How to answer when a girl says she has gained weight
1. She is really fat. There's nothing you can do about it, but don't go along with her to say that you are really fat. You can say that the present situation makes you look cute or something like that, but it must be practical, otherwise you will look hypocritical and she will not feel comfortable listening. In addition, it can be said that she has a good foundation, and if she can persevere to lose weight, she will be a stunning beauty. This is easier to accept.
2. She is just a little fat. This kind of woman is generally more concerned about her appearance and what others think of her, so you should directly deny it, but don't say that she is not fat at all, but she is not obvious at all. Or if the opportunity is right, you can say: Have you used any methods to lose weight recently? Looks thinner than before. If she continues to be modest, you can say that it's not good to be too thin, and it's more sensible to be a little fuller. If she still says that she is fat, you will also say that she is really close to the standard figure. Just try hard.
For a woman who is thin, she usually doesn't call herself fat, which is hypocritical. Some thin women may not be satisfied with their body proportions or parts, or they may complain, so she will play it by ear. She is thin and boastful.
What do girls say about gaining weight?
Girls say they are fat. Do they really think so?
the answer is no.
First of all, it must be emphasized that women often feel that they are not thin enough.
subconsciously, there will be a kind of "I am really too fat. If I can lose another 1 pounds, I will be happier. " This kind of psychology is like a girl's wardrobe is always short of a dress, but she always has one or two pieces of meat on her body.
Secondly, from the perspective of social comparison, girls say this in order to clarify others' evaluation of themselves, and more often they expect to seek comfort and identity from the interviewees.
The concept of social comparison was first put forward by American social psychologist Festinger in 1954, which means that in the absence of objective comparison standards, individuals can understand their own thoughts and abilities, so they can achieve the purpose of self-evaluation by comparing with others.
From the perspective of social comparison theory, "obesity talk" is actually a process of information exchange. Its original intention is not to express dissatisfaction with one's body, but to clarify others' views on one's body through "obesity talk" and to seek some comfort from the interviewee.
Humorous jokes
A few days ago: her qq signature was updated to; I want to get fat! ! ! I went online to find some information about how to get fat and sent it to her. If you want to learn more about dating skills, please refer to the website: dating science-dating is an art.
she replied: thank you, hehe.
me: I'll treat you to dinner in the future. I can help you get fat!
her; Hehe, it's hot now, and I don't want to eat, so I'm so thin?
me; I don't think you are fat, you have a good figure, and it's okay to be a little fatter.
then she stopped answering me. But she changed her signature: I feel like a Woodenhead. I have no feeling or interest in anything. Alas, what should I do? Then she went offline ... The next morning, she changed her signature again: Sometimes, do you need a cheeky spirit to finish everything and never give up easily? I feel that her two signatures are for me, but I really don't understand what they mean.