustments under the guidance of a doctor. If you are sunny, you can also heal yourself. If it's not serious, since you can ask for help online, you can judge that your autism is not serious, which may be just a tendency. Go outside more and get along with relatives and friends. It is very important to ask yourself why you are autistic and what causes it. You must tie the bell to solve the problem. This principle is very applicable to mental illness. Don't scare yourself, the problem is not serious, because you don't know much, and sometimes the parties who are deeply involved will inexplicably bring great pressure to their hearts. Heart disease is caused by the complexity of the heart. In layman's terms, I think too much. You can adjust your thinking when you are free. Don't think like this all day. The happy day is over, and so is the unhappy day. Learn to make yourself happy. You don't care about yourself, and no matter how much others care, you can't be moved. I hope you are healthy and happy.
If you have autism, accept it, face it, and break through it with strong internal motivation and external fatigue. No matter what symptoms you have, you can choose a positive attitude towards life.
Autism patients, regardless of the degree of spectrum disorder or whether they have typical characteristics, are first of all a "person" like you and me. They are all people who have both weaknesses and advantages, and they are destined to achieve their own brilliance in the way they think fit. These are all facts, because if possible, the future of autistic people will be brighter than now.
First of all, you have to determine whether you meet the diagnostic criteria of autism. Don't label yourself easily. Some similar temperament is not necessarily a symptom of autism.
Autism, also known as autism spectrum disorder's and autism spectrum disorder, is a nervous system disorder characterized by social disorder, repetitive stereotyped behavior and narrow interest, including typical autism, childhood autism, Asperger's syndrome and high-functioning autism. Obstacles in social communication refer to the persistent defects in social communication and social communication in various environments, including the obstacles of interaction between society and emotion, the defects of nonverbal communication in social communication and the defects of developing, maintaining and understanding interpersonal relationships.
If it is mild autism, you can study and live normally as long as you guide it correctly. To carry out correct social skills training, we should change our cognition, treat our symptoms with a positive attitude and communicate with others more. Family environment is also very important. A relaxed and pleasant environment can relieve patients' symptoms and do more exercise and study.
Autism can lead a normal life after intervention. If the training effect after rehabilitation exercise is good, autism can live like a normal person. Autism should first straighten out its own thoughts, don't compare with other normal people, lower the standards first, and then slowly consider other issues such as learning skills after being able to take care of themselves and live independently.
I'm glad to answer your question. If you have autism, I suggest that your family guide him to find an interest, and a hobby is better.
1. Read books, learn knowledge and broaden your horizons.
2. Do more outdoor sports. Exercise is a kind of relaxation for his thoughts and emotions, and he is happy and confident in doing things.
3. Watching TV series, some humorous videos will stimulate his interest in life, thus improving his autistic mentality.
The above is how to improve your sharing of autism, I hope it will help you.
I'm Wang Jianhua, thank you!
Thank you for the platform invitation to answer.
I feel sad when I see this problem. Ordinary depression is very painful, let alone autism. Autism, another name is autism.
Personally, I think, first of all, don't let yourself fall into this whirlpool of autism, and worry about your autism every day. What should I do? This is counterproductive. On the contrary, you should think that I am a member of all beings.
Second, everyone has his own hobbies and people he likes to get along with. Do more things that make him happy, spend more time with comfortable people, and stay away from people and things that make you unhappy.
Third, don't care what others think of you. You are just a different fireworks. Don't care what others think.
Fourth, don't refuse people who care about you, but if this concern makes you uncomfortable, refuse it.
I hope my answer will help you, and I hope you can be happy every day. The outside world is big and wonderful, which is worth appreciating.
Autism is a mental illness, and autistic children are called "children of stars". Autistic children also have a unified feature: they rarely communicate with others and are willing to project their emotions on something they like or something. Most autistic children are emotionally unstable, and once their emotions break out, they tend to be violent.
God closes a door for you and will naturally open a window for you. Autistic children generally have special skills or skills, or are particularly prominent in a certain field.
Autism needs psychotherapy and medication! People with autism bear too heavy psychological burden. Heart disease needs heart medicine, and only you can really open the inner shackles. If you don't learn how to integrate into society and groups, if you don't adapt to the new environment, you choose to escape. Then autism will become more and more serious.
Therefore, trying to contact, trying to change, trying to communicate with people and trying to change the environment are all options, but this process will make you feel very painful.
In addition, it is also a good choice for you to identify your own advantages, dig deeper and make better achievements and contributions in your own unique field.
Hello! I'm glad to be invited to answer. First of all, I think I know I have autism. Not terrible. I must face the reality correctly. Relatives and friends are more concerned, go to a regular big hospital for further diagnosis and cooperate with doctors for treatment. Don't always stay at home, go out more, don't care about other people's eyes, just live your own life. Make an appointment with some friends and relatives and go out for fun. This autism is not terrible. Do what you like. Do it as long as you want. So you can get out of autism. I hope my answer can help you. thank you
Friends are good, and autism is annoying. If you have autism, find something you want to do at home, talk to your family more, and don't lock yourself up or hide. This will only make you very ill and make you feel better listening to music. It will get better slowly. I wish my friends a speedy recovery and get out of autism.