1. Things you should think about, understand and cultivate when going to college.

(1) A question that should always be considered: What is a university?

The first chapter of "Adults" in the ancient Chinese cultural classic "Four Books" has a clear meaning at the beginning: "The way of a university is to be clear and virtuous, to be close to the people, and to stop at perfection." It means that in order to govern the country and ensure security, The method of this kind of great learning lies in advocating and carrying forward upright virtues and virtuous governance, being broadly close to the people and respecting public opinion, and endlessly pursuing the highest perfection and beauty, with the highest perfection and perfection as the goal. The university in the "Four Books" certainly does not mean the university today. But it can still enlighten us,

The task of learning at the advanced stage is to cultivate noble moral integrity, to cultivate thoughts and feelings that love the people, to acquire the knowledge to judge right and wrong, and to train the ability to make choices. The goal of higher education should be to cultivate students' quality and improve their abilities.

(2) There are two main differences between college and high school.

The first is the difference in learning. In high school, passive learning is the main focus, and students wait for the teacher to arrange learning tasks every day. Learning during college mainly relies on self-consciousness. No teacher will assign you specific study tasks every day, and no teacher will tell you everything you need to learn in college. The second is the difference in life. When entering college, you have to leave your parents, family, relatives and original friends, and you need to live an independent life by yourself.

(3) Students should also focus on cultivating three abilities during college.

First, the ability to deal with others. As a college student, you must first know how to be a person before you can do anything.

We must continue to learn knowledge from books, learn from the experiences of classmates around us, understand the principles of being a human being from the small things in life, never forget to spur ourselves and improve ourselves, think about the good when we see them, and introspect when we see the bad. If we want to have a foothold in the future society, and if we want to stir up our own unique waves in the tide of the times, we have no choice but to be better than others.

The second is learning ability. In college, learning is still the first priority. Learning is our bounden duty and our main task. College students must learn to learn. Having received higher education does not mean that the knowledge we have learned is qualified for any job, nor does it mean that our abilities have reached a certain height, nor does it mean that we will never need to study again, but it means that we have mastered Learning methods, knowing how to learn, and possessing the ability and quality of self-study. Therefore, in college, learning to learn is more important than the professional knowledge we learn.

The third is interpersonal skills. Interpersonal communication is the exchange of ideas, emotions, attitudes, information and learning. By exchanging ideas, one mind has multiple ideas. Share happiness and happiness will be doubled. Share your worries and they will be halved. Everyone is a unique life individual and must know something that other individuals do not know; and only if we are good at learning from everyone what we do not know can we continue to make progress. Students think too much about their own needs in interactions and tend to ignore the needs of others. Contradictions and conflicts easily occur. Some lack knowledge of social etiquette, resulting in a lack of harmonious atmosphere in communication; some do not understand the principles of communication, and either violate laws, regulations, or moral norms during communication, or are harmed due to the fault of the other party; some are too enthusiastic about communication activities, It affects normal study, work and life. Especially with the development of the Internet and the emergence of campus networks, some people are obsessed with online chat rooms or online games, spending precious time and energy in the virtual world. Some even regard online communication as child's play and violate morality and law. Instances happen from time to time.

2. Going to university and being admitted to university, how to successfully complete university studies.

(1) Establish the awareness that going to college is for further self-shaping rather than for ease and enjoyment.

In the college life that everyone has experienced, many students have reported such a problem: they don’t know what they are going to do in a day, or they are not motivated to do anything. This is a very common phenomenon among students who just enter college because they lose their goals.

For many students, college is their final stage of education. After finishing college, they have to find a job, but this still seems so out of reach for them who have been students for 12 years. No teacher in the university will surround you. Whether you learn or not is entirely your own business. Without the homework you couldn't finish before, you feel that class is empty for you. So what if you learn, and what if you don't learn? Rather than letting yourself study so hard, it is better to let yourself live a more relaxed life. No one can tell you what you should do, leaving you feeling at a loss.

Many of us lack mental independence and good self-control, and these people are simply unable to grasp these seemingly excessive freedoms. You have no idea what kind of person you want to be and what kind of career you want to do. From my ideals in elementary school, to my future in junior high school, to my college in high school, to my confusion in college. These people have completed the transformation of their life goals in this process, and what is left in the end is the dead insect skin. It is precisely because we have lost our goal that we have become a ship without direction, and any wind is not a tailwind.

I believe that if every student has a goal, everyone will live a fulfilling and busy life, and gain a lot. Therefore, every student is asked to set a goal for himself.

After you graduate from college, you suddenly find that apart from getting a college diploma and being able to talk about some seemingly profound topics, you have not learned any truly outstanding skills. The work you do may just have a nicer name, or it may be something that anyone can do. At that time, will you still blame others?

Every one of us wants to live a high-quality life, we all want our loved ones to live a worry-free life, and we all want to leave traces of our own value in the world, but these are not in enjoyment It can be achieved. God has given each of us a pair of hands and a brain, just to let us create and think. This period of college is the best time for you to study, so please give up your enjoyment, work hard to reinvent yourself, and gather strength for future development.

(2) Determine to become a master, seek defeat alone, and develop a killer weapon within four years, preferably with a "unique hidden weapon".

Graduation employment has become a very heavy topic for current college students. "Graduation = unemployment" is gradually becoming a social phenomenon. Therefore, before talking about ideals, the first thing college students must consider is whether they can find a job as soon as possible and survive based on their own abilities when they graduate. For many people, they can do it without having to reach out to their poor parents after graduation. Asking for food expenses etc. is already great.

Enterprises will never be short of ordinary soldiers who are dispensable for making small fuss. What they are short of are generals who can turn the tide and guide the country. In terms of intelligence, everyone is not far apart, so to become a general, you must work harder and risk your life than anyone else. As long as you have a skill that cannot be replaced by others, you will be the best, and you will naturally be able to call the shots.

When everyone has the same or similar skills as you, or when the person you are applying for does not have high requirements for the skills that you are good at, there will definitely be other candidates selected at this time. Job seekers with “bonus” skills. For example, in big cities nowadays, the beggars who can get the most money are not the beggars who are in the most miserable physical condition, but those who have suffered misfortunes and can still show off their street skills.

(3) Read more, learn more about talents, enrich your cultural knowledge, and enhance your communication skills.

"Your reading speed determines your success speed" - this is a truth recognized by the times! ! With the continuous development of the times, the most important thing in all walks of life is team spirit. And personal communication skills directly affect whether one can quickly and well integrate into a team. This is a very important ability that society emphasizes besides personal expertise.

Your success depends on the resources available to you and the number of contacts that can help your career.

Studying is useless.

Even if a person who studies hard gets a good diploma, it at most means that he will have a better diploma and work in a better unit...

(4) Strive to participate in social practice as soon as possible Get more in-depth contact with society, experience work, and learn to be a self-reliant person in college.

What China needs most is a large number of college graduates who are knowledgeable and self-reliant. However, China’s family education and school education only produce people who can only take exams and call daddy and mommy when something goes wrong. "Wizards"!

In college, give full play to your own advantages and talents, and do part-time jobs regardless of hardship. This will reduce the burden on your parents and at the same time hone your ambition. More importantly, you can experience early what real work is, what qualities and talents are required for the job you want to do in society, and what can you actually provide? This will give you a deeper understanding of how to be fully prepared for graduation.

(5) Responsibility is a sign of maturity!

If I remember correctly, your annual tuition fee is more than 5,060 yuan. Plus your living expenses and other expenses, most of them can reach more than 12,000 yuan. You are currently studying in university. You are receiving a high-cost education, but how much output do you get from your parents' high investment? Most of you come from rural areas or from small business families, and not many of you have a fortune. Every penny you use now is the hard-earned money earned by your parents, or even money borrowed from everywhere, which contains Incredible hardship and love for you all. On their faces scarred by time, there is a pair of eyes full of hope for you, those eyes that are cloudy and even a little blurry.

Responsibility is not given to you by others, but is determined by your own mature thoughts. You have a responsibility to your parents that you can never shirk, but you have given up on your mission in inaction and depravity. After one semester, when you returned home for the New Year, your parents still doted on you, were still full of hope for you, and still gave you instructions, but you didn't apologize at all, didn't talk about your studies at all, and even Instead of showing the transcript to them, I hid in a corner and signed the names that were supposed to be signed by them with my own hands. It is difficult to build something, but it is easy to destroy something. Students, please remember and assume your responsibilities to your parents.

(6) Face what you think is unfair with a normal attitude.

Some people may ask: Why can others live a carefree life, but I have to struggle in pain. Many students tried to run for office bearers and cadres of the student union and various societies when they first entered university. Afterwards, many students lamented: It’s not fair, everything must be done based on connections. I would like to ask, if that is the case, then if the school is like this, what about society? Isn’t it true that society is more thorough with power, relationships, and money? Why will you gain a foothold in society in the future? If you want power but not authority, if you want connections it doesn’t matter, if you want money but no money, then what else is there?

(7) Exercise regularly and actively participate in cultural and sports activities organized by the college.

The body is the capital of revolution. Actively exercising is trying to find ways to extend one's life and improve the quality of life. Literary and artistic activities cultivate people's sentiments and are conducive to physical and mental development.

3. Several issues that must be discussed when studying in college.

(1) Emotions are so overflowing that they are just regarded as a need!

Since we are talking about college life, love must be discussed. The university is full of adolescent boys and girls, and love inevitably happens here. But I don’t know when, this normal thing has been questioned like never before: college students nowadays are overflowing with emotions.

Nowadays, the emotions of college students are mixed with a lot of utilitarianism, desire, and indulgence. Every year at graduation, couples have their last meal, last hug, and last kiss, then turn around and leave, embarking on their own journeys, forgetting the relationship from then on, as if it never happened. Love is just seen as a need.

Please cherish your emotions, otherwise they will become very cheap. What is love? This should be clear in your heart. I think: being attracted because of excellence, being loved because of attraction, learning to love because of being loved, this is the process of love.

Absolutely not: you are attracted because of desire and vanity, you indulge your desires because of attraction, and you end up giving up because you indulge your desires.

There are a large number of college students in every grade around me who play games and fall in love all day long. Today, they are all worried about being unable to find a job, and they are living in hesitation and panic! If we had known this today, why bother in the first place! Students, please remember: there should be a certain amount of chicness and a certain amount of depravity!

(2) Understand yourself better than others understand yourself, have original insights and not be bound by traditional stereotypes.

Of course it is impossible to understand yourself, but college is indeed the most precious time of struggle in life, because during this period you are directly fighting for your personal future and your future, only by thoroughly understanding and Only by giving full play to your own strengths can you achieve success earlier and seize the future. According to Chinese people's thinking habits, when they graduate from college, most students will only find a platform based on the guidance of others, and then find their own weaknesses on that platform, and then begin to correct their personal weaknesses over a long period of time, thereby becoming qualified for the job - Minano National sorrow.

In college, most students spend at least 80% of their energy on examination subjects that are meaningless to their future. In college, those who study for exams, attend classes for roll call, and are still guided by stereotypes like middle school students can only become victims of education, never be able to control themselves, and can only be admitted to college!

(3) Skipping class is also a learning skill. Many people skip classes when they go to college. I personally agree with skipping classes, but skipping classes must be meaningful and "value for money." Remember, skipping classes is also a learning skill. It is not just skipping casually. Skipping classes cannot be an excuse for being tired of studying or being lazy.

(4) Do something that college students should do and ask some questions that college students should ask. Don’t think that you can get what you once wanted in the Youth League Committee, Student Union, and Federation of Societies. Your enthusiasm for work may change due to things you see or experience, but don't be afraid. You have a freshman year to adapt or suck it up and make the decision whether to stick with it or quit.

(5) Doing your own thing well in peacetime is the greatest patriotism.