2. The life you choose is not what you want, but the cost of leaving is too high. When you are used to stability, you don't want to change, so you can make do with it. In fact, your life is over. We should take care of ourselves. The state of perfection is different between people, and everyone will be complete if they do everything they want to do well. So don't judge others, everyone is different, and only you are qualified to judge yourself.
3. Don't jump to conclusions. Even if you have the answer, you have to wait. Maybe there is a better solution. There are different answers from different angles. You should learn to put yourself in the other's shoes, especially when you are in trouble, you must learn to wait, take a look and wait and see. Many times, not only the trouble is solved, but also the good luck is coming.
4. people have different opportunities in this life, and people's understanding is a magical thing. Different understandings, the same environment, the same event may have many different results. Only when you let yourself enjoy the peace of life for a moment can you savor many things in the world and let your heart truly understand the true meaning of life.
5. a person, a lifetime, a road, with the growth of age, views, mentality will also change. Different environment breeds different people, different scenery affects different moods, and different attitudes will have different endings. Man struggles upwards, but water flows downwards. Only when you stand high can you see far.
6. shallow water is noisy, deep water is quiet, and if you want to achieve great things, learn to be calm. "A full bottle shakes half a bottle", the more capable people are, the lower their profile is, and the more stable they are. The bigger the task, the wider and more complex the people and things involved, and the more important it is to know yourself and know yourself. Low-key people are not easy to see through because they are good at hiding, and they are not easy to be guarded because of their ordinary appearance, and they are often in the initiative. Hold your breath, so don't move, better grasp the opportunity, and you will win.
7. Life is like a dream, and the years are ruthless. Looking back suddenly, I found that people are alive is a kind of mood. Be rich or poor, gain or lose. Everything is a thing of the past. Think about it, regardless of yesterday, today and tomorrow, it is a beautiful day to be suddenly enlightened. Regardless of family, friendship and love, it is a good mood to cherish it forever!
8. If you can't open it, just carry it. If you can't put it down, just remember. Reluctant, just keep it. One day ... I can't move my back, so I'll take it easy! I can't remember clearly, so I put it down! If you can't stay, you will be willing to give up! So don't care too much about some things. Turn a blind eye and it will pass. Cherish the people in front of you and do the things in front of you. Everything is beautiful! Remember, cloudy days don't necessarily rain.
9. No matter what the surroundings are like, no matter what the future is like, we should keep the essence of kindness. If you are kind, the world will be broad and others will be tolerant. We must have the heart to help others, the material is thick and thin, and the spirit is unlimited; There must be praise, good words make winter warm, and bad words make Xia Han; To have a pure eye, you can see that it is simple, and all beings are not complicated; There must be a helping hand, less icing on the cake, and more help in the snow; Be patient, you can get as much as you accept.
1. Desire is like sand in your hand. The tighter you hold it, the more you lose. Learn to let go and be willing to give up, and you can really get it. Gain and loss, but relatively speaking, you may be losing when you think you have it; When you feel lost, you may just get it. The so-called willingness to give up is to give up the obsession, give up the small and get the big, give up the false and keep the true, and give up the virtual and get the real. Look down on everything, take it easy, and let everything go as it pleases. If you don't want to gain, you don't have to lose.
11. If you don't take it to heart, it's called forbearance; if you take it to heart, it's not forbearance. Seeing this man do bad things, I often think in my heart, then you didn't bear it. What is forbearance? Don't take it to heart at all. Nothing in your heart is forbearance. Why not rest assured? All phases are false. The six great divisions in the wheel of karma is vain, don't take it to heart. -empty old monk
12. If you want to achieve greatness, you must first have the atmosphere. A man of great atmosphere is calm and fearless in tone, unpretentious in character, unassuming in manner, elegant in quietness, calm in movement and free and easy in behavior. People in the atmosphere, like a flower, have a long and elegant fragrance; Like a tree, its branches and leaves are lush and evergreen. People with great atmosphere can do their part with peace of mind, do what they are doing seriously, and don't fight for fame and fortune, and don't get entangled in money.
13. The meaning of life is to bear the responsibilities with your own beliefs. There is no unnecessary test in the world. As an old saying goes, a radish always has a pit, and as many dishes as there are guests, life has been prepared enough, and it is unnecessary to spend more time with fate. The fate can't be simpler. How can life be? It's a cool autumn.
14. We often live for others to see and stare at how others live. So, we put on a mask for ourselves, even if our hearts are very bitter and tired, the mask is still inlaid with an eternal smile; When we see smiles on other people's faces, we always suspect that they are wearing masks. In fact, happiness is your own, never take others as a reference, others can't do you, how can he know the road you have traveled and the joys and sorrows in your heart?
15. this is a simple insistence on life belief, calm in the face of years of oblique rain, and indifferent between balance and fate gains and losses. Peace of mind means peace in the world.
16. Keep your eyes open. Perhaps the difference between genius and ordinary people lies in a pair of eyes and a heart. For some things, some people can only see the surface and think of the present, while others can see the connotation and think of the future. Open your eyes, open your heart, and meet every opportunity in your life. I believe you will surely usher in the dawn of success!
17. It is not the years that make people mature, but the experience. The maturity of plants is the evolution of state; The maturity of life is the improvement of consciousness. Time has become a landscape and a face, but it can't make people grow naturally. The realm of life, only after the experience, how much you understand, how much you grow. Dare to travel, be quick to understand, and teenagers are heroes; If you waste your time and keep your mind shut, you will become an idiot. Life is ripe, and the mentality is indifferent.
18. Everything in life is not calculated, but good; I didn't ask for it, but I repaired it. The breadth of mind determines the pattern of fate, and you can have as much as you can tolerate. Everything is open-minded, thoughtful, affordable, and open-minded. Learn to forbear temperament, know how to restrain desires, be rational when retreating, be generous when being modest, get rid of distractions and selfishness, and be less concerned about comparison, so as to adapt to the situation.
19. With karma, first of all, we must know that people in the world are constantly changing due to karma, and love, hate, obedience, honor and disgrace will not last long and cannot be sustained. Secondly, we share the joys and sorrows, and learn from the fate. The former attitude and behavior affect the life experience after shaping. It is better to choose between good and evil carefully and carefully than to be overjoyed at the result. On the one hand, following fate means doing things wholeheartedly and contributing to the well-being of all beings; On the other hand, gains and losses come from fate, and the heart does not increase or decrease.
2 faithful to your art, you know no age, letting wealth and fame drift by like clouds.
bamboo sticks and sandals are lighter than horses. Who's afraid? A raincoat of coir raincoat, let the wind and rain, still live my life.
Bodhi has no trees, and the mirror is not a platform. There is nothing, so there is no dust.
and this is the way it always is with human joy, ten thousand things run for ever like water toward the east.
Everything depends on human effort, but nothing is fate. Circumstances are born from the heart, and it is natural to take a step back.
don't be surprised, just watch the flowers bloom in front of the court; Whether to stay or not is unintentional, and it is easy to follow the clouds outside the sky.