The first article of magical body language

Chapter 1 The second human language - body language

Section 1 What is body language

Early research on body language

Body language and the evolution of animals

Human Kinesics and Interpersonal Distance

Section 2 Body Language is How to convey information

Do you know your body’s information

How body language reveals people’s emotions and thoughts

Mysterious intuition and sixth sense

Natural, inherited or learned

How do diviners see into people's hearts

Where do the basic postures come from

Section 3 Characteristics of body language

Body language changes with age

Body language also differs between men and women

Why women are more observant

Body language that contradicts spoken language

Self-test: Do you understand body language?

Chapter 2 Environmental Factors Affecting Body Language - Personal Space

Section 1 Inviolable Personal Space

The tradition of guarding territory

Five areas of personal space

Maintaining personal space

Adjustments after losing personal space

Why we hate taking elevators

Fixed customs of spatial positioning

Children also need personal space

Section 2 Factors affecting personal space

Cultural background will affect the size of personal space

Space size and crime rate

Spatial awareness and dependence on mother

The impact of environment on personal space

Rural residents and cities Residents’ different needs for personal space

Chapter 3 Geographical factors affecting body language - height and location

Section 1 The mystery of height

Terrain and Authority

Height and status

Stow down and put down your airs

Advantages and disadvantages of tall people

Why do some people on TV Appearing taller

The secrets TV big shots use to win votes

The impact of height on marriage

Calming down other people's anger

Some tips Strategies to appear taller

Section 2: The importance of location

Seat selection reflects intimacy

Your preference for location will quietly reveal your personality

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Why do we arrange seats like this

Why are some bosses not popular with employees

Independent positions

Choose the position that is beneficial to you

King Arthur’s philosophy

Taking both sides

Why the teacher’s pet always sits on the left

Power struggles in the family

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Speech is actually not simple

Attention zone

Agreement at the dinner table

Part 2: Decipher body language and master the code of recognizing people

Chapter 1 Interpretation of Common Body Language in Life

Section 1 Common Facial Expressions and Postures

Happiness and Sadness

Surprise and fear

Angry and disgust

Smart grip

Powerful pinch

Symbolic blow

Gestures made with open hands

Section 2 Meetings and Farewells

First impressions

Physical contact

Universal ways of greeting

How to shake hands

How to wave when saying goodbye

Section 3 Positive affirmation and negative negation

Agree

Build confidence

Appreciate

Unconsciously show interest

Show "no"

Not interested

Rejection and opposition

Boredom and boredom

Impatient

Do not believe

***Share negative information

Section 4 Conflict and Defense

Hidden expressions of disapproval

Open expressions of disapproval

Insulting gestures

Postures indicating hostility

Sudden cessation of fighting

Dominating others

Unconscious defensive movements

Conscious defensive movements

Section 5 Tension and Relaxation

Signs of Bad Emotions

Displacement Activities

"Shut Out" the World

Gradually relax

Signs of relaxation

Section 6 Sincerity and Deception

Signs of sincerity

Signs of deceiving others

Chapter 2: There is a way to judge a book by its appearance

Section 1: Eyes: the window to show the soul

See the other person’s soul through the eyes

Peeping at the other person’s motives from the eyes

The secret in the pupils

A shift of gaze that indicates a guilty conscience

A proud look

Most liars will Look directly into your eyes

The meaning of squinting

Watch for other people to blink longer

3 common ways to stare at each other

The intimidating way of staring directly at the other person

Identifying the other person through eye shape

The difference between male and female eyes

Section 2: Eyebrows: The finishing touch of appearance

Observe your opponent from the eyebrows

Different eyebrow shapes indicate that people are different

The third section of the nose: a symbol of human temperament

Read the language of the other person’s nose

Nose and personality

Look at psychology from nose shape and nose posture

Section 4: Hands: Recognize people by looking at their hands

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Looking at people from the hands

Different hand shapes, different personalities

What do the palms tell you

Gathering and rubbing hands

Tricks in the Arms

Section 5: The fickle mouth, the gateway to misfortunes

Different mouth shapes lead to different fates

The thickness of the lips and Human Virtue

Observe people’s character from mouth movements

Other details in Section 6: The pass to judge people by their appearance

Teeth: the frontier of analyzing people Fortress

Ears: Information receiver

Mandible: Observe the opponent's psychology

Head: Everything starts from the "head"

Third Chapter 1: Know your heart from your behavior

Section 1: Sitting posture: revealing people’s psychological trends

Sitting posture and psychological reflection

Old-fashioned sitting posture

Relaxed sitting posture

Confident sitting posture

Shy and shy sitting posture

Modest and gentle sitting posture

Resolute and decisive sitting posture

Speculative and indifferent sitting posture

Bohemian sitting posture

Changes in movements while sitting

Lock Legs and locked feet

The cross-legged posture commonly used by Europeans

"Number 4" sitting posture

Section 2: Standing posture: perspective on human personality

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The role of legs

Standing posture and psychological reflection

Four main standing postures

Thinking standing posture

Obedient stance

Aggressive stance

Odd stance

Depressive stance

Social Standing Posture

Section 3 Walking Posture: Words Revealed under the Feet

Different people have different walking postures

Walking Posture and Psychological Reflection

Walk with head held high

Walk with unsteady steps

Walk with neat steps

Walk with haste

Slightly leaning walking posture<

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Bazi-shaped walking posture

Other walking posturers

Section 4 Gestures: Interpreting the silent language of the soul

Love fantasy: Put your hands on your chin

Praise others: cross your thumbs

Have a strong personality: raise your gestures

Challenge: put your hands on your hips

Different opinions : Fingers crossed

Defense: Arms crossed

Showing deterrence: jumping up and down

Showing strength: clenching fists

Decisive impression: Gesture to chop down

Enhance persuasion: Count your fingers

Section 5 Sleeping position: Body language revealed by the subconscious

Prone: Strong self-confidence

Sleeping on one side: a careless person

Sleeping alone: ??a person with narcissistic tendencies

Sleeping naked: a person who lives a sentimental life

Standing aside: the defender of the sphere of influence

Diagonal: a person who is quite arbitrary

Standing on one foot: a person who lives a regular life

Those who sleep with their limbs crossed

Baby-like sleeping position and those who sleep on their backs

Section 6 Other Behaviors: Visiting People’s Inner World

From Knock See through the other person through the sound of the door

Inspect the other person's heart through brushing teeth

Observe the other person through the way of shopping

Understand the other person's psychological characteristics through handwriting

See through people through their subconscious actions

See through each other through their irritability and restlessness

Chapter 4: Seeing personality through speech

The voice of the first verse: See through the rhythm of people's hearts

Speech speed conveys people's psychology

Discover the depth of people's hearts from their tone

See people's hearts through the rhythm of speaking

Detect people's hearts from the volume of their voices

Section 2: The way of speaking: reveal a person's personality

See through the other person's personality from the characteristics of his speech

Exceptionally intelligent Whisperer

Flattery and good at flattering

Identify the other person’s temperament through humor

The real world behind the catchphrase

No. The content of the three sections of speech: Show your trump card

Understand the other party from the topic

9 kinds of speech have their own merits

Be wary of words that are too respectful

Section 4: The movement of speaking: the difficult-to-conceal psychological platform

See through the other person through the smile during conversation

People who keep nodding and shaking their heads when talking

People who keep touching their hair when talking

People who like to shake their legs when talking

People who stare at others when talking

Section 5 Speaking Habits : Uncovering the secret code of the soul

People who often say wrong things are different from what they appear to be

People who are unreasonable and unforgiving

Observe from the idioms of greeting

Observe the other party from the choice of chatting situations

The psychological meaning of swearing

See through the other party from the attitude of accepting praise

From Use the habit of answering time to see through the other person

Chapter 5: Look at the other person from the perspective of clothing

Section 1 Clothing: a platform for spiritual self-revelation

Clothing and The relationship between people's psychology

Judge a person's character from the choice of clothes

See through the other person from the choice of clothing color

See through the other person from the choice of T-shirt

Understand the other person through a woman’s preference for underwear

Observe the other person’s personality through the shoes

Section 2 Makeup: Unable to hide all the truth

Different outfits reflect different psychology

Light makeup and heavy makeup express different desires

Nature and fashion, conservative and open personality

Lipstick shows a woman’s character and career

Observe your opponent from the hair texture and hairstyle

Section 3 Accessories: Display of spiritual culture

Hat: cover The brain that can’t stop thinking

Glasses: Another window to the soul

A kind of display

Tie: the expression of a man’s personality

Watch: attitude towards time

Ring: showing one’s inner world

Handheld Bag: witness of identity

Mobile phone: bridge of spiritual communication

Earrings: items that reveal personality

Other accessories: show humanity

Chapter 6 Observing Nature from Daily Habits

Section 1 Behavioral Habits: Imprints on the Mind

Seeing the Human Heart from Signature Habits

From Analyze different human natures through the way of making phone calls

Gluttonous people are afraid of loneliness

Look at people’s hearts through their reading habits

Look at people through their payment methods

Section 2 Lifestyle Habits: A shortcut to understanding people’s inner activities

Identify each other from their eating habits

See people from their beds

See people by the way they bathe

Identify each other by where they put their mobile phones

See people's hearts by the way they cook

Inspect human nature by the way they eat eggs

Examine people’s habits through the way they drink coffee

Identify people from their personal hobbies

Section 3 Habitual Actions: Details express the human heart

Subliminal actions and his true thoughts

Forgetting in the subconscious

Walking on the left or right

Habitual actions of drinking

Habitual actions of smoking

Habitual movements of wearing glasses and makeup

People who crack their knuckles

People who wink and wink

Chapter 7: Seeing from hobbies People's personal details

Section 1 Leisure and Entertainment: Revealing the Display of People's Heart

Drawing out the personality patterns of people from the hobby of music

For those who love dancing Personality analysis

Prying into people’s personalities through travel preferences

Seeing people’s personality traits through reading books

Observing people through puzzle games

Psychological exploration of people who like to play chess

Section 2 Sports Style: Different Thinking Sets

People who love different ball sports

Those who like winter swimming People

People who like walking sports

People who like walking at dusk

People who like equipment sports

Section 3 Hobbies: Judgment Other people’s personalities and tastes

Observe people’s psychology from their favorite pets

See each other through their preference for fruits

Observe each other from their favorite cars

Observe people’s taste through their preferences for tea drinking places

Observe people’s tastes through their preferences for drinking places

Chapter 8 Understanding people’s hearts from social situations

Section 1 Social Conversation: Deciphering the other person’s psychology

People who have too long opening remarks lack self-confidence

People who like to treat guests have a strong desire for self-satisfaction

Take the initiative People who introduce people like to express themselves

Those who force others to accept invitations are selfish and vain

The psychological motivations of people who like to reveal their own privacy and expose others' privacy

Section 2 Table manners: grasp people's hearts in an instant

Understand people's psychology from the way they hold a glass while drinking

Observe each other from seat selection

Analyze people from their preferences for dishes Character

Seeing people’s hearts through the way they order food

Distinguishing the truth after drinking

Section 3 Social Business Behavior: Looking at people in detail

You need to master mind-reading skills in business negotiations

Analyze the other party’s personality from business card preferences

Observe the other party’s personality from the handshake

Chapter 9 Peeping behind the smile Inner World

Section 1: Forms of Laughter

Laughter actually comes from offensive posture

Several common types of laughter

Laughter Reflects a person’s personality

Laughter between introverts and extroverts

Angry and sad people also laugh

Section 2 Laughter is how humans communicate emotions facial language

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Use a smile to close the distance

Why smiles can spread to each other

A girl’s smile has deep meaning

Advice to women about smiling

Laughter in love

Section 3 Laughter is good for physical and mental health

Smiling is the best medicine

Laugh until you cry

How jokes work

Laughter Clinic

Part 3: Read body language and read people’s hearts at a glance

Part 1 Chapter Seeing into a Woman’s Heart at a Glance

Section 1: A Woman’s Appearance: Prerequisites for Understanding a Woman

Choose a good wife based on her appearance

Observe a woman through her eyes

Looking at each other from a woman’s hands

Understanding each other from a woman’s waist

Seeing each other through a woman’s legs

Analysis from a woman’s smile Her character

Observe a woman from her hairstyle

Section 2: A woman’s behavior: a mirror that reflects her character

Judge a woman’s love for love by wearing a ring Attitude

Judge a girl’s psychological information from her actions on a date

See how much a girl loves you by taking a ride

See a woman’s personality from her smoking posture

Inferring the fidelity of your girlfriend from her conversations with strangers

Other details in Section 3: Showing the inner world

See whether she is having an affair at a glance

Infer whether she is in love with you from her expressions and movements

See through a woman's heart

See through professional women through clothing styles

See through a woman's nature

Understanding women from their psychology

Chapter 2: Penetrating into a man’s heart at a glance

Section 1: A man’s appearance: the appearance that reveals his psychology

Recognize the true face of a man

Look at a man’s personality from his body shape

See a man’s true face from his face

Understand a man’s temperament from the way he walks

No. Section 2: Men’s Behavior: Interpreting the Language of the Soul

Judge his true thoughts from Valentine’s Day gifts

See how deeply your boyfriend loves you from his favorite fingers

Observe him from his love for his family

Other details in the third section: revealing his heart bit by bit

A man who spends money

Silence Men

Like men who show off their authority

Men who pursue machismo

Men who do not shed tears

Chapter 3 Identification at a Glance Lover

Section 1 Lover’s Behavior: Pursuit of Romance

Reveal your lover’s heart by giving gifts

Reveal your lover’s heart by caring about yourself

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Analyze the lover’s love by eating chocolate

Express the lover’s love by the way of kissing

Read the lover’s heart by winking eyes

No. Entertainment for lovers in the second section: showing the lover’s heart

See the lover through the Valentine’s Day trip

Express your love by listening to music with your lover

Observe your lover from watching movies

Other details in Section 3: Peep into your lover’s heart from details

See your lover’s mentality towards love through dating language

Understand your lover’s personality from the content of the date

Perceive your lover’s attitude from the date and wait

Find out your lover’s true thoughts about you from shopping

Recognize your lover’s lies Signals

Chapter 4: Understand the boss at a glance

Section 1: The appearance of the boss: a display of psychological insight

What does the boss’s gestures mean

Unusual things in the boss's body language

Don't intrude into the boss' restricted area

Judge the boss's psychology from his eyes

Look at the boss from the state of his desk

Insight into the boss’s psychology from his complexion

Section 2 The boss’s character: Find the window to his soul

The boss in the deep city

Boss with a bossy attitude

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The boss with weird psychology

The beautiful boss

The boss who makes his employees hate him

Section 3 Analysis Boss: Discover his psychological mysteries

Observe your boss from his work habits

Identify his leadership ability from his personal qualities

From the person who presides over the meeting See through your boss’s style

See your boss through his leadership style

Judge your boss from his interpersonal relationships

Chapter 5 Identifying talents at a glance

Section 1: The Appearance of Talents: Peeping Information into the Life of Talents

Identifying Talents from Faces

Identifying Talents from Work Performance

Don’t be fooled when identifying talents Confusion by Illusions

Section 2: The Character of Talents: Fixing the Mind of Talents

Analyzing the Characteristics of Employees

How to Treat Employees with Different Characters

Employees who cannot be reused

Other details in Section 3: Open the window to the soul

Treat different subordinates in different ways

Pay attention to discover potential talents

Inferring other people’s minds from emotions

Observing talents from debates

Chapter 6 Recognizing colleagues at a glance

Section 1 Colleagues’ appearance: seeing through His heart

Look at people from their attitude towards work

Identify colleagues’ psychology from facial expressions

Section 2 Colleagues’ behavior: Interpret his thoughts

Platonic Colleagues

Zhu Bajie Colleagues

Guan Yunchang Colleagues

Section 3 Colleagues’ Speech: Listen to Others’ Voices

Swallow the rest of the words: a person without confidence

Wait for the other person to finish speaking: a person who can hold his breath

Rush the other person to talk: on the verge of breaking out

Immediately demand respect from the other person: domineering person

Identify the types of colleagues in the workplace

Beware of several types of people in the workplace

Chapter 7 Identifying Friends at a Glance

Section 1: A Friend’s Appearance: A Barometer for Testing the Soul

Seeing a Friend’s Heart through His Shoes

From Appearance Recognize educated friends

Know people with a keen eye and make close friends

Section 2: Friends’ speech: discerning the subtleties and making close friends

Recognize people from all kinds of subtleties

Make a few close friends

Count the friends around you

Part 4: Use body language to understand and control the people around you

Chapter 1: Understanding others is to better take the initiative

Section 1: People often do not express themselves directly

People are separated from each other

Being in the world requires discerning the truth from the false

Everyone wants to hide their trump card

Beware of the cold arrows behind the smiling face

Only by knowing the heart can you be free and easy

Only when you know your opponent can you have a chance of winning

Section 2: Master the skills of reading others

To know people and their faces, you need to know their hearts

You must have keen judgment

Be a caring person

Take control of your interactions with others

Don’t let the other person realize that you have read their mind

Part 1 Chapter 2: How to use body language in the workplace

Section 1: Body language in interviews and recruitment

9 golden rules for leaving a good first impression

Pretend I am already competent

How to use a chair to lower the other person’s status

Section 2: How to use body language in the office

Accurately understand your boss’s intentions

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Don’t get too close to your boss

Be an indispensable person for a leader

Give in at the right time

Know how to measure yourself when being favored

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Control different types of leadership

See through the psychology of colleagues

Sometimes you cannot be too honest

How to win the favor of colleagues

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Deal with colleagues who are too busy

How to transfer the personal area on the table

The direction your body points when sitting

How to rearrange office furnishings

Section 3 The role of body language in negotiation and sales

Know what customers want

Borrow The influence of the third party

Creating unexpected surprises - giving small gifts

No one will be refused, it varies from person to person

Stimulate customers' desire to buy

Make him feel that he is taking advantage

Set a "trap" to lure customers

"I hope you can do me a little favor"

Body language helps negotiate

Successful sales rely on body language

7 simple strategies to give you an extra advantage

Little by little, make him untenable

Unimaginable control skills

This is the most effective way to persuade customers

Facing different negotiating opponents

How to use "words" to help your reputation

Chapter 3: How to use handshakes to control each other during social interactions

Section 1: Functions and types of handshakes

The feelings conveyed by handshakes

Create an equal atmosphere of handshakes

Establish a friendly handshake relationship

The 8 worst ways to shake hands in the world

Section 2: The knowledge of handshakes

Control and submission in handshakes

How to deal with a controlling handshake

Recognize different handshake styles

Who should reach out first when shaking hands

Master the intensity of the handshake

Get the advantage of standing on the left

When men and women shake hands

When to use both hands to shake hands? Shake hands with others

Use handshakes to control each other

Chapter 4 How to get closer to friends in life

Section 1 How to make friends inseparable You

Give your friend a generous gift

To impress your friend to do something for you

Prepare some "sugar-coated bullets"

Keep the friendship warm

Refuse what should be refused

Sincerity is the first priority in treating friends

Section 2: How to turn strangers into friends

Be kind to strangers

Start by saying hello

How to talk for the first 5 minutes

Eliminate the sense of strangeness first

When you have nothing to say Also look for words

Shorten the psychological distance with strangers

Keep his or her heart by memorizing their names

Look at strangers with an open mind

Chapter 5: How to identify lies through body language

Section 1: Body language reveals lies

Signs of deception

Research on lying

How facial expressions reveal the truth

Women are better at lying

Why lying is difficult

Section 2: See through posture Lies

The 7 most common lying postures

Positions when making estimates

Chinese stroking posture

Procrastination, perfunctory Posture

Head-scratching and slapping gestures

Double liar

Section 3: How to identify villains

You must be on guard against villains

How to identify villains

Don’t give villains a chance to doubt you

Be wary of villains’ sweet words

See through “gentlemen” who are good at pretending ”

Beware of the villain’s face-changing skills

Put the villain under your nose

Build a firewall with offense instead of defense

Combat The villain must not show any trace

It is more effective to kill the villain with praise than to kill him with a stick

To control the villain, you need to take advantage of other people's desires

Leverage your strength to avoid it The villain’s frame-up

Try to avoid the villain’s entanglement

How to make the villain among your subordinates listen to you

Chapter 6: How to identify demands

Signs of love

Section 1: Physical changes between men and women during courtship

Physiological changes when approaching the opposite sex

The process of attraction to the opposite sex

When the temperature of someone's body rises

"Every glance" is all about love

The appearance of a man with beautiful flowers

Graham's story

Section 2 Women’s Courtship Postures

Why women always control the situation

Women’s courtship signals often confuse men

Female’s courtship signals and Posture

How does she wait for you on a date

What kind of women do men like?

Why do beautiful women have no chance

Which part is the most attractive

Section 3: Male courtship postures

Male courtship signals

Male love signals

Which part of a man is the most attractive

Chapter 7 How to deal with foreigners

Section 1 Pay attention to cultural differences in body language

Different The collision between cultures

Cultural factors affecting personal space

Section 2: Similarities and differences in body language

Greetings with unique cultural heritage

Greetings for close contact

Greetings in various countries

Don’t use the OK gesture indiscriminately

The difference in meaning of the “V” gesture

Differences in other gestures