Did I suddenly decide not to love that person for a moment? Give up your persistence, give up your silly waiting, and give up what you always think is worth it. That moment was like the last straw that crushed the camel, crushing our love.
Zhang Xiaoxian said: A man's harm to a woman is not necessarily that he is in love with someone else. But he let her down when she had expectations. I didn't help her when she was weak, but I envied her when she succeeded.
Love is mutual encouragement and appreciation. Rejoice at each other's success. Lost for each other's failure.
This is a post in a forum. Many girls gave up this moment:
/Hack his ex-girlfriend. And I accidentally found her ex-girlfriend in his QQ. What is even more ridiculous is that he didn't let me find out. I changed my name.
/Play truth or dare, a friend of mine asked me BF, if your GF told you to marry you next year, would you get married? If she doesn't, she will say goodbye. My BF replied:No. My friend asked again: So we broke up? He replied: Yes. I don't know why, my heart is about to collapse at this moment.
/He wrote my nickname on his signature, and his ex-girlfriend asked him who he was. He said no one would call him by that name. His ex-girlfriend said to make up, and he asked her when she could visit him. He advised his brother to make up with my best friend, saying that he could play if he had nothing to do ... it seems that he talked a lot with him. I didn't attend class at that time, so I went to the toilet directly.
/It's raining hard. I waited for him for three hours. Made a lot of calls. They all said they would come right away. Finally, I said it was raining and didn't come. It rained for three hours, and now it's fucking time. In an instant. I feel like I can't be together anymore. -
/He listened to music in front of the computer indifferently and ignored me. I sat beside him for a long time. Hear Chen Kun's "You are hands, I am a toy. If you don't like me, I lose my meaning. "Suddenly feel relieved, feel that I can't be a lost toy. I walked out the door and gave up my relationship for five years.
/On the day of parting, I cried all the way, and he followed me without saying a word. After a long time, I turned around and he was gone.
/He said that he would never agree with me to break up, but at the moment I joked about breaking up, he agreed.
I went to the airport with him to meet his ex-girlfriend that day. As soon as he saw her, he ran over and left me alone. At that moment, I gave up.
/On Christmas Eve, I went out to play with his friends. I had a hard time getting him drunk. It is sad to see the pain caused by alcohol. I am busy with bedding and water supply. In the middle of the night, I saw the new information of his mobile phone and his ex-girlfriend's. Curiosity drove me to read the short message record. When he and I lived in life is sweet, the message he sent to his ex-girlfriend was "I still love you anyway."
/I gave him my first time. Since I love him, I will not regret it.
But when we broke up, I was a little sad at first, but when I received the text message from him.
I am really discouraged. I think I fell in love with a man who is not worthy of love.
He said: If you want to repair the operation, let me know and I will accompany you. My tears were pattering off at that time.
I replied: I was raped.
/I sent him a message: I miss you, can you come with me? He replied, I'm drawing. Don't bother me. My mother brought a special product from Beijing, but she didn't want to eat it. Then she ran from school to his studio to bring it to him. Outside the window, I saw him talking and laughing with several girls, holding a girl's shoulder and holding her hand to help her draw. Tears welled up at that time, but I called him and he didn't answer. Then there is a message: Are you bored? Don't bother me with painting! Turn and leave. At that moment, I knew I really really should give up.
/I haven't contacted my boyfriend for a long time. I always thought he was busy at work and didn't have time to reply to my messages. Later, I heard from a friend that he often talked with his "ex-girlfriend" on the phone for hours. He didn't even bother to reply to the last message of his breakup. Suddenly I figured it out a lot, and then I really put it down.
/And my first Valentine's Day with him. When I was a high school student, I didn't have much money. He told me that I had no money to buy me a present. At that time, I understood very well and felt that I didn't care about gifts. Then he told me that he bought a big box of Dove chocolates for his ex-girlfriend because she loves chocolate.
One day he and another friend went to Danyang to get glasses, which was normal, because Danyang glasses were cheap. Then his ex-girlfriend texted me that night to tell me to give up or something, saying that he didn't love me anymore. I was so stupid that I naively replied that he wouldn't talk to you or something. Later, it took n long to know that he went to Danyang to see her that day, and she went to school in Danyang. -
/I said it was inappropriate for us to break up, and he said, just do as you say.
I didn't give up when we broke up, but when I called him, he said you were bored! I will give up.
/afternoon 10, I just called him after class, and he seems to be sleeping. He picked up the phone and found it was me, then hung up and turned off his cell phone-
/We decided to leave after breaking up and then called him. He said impatiently, don't make me hate you. This sentence instantly made me turn all my five-year love into hate, and I have no contact since then.
On the day of school holiday, I went to the station with him by car, and it was raining lightly. The temperature is very low. I only wear a thin coat and a shirt under it. My classmate asked me if I was still cold, but he didn't make any noise. I felt too cold after school, so I put on my school uniform. At that time, school uniforms were ugly. He said, how cold can it be? Go back and say, how many people are wearing school uniforms? I suddenly found out that he thought it was shameful for me to go with him in my school uniform. I thought at that time, should I let go?
/I asked you if you loved me, and he said yes. He just likes my appearance and figure, and I'm completely devastated.
I asked him what would happen to you if I left you. He just said flatly, you can leave if you want, and you can stay if you want. I laughed at that time. Why didn't you tell me earlier when you were not in love? You can leave if you like.
/and the train that stood for 26 hours, he sent a text message saying that he would eat at home at noon, and he might not be able to pick up the bus, so let me find it myself. Then the train was late and arrived in the afternoon. I didn't hug or care, and he didn't help me with my big bag. When he got home, he told me that he thought the bag was too corny and shameful.
/In bed with him, ask him if he loves me? He was silent for a long time, and then said, you have complicated things. Then I went home, and he went out to see me off and wait for the bus. It was the end of September, and I only wore a shirt. He wore two sweaters and a thick coat. I said I was cold, but he just hugged me. Waiting for the bus for 10 minutes, he said, I'll give it to you 15 yuan. Take a taxi home. . . He doesn't know that every time I go to his house for a date, I don't have a car if I'm late. I always take a taxi, which costs more than 20 yuan each time. He never gives me money. Of course, I never ask him for it. But at that time, his monthly salary was about 1 10,000, and I only had more than 2,000. Actually, I didn't take a taxi that day because there was only 10 yuan left in my wallet. I just told him to go home. I'll wait by myself. I don't want your money. He left. Didn't leave me a skirt, didn't leave me anything. I waited for the bus for half an hour, but there was still no one. I cried and took a taxi home from the bank. -
/Be apart at the happiest time together. I said, I'm the one who won't look back when I turn around. If I leave, I'll never see you again. He is silent and doesn't talk, which makes me very sad. He turned and told my friend that I was not good. At that moment, he really gave up, and even if he came to me again, he never wavered.
/The most disgusting thing. . . Once I opened a room with him, when I was young and didn't have xxoo, I just touched each other. He asked me to pay 30 yuan for the hotel, saying that he would be useless only after the last 30 yuan. I thought I was worse than a prostitute.
When I got home, I was wrapped in a quilt, shivering and spreading the cold in my heart. That day, I knew I loved the wrong person.
/that winter, standing at Urumqi station, you said to me: scold me, not scold her. I died, carrying big bags and small bags of luggage, and embarked on a train to Jinan.
/I bought a station ticket to see him in the New Year and stood in a crowded carriage for 26 hours to see him. During the Spring Festival, I accidentally found a short message he sent to his ex-girlfriend. One of them is: My biggest wish in the New Year is to wish you happiness. That day, my tired heart suddenly let go and decided to give up for the first time.
/I live with him. One night, when I went to the toilet, I saw three cockroaches. I was scared and ran back to my bedroom to help me get rid of them. He was asleep, and when he woke up, he said impatiently to me, you'd better go home! I lay down without saying anything and cried all night. From that moment on, I gave him up. -
/insomnia after breaking up. Call him at midnight. He said I was going to bed. Goodbye. I said I couldn't sleep. He said you were selfish. Suddenly wake up. Feel chilling. -
/I love him very much and give everything for him. Although he gradually gave me the cold shoulder for another woman, I still insisted on doing what I could to make him happy even though I was humble in front of him because I loved him so much! Buy him clothes, cook for him, and pay his medical bills. I don't think I can live without him! Then, when buying gifts for our colleagues' children, we decided to buy a suit and a pack of diapers. We first selected a pack of diapers and took them to pay in line. Suddenly, he said to me, you pay this money and I'll buy clothes later! As soon as I checked in, he actually asked me to pay because diapers were a little more expensive than clothes, only tens of dollars, and I also bought the clothes he was wearing! Looking at him, I suddenly feel so cold! I feel that this person in front of me is so strange. Everything I have done for him is not as good as dozens of dollars in his eyes! At that moment ~ ~ I finally convinced myself that this man really doesn't love you. Maybe he used to like you, but he really doesn't love you now! I broke up with him when I came back that day. When I broke up with him, he was relieved! Looking at his relaxed expression, I know I can finally leave without regrets! I have been hurt by his words countless times, and I feel sorry for him and her, but I have never made up my mind to leave him and always thought that he still loves himself! But I suddenly died in such a small matter, and suddenly I clearly realized that this man is so unworthy!
/I used to feel how difficult it was to forget, even crying for my ex-boyfriend on the first day. The next day, watching him tease another woman and miss the job at hand, but asking me to help him finish it, I really feel sick of him! Really a stranger from now on.
At that time, he was already very cold to me. When he is dry in autumn, he often has nosebleeds. I asked someone to bring him some honey from Guangxi and bought him mangoes. He wasn't there that day, and I left happily after helping things! Later, he sent me a message with two words: thank you! Those two words completely stumped me! Because it's too cold! After that, everything about him has nothing to do with me
/Well, I am most afraid of loving the wrong person. After three years with him, he gradually lost contact with himself. Later I learned from a certain population that he was with his best friend. I felt a little uncomfortable at that time. I don't understand why he didn't tell himself that he broke up with others, and he was very strong and refused to take the initiative to find him. Until the next day, he came to me. I smiled and said that you were not with her. That's not what he meant ... The next day, I learned from him that he broke up with her. Haha, I remember. Come to me. Just then ... broke up and said what he didn't say at first. He said he missed me, so I could only laugh ... I didn't know what to say. ...
It's my fault that we had a long cold war, but I still refused to bow my head first. I finally got a chance to celebrate his birthday. I want to be the first to send an email to wish him a happy birthday. I was very nervous half an hour before twelve o'clock that day, and I was afraid that it would not be perfect if I didn't send an email at 00:00. By twelve o'clock, the mail was sent out perfectly. He was obviously on MSN, but it took him more than an hour to reply to my email. I tried my best to please in the email, but his reply was simple: thank you! At that moment, I thought he was so far away! I was thinking of giving him a surprise the next day, and suddenly a sentence came to my mind. Who didn't love slag when he was young?
/A man I once loved ended up with his good friend. Later, I heard from my classmates that he was afraid that I would bully his girlfriend at school. At that time, he gave up in an instant. He loved me for so long, which made me think so badly.
/Promise to associate with him heartily. A week later, he suddenly told me that he had a crush on another girl. He said that because they are in the same class, they can meet every day, but he and I are not in the same school. Shette, is there anything more blind than this?
/I cried in front of him that day, and he didn't say anything, just watched.
A friend of mine said: If a woman cries in front of a man and the man is still indifferent, then he doesn't even understand a man's most basic responsibility. What do you have to miss?
After that, I gave up ...
Arguing with him, he left me alone on the side of the road. I thought he would come back for me, but after waiting for an hour, he didn't come, and I was chilling.
/Break up with him. He asked me if I still loved him, but I said I didn't know. He said he didn't know the answer. I was silent, and he said that silence is not love? Not in love? I said take a break from each other and calm down. Since then, he has never taken the initiative to find me. Meanwhile, he told all our friends that I abandoned him.
/I can't put it down for more than a year. I cried many times. Family difficulties. If he is determined to marry you, stay with him. If he hesitates, he might as well give up.
At 9 o'clock in the evening, he said that he wanted to borrow 300 yuan and asked me to give it to him immediately. I/kloc-arrived at 0: 30 and waited for him for almost an hour. After taking the money, he said it was too late to hurry back, so he left by car first, leaving me alone waiting for the bus at the station. Fortunately, while I was waiting, a friend called to care about me. After twelve o'clock, the last bus came. I didn't get on the bus in tears, but tears flowed silently in my heart ... from then on, I told myself to give up! ! !
/That girl is from our school, not the same class. She painted with him until late at night, ate with him, and then went home together. When I was jealous, he said that they were just friends and that I was not sensible. Then I chose to trust him. One day, I saw a girl calling her husband on his mobile phone. He explained that someone was chasing the girl. He pretended to be her husband and told him to give up. I trusted him again. I didn't know how stupid I was until I saw it.
/I used to call him and he hung up first every time. Sometimes when he is sleepy, he says goodbye and hangs up the phone. Then I feel particularly cold when I listen to the beep. Later, a boy chased me and was very kind to me. Maybe he has a sense of crisis and treats me much better than before. He started telling me to hang up first, and I didn't feel used to it. We quit this world in order to enter the next world, and love can't stand indifference.
/You have no idea how hurt I am. You can say hello when you say you are still friends when you break up. However, I can't help calling you today, knowing that you refused to answer me. . I don't know when you turned me down. I haven't called for a month. Ha ha. . Now I can't help crying.
It was after the quarrel that he asked him to apologize. He sent a message saying, honey, if you expect me to apologize and beg for forgiveness like a child, then you should die as soon as possible. I was stuck in the same place for a long time, and suddenly I was sad from my heart and cried, and I told him to forgive him. When the message was sent out, I lost my heart to the man who was still deeply in love far away.
/He was my classmate in high school for three years. He broke up with me last September. Half a month later, I learned that he was living with another girl in the same class. I called him that night and wanted to see him. He said he didn't like me. Now he likes that man. I'm taking that woman to see him. I don't agree. He said she was angry and hung up. ...
/I called him, and the first thing he said was what to do, and the last thing he said was, what else ... I collapsed at that time, so I decided not to do it again. Ignore him
/After breaking up for the first time, I went to sing together calmly, looked at his face in the dark box and smiled at me like a child. At this moment, I suddenly found that I didn't feel any love for him.
He sent me home to pick up his girlfriend in the evening. I don't want to be jealous at all At this moment, I know that I have given up this person I love deeply.
/.We broke up because our parents didn't agree.
I always thought we were all unwilling.
So, at first I tried very hard to save him.
One day, I texted and said, make up, I don't want this. He said, I don't want to make up now.
I said, is it impossible even if he is far away from his parents? He said, impossible, why should I choose you?
At that time, I knew.
We did break up because our parents didn't agree. However, I am the only one who doesn't want to.
Because, a few days after breaking up, I knew he had a new lover.
So, I think, everybody, that's it.
After listening to his words, I wished him and my girlfriend happiness seven days after breaking up, and stayed up all night after returning from his room to his own. At six o'clock in the morning, he braved the cold wind and went to the supermarket to buy his favorite doughnuts. He wrote a letter and deliberately waited until half past seven to knock on the door of his room. He opened the door and said, didn't you say you couldn't come back? Do you still have dignity in your life? Are you bored? After that, I sent him several short messages for two consecutive days. He called directly and said that XX was ill, right? You think I send text messages for free?
/he beat me fat countless times, praised other women for their good figure in front of me countless times, and has been patient and hardworking. I dare not call him when I want to cry after taking diet pills, saying that I feel uncomfortable after taking diet pills. He said: "Losing weight, the pain is certain." what can I say? Looking back today, he just didn't love me so much.
I didn't love him when he said he didn't love me. I didn't know he didn't love him after four days with his ex-girlfriend, but he finally met when I asked him out again and again. He just said, come out with me if you want to eat, don't be hungry, and go home after eating. Hehe, it turns out that I'm just a difficult object to eat out. Besides, when he said he wouldn't change the number, he himself. It's nothing. He didn't intend to be with me at all, because he was beaten by my friend for his ex-girlfriend. Hehe, he cried badly at that time, but not for him, but for me. I feel sorry for myself and know that I have nothing to say to him at all. Then, the second person who believed me wanted to see him when I was drunk. He just said, did you drink or not? Drink it and I'll send you up. If you don't drink, come with me. I said nothing, and then I looked at him. Finally, he left without saying anything, and I realized that I really shouldn't love anymore. Third, I cried for him. When I didn't love him, he urged me to go and agreed to send me. I always tell the taxi driver, master, I will give you money to take her to the place, and then there will be no post. Hehe, I asked him to accompany me, and he said I was looking for trouble. Then I found that I didn't love him.
When those friends are with me. Drink with me, smoke with me and be crazy with me all night. I finally woke up. So many people who love me and care about me. Why do you want to lower yourself to a very low position in front of him? . In fact, without him, nothing is lacking, and there will be more and better. . Think of the moment above and tell yourself to put it down. You really put it down.
/I also stood 5 meters away from him, watching him become secular, but he couldn't see me.
/One morning, I received a short message inexplicably, saying that I had just thought about it, and my tears suddenly surged up and kept flowing. I called n times and didn't answer. I sent him a message asking him to make it clear. I waited for a long time and replied, "It's not convenient. I have to go shopping with my mother during the day." I don't even have time to reply to my mother's message? My heart suddenly turned cold. . .
/He said that I was the only one who was sure that my first love with him was no longer in contact.
I believed him.
When I found out again that I had exposed him, he lost his temper and hung up on me.
My heart will die!
On my birthday, I went home from work and waited for her.
She hasn't contacted me all day. I thought of my birthday, so I didn't contact her in a rage.
She played with her friends until after twelve o'clock and came back with nothing.
Lying next to me, I said, you know I'm disappointed
She said, I was surprised, too. I don't care about you.
It's like someone takes out your internal organs, rubs them into powder, puts them back, and you still want to work normally.
I did such a cruel thing. Once I went shopping with him, a girl called him and asked him to play together. I answered the phone and said, "Please pay attention, he is my boyfriend!" " Then I heard the girl crying softly. Later, I felt that it was really too much to deprive others of their right to love. Now, I dare not call him. I am afraid that one day a girl will say to me, "What do you miss about the past? He is my boyfriend! " "
It turns out that everyone has moments of despair
It may be a look, a word, or a little gesture. At that moment, we suddenly gave up the person who once loved him to the bone! I don't know how you feel after reading it.