1. Talent
An attractive man should be talented. The so-called talent means being knowledgeable, talented, knowledgeable, courteous, gentle and enthusiastic, and having a prosperous career. And this kind of talent is not just a bag of embroidery pillows, something that can be looked at but not used. It should be recognized in career, family and society, just like a potential stock that can continue to increase in value. Talented men are more attractive as they mature, and age is a sign of unlimited charm for them. Such a man must be a man who is no longer young. He has experienced ups and downs in the years, and the vicissitudes of the years have faded away from the vigor of his youth. At this time, he was more like a glass of mellow wine. Mature men have more stability and peace, and will think twice before acting when encountering problems. They have gone through vicissitudes of life, and they have accumulated their experiences of failure and success into their own unique wisdom. Their mentality has become calmer, and they have gained more confidence. At this time, each of them has a unique charm. Manifest! Our beloved Premier Zhou Enlai is such a man. He will always be the most charming man in people's hearts.
For example, if the charming Jay Chou had not become famous, no one would have given him a second glance when walking on the street. But now, Jay Chou is probably the dream lover of countless girls. Is he handsome? I don't think so. What's really attractive about him is his charming personality and his musical talent. An attractive man should know how to be humble. Exaggerated men are very annoying! Self-righteous men are even more disgusting! If you have talent, don't think too highly of yourself. I remember what a successful person said, "People only have qualities, not levels."
2. Frankness
Frankness is the foundation of being a human being. A frank man has clear likes and dislikes, and clear love. Where do I love and where do I hate? What are the flaws and flaws? A man who is cheerful and angular will soon win the trust of a woman. A man who is vague and sloppy makes a woman upset. A man who hides his head and shows his face, pretending to be mysterious and serious makes women uneasy the most, and they gradually lose their patience. . An honest man should be loving. Love is something that everyone should have, whether it is a man or a woman, caring for the world and helping the weak are all sincere love! A man should know how to shed tears of emotion. These tears do not mean that you are weak, but prove that you have a frank and kind heart.
A frank and confident man dares to face life head-on and believes in his own strength. He can overcome no matter how difficult or painful it is. A man should be honest to both young and old, superiors and subordinates. Confidence and integrity are indispensable for men. Confidence is a sign of maturity. In adversity and in the face of sudden blows, a man's strength is most tested. Being strong sometimes may not solve the problem, but it provides the greatest possibility to solve the problem. Everyone has weakness, but don't show weakness until the crisis has passed. "The final victory often lies in the effort of persisting a little longer." Only men who have passed the crisis have the right to bury their heads in a woman's arms for comfort. Women at this moment will definitely become more maternal, and love often sublimates at this moment.
3. Modesty
What I am talking about is style and magnanimity. Only a man with grace appears to be graceful. Such a man has a broad and open mind and shows an elegant gentlemanly manner to everyone. Tolerant and open-minded men will not compete with women on tedious details. In terms of gains and losses, this is also one of the qualities that women appreciate most. What women hate most about men is lack of grace. The so-called tolerance, to put it bluntly, means tolerance and open-mindedness. Tolerance should be the basic quality a man should have, otherwise he is not worthy of being a good man.
Although women’s social status has soared again and again, years of traditional understanding are imprinted in a woman’s heart. No matter how alternative and advanced her appearance is, no matter how she flaunts her feminist thoughts, deep in her soul, Is longing for a man's caress. She is a little woman after all! Mindfulness here means not only being tolerant of women, but also being tolerant of society. As the saying goes, "Tolerate people who are intolerable, and tolerate things that are intolerable." Only a man with tolerance can make a difference, and will not fall into fearless disputes. An attractive man should be tolerant. Tolerate your family, tolerate your friends, and tolerate your lover.
Family, friendship, and love are things that men must cherish! Your family is your castle! Friends are the spirits that inspire you! Your lover is the harbor for you! A man must tolerate them, care for them, and not let them down.
4. Humor
Humor is an elegant quality. It is the embodiment of wisdom and experience and the lubricant of interpersonal communication. Humor can turn embarrassment into humor and add spice to life. When men make good use of it, they can also express their consideration and care for women. For example, when a woman is in trouble, discussing it head-on may aggravate the woman's pain. Using humor to infect the other person and guide them to think from a different perspective is equivalent to pointing out a clear path for them, without the sense of preaching. Of course, not everyone has a sense of humor. If you have it, it’s good. If you don’t have it, you can cultivate it. If you can’t cultivate it, don’t force it, otherwise it will be counterproductive. Humor is sometimes helpless self-deprecation, but women believe that most men who dare to laugh at themselves are confident and generous. In short, men with a sense of humor are more likely to be attracted to women. Although a shallow man lives a simple and happy life, he can eat, drink and have fun as much as possible, and he may also tell folk jokes that make women laugh. He may attract the attention of some women, but it will not last long. Unless he bribes with money, otherwise, it is very likely that he will It's hard to have lasting charm. A man with depth is different. He will be very funny, but he rarely tells jokes that others tell too much. Funny words can only be his own eloquence, and he must be able to make women happy. Humor should be part of a person's quality. If it is lacking, it is a flaw. His humor makes people want to get close to him, and his depth makes people never understand, so he always keeps women's desire to explore. At the same time, a man with depth will be capable and open-minded. His words and actions will always inspire people, and he will always be a psychological idol for women.
A charming man should know humor. Humor is actually a kind of demeanor, appropriate jokes, and cheerful personality. I think this will make you more manly. Humor is a symbol of intelligence and talent. A humorous man often adds interest to ordinary days, resolves embarrassing situations, and brings laughter to life. It will greatly increase the masculinity.
5. Romance
Attractive men are created by women’s admiring gaze. Be a flower protector, be gentle and meticulous. A gentle man is considerate and romantic and will accompany a woman in romantic affairs; a gentle man is meticulous and gentle, and can make a woman feel the happiness of being cared for. A woman wants love, no matter how rough she looks, she is still a woman and desires gentle care. Therefore, a meticulous man is very popular with women. Sometimes, just a thoughtful word can capture a woman's heart.
Men with mature thoughts are the most attractive. A man's charm comes from the accumulation of life. Although there are no certain standards, I think a man with the above qualities should be an attractive man.