Refuse with words, refuse with WeChat, there are many ways for modern people to communicate, as long as you make it clear that you don’t love this person, tell him clearly.

Since you don’t love him, then don’t give him any chance to think that he can succeed. People’s enthusiasm will always be reduced step by step. Let him feel that it is impossible for you to have love for him, and naturally he will Just leave.

When a person is pursued by someone who does not love him, there are usually two ways to deal with it.

For those who are more indecisive, rejecting him is afraid that this person will be sad, but they do not want to wrong themselves and fall in love with him, and they do not want to see the other person being in so much pain, so they are more entangled in their hearts. , but at this time it happens to give the other party a subtle hint. He may feel that as long as you don't explicitly refuse, there is still a chance.

For those who are lonely and long for love, if there is no opposite sex you like for the time being, and a opposite sex appears who likes you and cares about you, you may temporarily regard this as a way to comfort yourself, take the initiative not to refuse, and silently Accept that the other person treats you well. You know how to hurt the other person and make him stop loving you, but you still choose to hesitate and maintain an ambiguous relationship with the other person.

If this is the case, if time goes on and you hurt the other person, you are also irresponsible to yourself. You regard the other person as a fish in the pond, and maybe one day you will also be someone else's fish. During this period, you meet someone of the opposite sex you like. If you are a person with a relatively high sense of morality, you may feel distressed by this, but you may also enjoy the ambiguity and give the other person hope, but you know that you are just It is not recommended to play tricks on him.

The best thing is to refuse decisively. Since you know that it is impossible for you and him, then don’t let the other person fall into this blind spot. Make a clear refusal and be responsible for yourself and others. Reject the other person for Everything you do, tell him clearly that there is no possibility between you. Falling in love is a matter between two people. If one of the parties is not satisfied, the relationship cannot be established.