The only thing that remains unchanged in the world is the truth that "everything is constantly changing." However, in the face of a rapidly changing future and a life full of changes, we are irresistibly affected by changes. How to deal with a sudden crisis, Dr. Spencer Johnson perfectly answers with his work "Who Moved My Cheese".
I finished reading this book during the summer vacation and felt that the word "willingness to change" is undoubtedly a key point in this book. It plays a decisive role for Heng Heng Hao and even their readers.
Cheese, for the protagonist in the book and for us, is a delicacy with a mellow taste, rich aroma, mildness and smoothness. The difference is that for the former, happiness and life are everything. Compared to us, the meaning of happiness is quite broad. But the same thing is, aren’t we all pursuing happiness? In this book, we can see that when facing the same result of "losing", Xiu Xiu, Hurry and the little people with the ability to think make completely different decisions. The former's simple thinking orders them to take active actions to seek more and better. The latter's mind is full of complexity, confusion and resistance. He kept asking all day long: "Why?" "Why did you let me lose it?" "Who touched my cheese?" Standing at the empty cheese station C, he firmly believed that the cheese belonged to him and would come back. Is he the so-called "never give up"? He is just stubborn, making mistakes again and again, and acting out the consequences of refusing to change.
In the midst of the differences, we may wonder, why do complex thinkers get trapped in bad situations? Could it be that thinking hinders progress? In fact, sometimes things will be much easier if you are simple and casual. Maybe change and change will bring us more delicious cheese. It depends on whether you go looking for it or not. As long as you act, the cheese will be right in front of you. Complex thinking, maybe if you change your concept and practice it, you will be better than those little mice. So the important thing is to have creative thinking and believe that there must be a better future, there must be hope, and we must persevere. For Heng Heng Ji people, breaking the old thinking patterns and updating traditional concepts must be a key issue that cannot be ignored. Perhaps, change means innovating oneself. Only by striving to seize the opportunity to develop oneself can the heaviness and profoundness before us be simplified. Otherwise, it will only become increasingly consumed. If you don't change, you will fall into the trap of being stuck in your ways. For Heng Heng, Haw was much luckier. In the end, Haw succeeded, but it was a little more frustrating. But perhaps Heng Heng was unable to cross the fence of conservative thinking until the end and remained stubborn.
Now let’s discuss the words worth thinking about on the wall of cheese!
“If you own cheese, you will have happiness.” In the midst of comfort and enjoyment, cheese is regarded as the only thing, and everything is taken for granted, thinking that one will always have it. Why own it? Because if you work hard, you will be rewarded forever?
“The more important the cheese is, the more you want to keep it.” This seems like a common psychology, but it hits our hopes. Who knows what is left behind? Just despair, emptiness and depression. It is the sentimentality after frivolity and joy.
"If you don't change, you will be eliminated." He told us the theme, didn't he? Be willing to change! So, what does elimination mean? Fall behind, get out, eliminate, replace, discard. The opposite is promotion and victory. Between comparisons, we should have a clear attitude towards changes.
"What would you do if you were no longer afraid?" A distinct emotion, fear, is a strong psychological or physical reaction of being at a loss due to unpredictable and uncertain factors around you. But what would you do if everything was predictable and there was nothing to do? You should move forward bravely and pursue it! Remember, action is what drives success.
“Smell the cheese often, so you know whether it is still fresh.” What you should pay attention to here is to cultivate reverse consciousness, think about suffering in the midst of happiness, and notice whether it is approaching you. Encourage yourself to keep seeking. Always be on guard, be vigilant, and treat cheese with caution.
“Go in a new direction and you will find new cheese.” It should remind those who are working hard to help them gain the motivation to forge ahead and capture the reality of development. Cheese is also used to seduce and motivate the Hems who are devoted to cheese.
“When you overcome fear, you will feel relaxed and at ease!” When people are in a state of panic and emergency when facing real or imagined dangers, this tense emotion, when When overcome, there will be a kind of happiness and relaxation from the heart. Just like in "Camel Xiangzi" II, "Hope makes him happy, fear makes him panic."
"Imagine yourself enjoying cheese, which can help you find new cheese." Psychologist Pavlov He believes that "suggestion is the simplest and most typical conditioned reflex of human beings." For us, every idea that exists in our minds will try our best to turn it into reality, and we ourselves are also working hard to turn cheese into reality. Belief, piety, and confidence in the possession of cheese are prerequisites for autosuggestion. The more confident you are, the less likely you will be disappointed and the better you will get the results you want. For example, cheese.
“The sooner you give up the old cheese, the sooner you can enjoy the new cheese.” Only by giving up can you get something, so-called willingness. Only by knowing how to give up at the right time can you have a better future. If you can wake up early in the morning, the situation will be much better, and what you will get will be richer.
“Searching in a maze is always more secure than staying in a place without cheese.” Working hard is at least to leave a hope for yourself. I don’t know that despair and pursuit are actually more than just cheese. A life that only gains strength by moving forward.
“Only by abandoning old ideas can we find new cheese.” Ruili’s pursuit of novelty is the cornerstone of a successful life. Only through innovation can we have the opportunity to stand out and create a new world of creativity and dare to Those who adapt to changes and know how to adapt are the winners.
As long as you believe that you can find and enjoy new cheese, you will change your behavior. Whether you achieve anything depends not on whether you change, but on what concept you hold towards change. It is said that a man died on the roadside. The first person saw it and left, and then the second person buried him after seeing it. In fact, neither person is wrong, so many times, there is no right or wrong concept. The concepts held by Heng Heng and Ji Ji are also normal and there is no right or wrong. However, there are also individuals who have serious mysophobia. The floor should not be walked around if it is clean. As he walked, people asked him that the purpose of keeping clean was not just for cleanliness, but also for making people feel comfortable. Therefore, when the concept of crude oil has come to an end and can no longer go on, then we have to change our thinking. There is nothing wrong with his love of cleanliness, but when it already makes people feel painful, it means that . During this period, the chirpers were known as "changers." Heng Heng people are stubborn people who stick to old rules and must correct themselves, otherwise they will be eliminated and eliminated by the collective. So just like Jiji, open your mind, let go of yourself, and live in the present. Clean, casual, calm, confident and free. "Be confident that if you live two hundred years, you will be like the water hitting three thousand miles." Let us also learn from Jiji, face difficulties with a smile, and challenge life with confidence.
Paying attention to small changes early will help you adapt to big changes in the future. Ignoring any details will bring unprepared consequences. Therefore, we must start with the details, guard against new ones, and persevere. Only by grasping every place at all times can we lock in safety, be prepared for all aspects of unsafe factors, and have the ability to deal with emergencies (such as cheese spoilage, cheese eating, etc.) etc.) emergency response measures. (At least it’s not like Heng Heng who stood still. Good preparations can prevent accidents from getting bigger, just like Kiss and Smelly hung their shoelaces around their necks and were mentally prepared in anticipation). Effectively reduce the impact of accidents. (Smelly and hurriedly prepared, they set off here directly after the accident. Heng Heng and Haw's greeting was unexpected, Heng Heng refused to change, and Haw was delayed for a long time). Preparation work is related to the timeliness and effectiveness of accident handling. At Cheese Station C, Heng Heng Hao failed to notice the small changes, and even caused an accident. He was not aware of the cause of the accident, and was unable to adapt to the results.
Change as the cheese changes, and enjoy the changes. Life or cheese will not change. We are not the role in it and assume what we should bear, so we should not follow it. Change with change? Those who go against the grain will reap the consequences. The change of all things and even cheese is the law of development. It exists objectively and is eternal. It does not depend on personal will. Everything must change in response to changes. In addition, just enjoy the change. I remember someone said: "The reason why life is beautiful is that we all grasp the tail of change. People who understand change will have happiness even if they don't have cheese, not to mention those who can change will definitely have cheese."
You can't change the environment, but you can change your state of mind. You can't change the facts, but you can change your ideas, and you can control the future. Change, let the constant ice that rushes in turn into beauty in an instant. Change, let the vision of the future gradually become a touchable mist.
Life is full of changes, and we must adjust ourselves to adapt to the changing world. Come together, follow Jiji and enjoy the little bits of vitality that change brings in boring life. We need to work harder to create and change unsatisfactory situations. Only those who are good at changing themselves can grow in difficulties. Even if they fail, they will not continue to be stubborn and naive. What's more, he won't fail because he has the ability to change failure! Change is coming, what can you do to save yourself? Please tell him loudly "by yourself!"