Through the above analysis, we should be able to understand that idolatry is a normal psychological need and behavior for middle school students or some teenagers, but we should grasp the discretion:
1. Don't worship blindly. What you worship should be truly worthy of your worship, not superficial, but with noble character and extraordinary tolerance; It should not only attract your eyes, but also shock your heart.
2. Not crazy worship. Don't waste time and money on idolatry. Because the star's aura should not cover you, and idolization has nothing to boast about, let alone become the whole of your life.
3. Abandon the narrow mind. There are similarities and differences between the idols worshipped by friends. We should not be exclusive or even hostile to others because of the differences in idols.
4. Be good at learning positive life experiences from idols you worship.
5. Pay more attention to the people around you, parents, grandparents. They pay for you and should put all their love on them.
6. Correct your relationship with the star and think that you are paying for the star. Stars don't know you at all and don't care about you.
In short, don't lose yourself in idolization, because you can only be yourself in the end. Nothing will change.
Many middle school students can be called "groupies". From movie stars Chow Yun Fat and Maggie Cheung ... singers Madonna and Jackson ... and then stars Michael Jordan and Ronaldo ... these "stars" are shining and charming in the eyes of fans. For the star he chases, or the idol he worships, middle school students watch every movie he stars in, listen to every song he sings, and even less participate in the competition. Not only that, they also frantically buy albums and records of idols and collect all the information about idols; From birth marks, height and weight, hobbies, clothing brands to love history. ......
Adults are confused and even disgusted with the idolization of middle school students. But the fans are full of specious, never tired. This is actually related to the psychological characteristics of middle school students of this age:
(1) worship psychology. Most of the stars chased by middle school students are handsome and charming, and most of them play the iron man who is brave and resourceful and chivalrous. Women are ashamed of flowers falling in the moonlight, sinking fish and falling geese, and playing more charming, kind, gentle and graceful women; Stars also have heroic temperament, and they are more likely to have sex, which affects the overall situation on the field. These will inevitably make adolescent boys and girls envy, infatuate, worship, and even crazy.
(2) herd mentality. Among middle school students, idolatry is so common and powerful that those students who are not in much mood for idolatry have consciously or unconsciously entered this trend in order not to be regarded as "outdated" and "heresy".
(3) Fashion psychology. "Idolization" is a fashionable thing in the eyes of many middle school students. As for whether it is reasonable and valuable, why care so much? As long as there are "stars" to "chase" is enough.
Through the above analysis, you should be able to understand that idolatry is a normal psychological need and behavior for middle school students, but we should grasp the discretion:
1. Don't worship blindly. What you worship should be truly worthy of your worship, not superficial, but with noble character and extraordinary tolerance; It should not only attract your eyes, but also shock your heart.
2. Not crazy worship. Don't waste time and money on idolatry. Because the star's aura should not cover you, and idolization has nothing to boast about, let alone become the whole of your life.
3. Abandon the narrow mind. The idols worshipped by students have similarities and differences. We shouldn't be exclusive or even hostile to other students because of different idols.
4. Be good at learning positive life experiences from idols you worship.
In short, don't lose yourself in idolization, because you can only be yourself in the end.
Analysis of the phenomenon of campus groupies
Idolatry is a very common phenomenon in today's society. The word "groupies" is becoming more and more common, especially teenagers, who seem to be easily influenced by "idolization". In the crowd screaming for a star, we often see the faces of naive students. This phenomenon is really worrying-of course, total denial is too extreme, but the harm of idolization is also obvious.
Here's a question. What stars are the groupies chasing? Are these stars worth chasing? Looking at today's society, we can't help sighing that there are too many stars nowadays-sports stars, performing stars and even writers, and there are countless celebrities, and each "celebrity" often has a considerable number of fans, which is really worrying. Of course, there is nothing wrong with liking someone, but have you ever thought that these stars are really worth chasing? In fact, this example is not difficult to cite. Haven't you noticed that so many performing stars have been "fired" with special functions, which has attracted fans from all walks of life to wait and see. As a result, this so-called "new star" has no other advantages except a beautiful face and a good figure. Even so, fans will still be moved by its "external beauty" and be crazy about it-this kind of thing has long been common, and it is now. It should be noted that such victims are not others, but fans of "One Heart idolize". Those stars won't show you their happy faces when counting money. Perhaps the fundamental reason for them to enter the entertainment circle is not to pay, but to take-this is indeed a profitable business, isn't it? Sometimes, idols that fans wholeheartedly trust and worship may not all have professional ethics, but there will always be some unqualified stars with sunny surfaces!
Now let's talk about "groupies". In fact, idolization is also very tiring-singers hold concerts, and fans always arrive a few hours or even half a day in advance, just to see their idols as soon as possible, which is really commendable! How was the concert? The screams were deafening from the beginning to the end, which greatly drowned out the singer's singing. I'm afraid that after a concert, the fans' voices can't be restored for several weeks, and some fans will suddenly rush to the stage, pose as a souvenir, and even "can't stop" kissing. Too enthusiastic, it is not difficult to find that there are often many blindly idolized fans. This idolization tends to "do everything possible" for their idols, and they can catch up with them all the way-it has been reported that some fans catch up with Korean actress Kim Hee Seon by plane, train and bus just to see the true face of Kim Hee Seon! Moreover, some "groupies" get excited and gush when they mention their favorite stars. Their admiration and excitement are beyond words, and they can thoroughly analyze everything about a star in one breath. Even some groupies commit suicide for idols from time to time. What we ordinary people can do in this situation, I think, is just sighing and feeling ashamed. But imagine, as the main force of "groupies", if idolization reaches this level, can it be said that their main task-learning will not be affected? The fact is that it not only has an impact, but also has more negative effects. Here, we have to appeal that idolization should not be completely denied, but should definitely like a star. But now we are facing a serious problem: blind worship has become a serious social phenomenon, and its negative impact can not be ignored! There is nothing wrong with liking "a star", but there is a limit to everything!
Worship code
Through analysis, we should be able to understand that idolatry is a normal psychological need and behavior for middle school students or some teenagers, but we should grasp the discretion:
1. Don't worship blindly. What you worship should be truly worthy of your worship, not superficial, but with noble character and extraordinary tolerance; It should not only attract your eyes, but also shock your heart.
2. Not crazy worship. Don't waste time and money on idolatry. Because the star's aura should not cover you, and idolization has nothing to boast about, let alone become the whole of your life.
3. Abandon the narrow mind. There are similarities and differences between the idols worshipped by friends. We should not be exclusive or even hostile to others because of the differences in idols.
4. Be good at learning positive life experiences from idols you worship.
In short, don't lose yourself in idolization, because you can only be yourself in the end. Nothing will change.
A star, if he (she) wins the hearts of fans only by his (her) face and figure, then he (she) is not successful at all. What stands out between his (her) ability and appearance is only appearance, so what is he (she) worth worshiping? Winning by strength should be the reason why we like a star.
The vast number of "groupies" must be carefully considered!
The phenomenon of "groupies" among teenagers can not be ignored.
The so-called "groupies" refer to teenagers who chase and worship movie stars and sports stars. Students are the main force. Girls worship male stars more and boys worship female stars more. A key proofreader made a questionnaire survey of 900 students in the whole school. In the question of "Who do you admire most", 86% of the students filled in the question of "film and television singer". A selection activity was held in a certain area about the "Top Ten Youth Idols" in the minds of teenagers. Among the idols selected by teenagers, pop singers from Hong Kong and Taiwan won 9 seats, and Andy Lau topped the list. Only Lei Feng is
The only non-film singer selected. The results of this survey shocked the society and made people think. According to the psychological characteristics of teenagers, idolatry is one of the psychological characteristics of adolescence and a reflection of their psychological needs. As far as the law of life development stage is concerned, this phenomenon is not worth making a fuss about. Dialectically speaking, idolization has its positive side for teenagers, because forcing stars is a kind of social learning for teenagers. By observing and imitating stars, they have mastered a lot of knowledge about society and life, broadened their horizons and activated their thinking, especially their noble character. Can be a good role model for teenagers.
However, a few "groupies" blindly worship their idols and imitate them to the point of madness, fever and fainting, which will have adverse consequences and cause certain harm to their individuals and society. Some "groupies" take idols as their spiritual pillars and live in a fantasy world all day, which leads to psychological imbalance; Some "groupies" chase and block stars in public places to get their autographs, or crowd and shout desperately, which leads to disorder in public places and causes harm and destruction. Fans are obsessed with idolized stars, seeking happiness and spiritual sustenance, and shifting or reducing their interest in learning. They are not attentive in class. The first thing they do when they go home is to listen to records and watch TV. They don't study hard and finish their homework. Their academic performance has declined, and even they are tired of learning and abandon their studies, resulting in neglect of their studies. Some students worship stars too much and suffer from idolized "dreaminess". They are all junior high school students and are fascinated by the worship of Hong Kong and Taiwan stars. In their spare time, they concentrate on listening to Hong Kong and Taiwan songs, wear headphones when eating and walking, and often listen to late at night. Major activities such as reading and homework have been abandoned.
Soon, they are full of singers' shadows and fantasize that they can marry singers. They often suffer from insomnia, self-worry, headache, physical discomfort and psychological imbalance. Teenagers idolatry has psychological, social and cultural reasons. For psychological reasons, adolescence is a "dream season" full of dreams and curiosity. During this period, they need to set some ideal examples in their hearts and worship them as idols in order to get spiritual support.
Once students are found to have idolized behavior, teachers and parents need not worry too much or interfere. What teachers and parents should do is to understand and guide. Understanding means that teachers and parents should know which stars students are interested in, what aspects they are interested in, their skills, manners and behaviors, or their clothes and lifestyles. Only after a comprehensive understanding can we grasp what stars students are chasing and what they are chasing. Guidance means that teachers and parents take necessary measures after understanding students' interests in idolatry. After all, teenagers are young and lack of social experience, and their ability to distinguish right from wrong and control rights is still gradually taking shape. At this time, they need the correct guidance most.
How to guide? One is to guide students to learn the excellent quality and superb skills of stars, which is also the main content of teenagers' admiration and fascination with them. As for the dress and lifestyle of the stars, they are all personal hobbies and are not worth imitating. Everyone should have their own unique style. The second is to guide students to pay attention to the reasons for the success of stars. They became stars because of their unremitting efforts and enterprising spirit. What teenagers need to learn most is this enterprising spirit. The third is to ask students to learn obvious excellent qualities. The first is to learn the good and bad of stars, even their shortcomings. In today's society, it is difficult to guarantee that any star is a noble and civilized person. Some stars are even bad stars, including tax evasion, drug abuse, swearing, beating people and so on. There are also people who think they are arrogant. This requires teachers and parents to help teenagers improve their ability to distinguish right from wrong, so that students can learn something beneficial to their healthy growth without being affected by the negative qualities of stars. Fourth, we should guide young people to have a wide range of interests, and don't waste a lot of time and energy by taking idolization as their only interest. In fact, in our life, stars are far more than movie stars and sports stars. There are also many stars in science, politics, thought and technology ... they bring us greater happiness and wealth and are worth learning. Fifth, according to the situation, cultivate one or two teenagers' specific hobbies, such as music, dance, sports, model airplane, collection, production and so on. This can appropriately cool teenagers' interest in idolization. This will also enable them to smoothly transfer their energy and time to healthy and beneficial interests.
Don't idolize blindly!