What do you mean by "love"? For example, if his signature on WeChat is lyrics, you will find this song and share it with your circle of friends, saying that you have listened to this song for many years.
At this time, he may talk about you privately. What a coincidence. Of course, he may have seen through it, but if he still contacts you like this after seeing through it, then he is likely to have a good impression on you and not run away.
Even if you don't like it, you have a chance to talk to him more. In short, you should regard it as a scientific research project and study it well.
A person's personality may not be clearly expressed through social networks, but at least his hobbies are obvious. If he likes something, you must imply that you like it too. Pay attention to be a hint instead of running to talk about "I like xxx, too" This stage needs to be as natural as possible.
2. Show your own characteristics.
Everyone is pursuing advantages and avoiding disadvantages, so is everyone. No matter how many girls chase him, he will choose the best one in the end.
So what you want to show him is not how good you can be to him. This trick is especially useless for chasing heartthrobs. What you want him to see is how different you are from other girls.
3. praise him.
Of course, if you like a boy, you should praise him. Do you think if you shoot an idol drama, you can still have a drama that starts with swearing and then loves him to death?
So when chasing boys, don't be stingy with his praise. Since you like him, you know exactly what his advantages are. Yes, they are all great.
I don't need to feel flattered. I think it's normal to praise someone. I also praise my friends every day, regardless of the same sex. I don't think there is anything to hide.
spend
I'm not trying to objectify men. I'm going to give him thousands of dollars. He won't even notice you, will he?
Of course, not everyone can afford to spend money, and neither can I. It's easy to solve. Buy a gift he likes, such as shirts, equipment, sneakers and other things he can't bear to buy, so that he can see that you are really paying.
5. The sooner the better.
In the process of chasing him, you will receive all kinds of rejection signals, and girls will easily fall into self-emotion, ignore these "rejections" and continue to pay.
But I think infatuation is a very bad thing, just a long self-torture, nothing else. Therefore, the most important thing is to remember to stop in time when there is no hope, even if you are unwilling. This is to protect yourself.