1. Don’t tell others about your bad moods. No matter what, just go to bed at night, go out and relax during the day, eat and drink well on cloudy days, and listen to it on rainy days. rain. One day, there will be a ray of sunshine that will dispel all your gloom and bring you a bright light.

2. Don’t be too good. You can refuse things you don’t want to do. Don’t force things you can’t do. If you don’t like it, pretend you didn’t hear it. Your life is not to please others, but to be kind to yourself. 3. All my efforts are done willingly, and I will never mention it. If you respond in some way, I will be very grateful. If you are indifferent, I will not be discouraged, until one day I don’t want to love you like this. , then let us part ways and be happy. 4. You are already an adult, and you should know how to distinguish the relationship between life and love. Life is not for love, but love is based on dependence on life. You can have a bad love, but you can't indulge yourself in a bad life. 5. If one day, someone who can't come back disappears, and someone who can't live without leaves, it doesn't matter. Time will take you to the right person. Please love yourself first, and then the person who doesn't know where he is will come to pick you up. 6. You always have to face many difficulties. You have to cross the hurdles that you think are insurmountable and climb many high and dangerous hills alone. Only then can you wait until the sky opens and the moon shines. Just get over it and you'll be fine. 7. You must learn to cover your ears and not listen to the bustling sounds; there is no person in this world who is not suffering, and the only one who can truly heal yourself is yourself. 8. No matter how deeply you have been hurt by someone, there will always be someone who can make you forgive all the difficulties that life has dealt with you. 9. No matter what you are facing, you must stand up from the downturn and regain your strength, continue to maintain your enthusiasm, and continue to smile as if you have never been injured. 10. No one is perfect, and no one can be liked by everyone. Therefore, be grateful when you receive support, and smile when you encounter abuse, ridicule, and cold looks. Take it lightly and just be happy and be yourself. 11. People who can truly appreciate you will always appreciate your proud appearance, not your pretending to be humble and lovable. 12. Don’t take yourself too seriously. In fact, many people don’t need you. 13. No matter how much you like to lively and cheer, you must learn to live in harmony with loneliness. Most of the time in your life, you will always be alone. Enjoy your time alone. When you are deeply lonely, loneliness becomes armor. 14. Don’t laugh at me for not growing up, I just don’t want to be that complicated. 15. People always persuade others like wise men and torture themselves like fools. Ultimately, you have to admit that you are still a stranger to yourself. 16. If no one protects you, be cool enough to have no weaknesses. 17. No one is stupid. If you are always perfunctory, you will drift away. No one is stupid, and if they are not valued, they will become weaker and weaker. 18. Don’t laugh at me for not growing up, I just don’t want to live a complicated life. 19. Since I met you, life has been short and sweet! 20. Some people’s wounds heal slowly over time, like me. Some people's wounds fester slowly over time, like him. It turns out that all he has healed over the years is only his appearance. There is a kind of injury that goes deep into his bones and wreaks havoc in places you can't see.

21. The Buddha said to me: There is dust in your heart. I wiped it hard, and the Buddha said: You are wrong, dust cannot be wiped off. So I peeled off my heart. The Buddha said again: You are wrong again. Dust is not dust at first, so how can there be dust? 22. Please speak out your dissatisfaction and grievances with compassion and a gentle attitude, so that others can accept it easily. 23. When you are poor, use your body to give, such as sweeping the floor, sprinkling water, moving things, etc. This is also a kind of giving. 24. Tea tastes bitter and I didn’t like it when I was young. But when I saw my family serving hot tea to guests during festivals, I began to understand how much people respect tea. Gradually, from the ups and downs of the tea leaves when they enter the water, the emptiness of the tea color, the bitterness and sweetness of the tea taste, you can carefully appreciate the gains and losses, ups and downs, honors and disgrace of life, and taste the joys and sorrows of the world. 25. Loving someone is always simple, it is nothing more than what you think of, and brings endless joy; but understanding someone requires gentleness and patience over a long period of time. 26. Yi Zen: Master, what does it mean to really like him? Master: Just being willing to be with him. Izen: It seems like nonsense. Master: Otherwise? If you like each other, it should be comfortable and natural. You don’t have to waste each other, you don’t have to default on each other, and you don’t need to be heart-wrenching! You just want to stay together, eat together, play together, and be peaceful and happy. Really like it. 27. Life is actually like a swing, with ups and downs. When you rise, you must be prepared to fall; when you fall, you must have the confidence to rise. Sometimes, we feel like fate is playing tricks on us. Years of hard work will sometimes be in vain, and the happiness you were originally certain of will be broken one day. You can be miserable and angry, but please don't despair. Because, at least you still have tomorrow, and all those things that can't kill you can only make you stronger.

28. Sometimes, escape is not the only choice in life. Some people and some things are destined for a long time. No matter what method is used, no matter what kind of setbacks you experience, the dark threads of your destiny have long been intertwined, and you will eventually meet. 29. The tragedy of life is that when you want to cut both sides of the knife, there is only one knife. 30. In this life, some people accompany you to watch the sunrise, while others watch the sunset with you, just like some people can only watch the moonlight with you, but cannot wait with you for the first light of tomorrow. 31. Because we understand, we are tolerant; because we understand, we are of the same mind. Understand, let there be no distance between hearts, let lives cherish each other; understand, is the most beautiful communication and the most profound touching in life. The warmest thing in the world is someone who understands and feels pain. 32. Disappointment often comes from your unrealistic expectations.