1, never be easily moved by simple details.

Don't think that someone is good to himself just because he has said a few sweet words to himself. He really likes my idea. If he treats you like this skillfully at some moments, it may be because he treats other girls like this at other moments. Practice makes perfect. Some details can be performed. Remember!

2. Learn to let nature take its course in your feelings.

The best way to avoid falling in love is to learn to let nature take its course in feelings. Don't force a relationship, learn to get along with nature and make love icing on the cake. If love makes you feel hard or laborious, then stay away from it and don't be led by the nose!

It's actually your own problem to ask too much of a person.

If you are a person who easily falls into the love pit, even if the person you like is not very good and excellent. But your love brain will automatically add a beautification filter to him. Think about it from another angle: Is this person really that good? What does he look like in the eyes of others? Try to change your mind to the third dimension, he is just plain.

4. Put yourself first in any relationship.

Always put yourself first in any relationship. Am I happy? Do I like it? Never wronged yourself, your emotions are the most important. Unsafe relationships that make you feel swayed by considerations of gain and loss should be abandoned in time. If you always can't figure out whether the other person loves you or not, it's not love you. If you think he doesn't love you, he doesn't love you.

5. Learn to think independently.

If girls want to avoid becoming stubborn, they must have the ability to think independently and try to think calmly when they encounter anything. Don't lose your job or study because of love, and don't lose yourself because of love Before falling in love, you'd better tell yourself that you must not take love as the whole of your life.

6. Don't study each other's behaviors and emotions.

Don't study each other's emotions and behaviors too much, it's easy to get addicted to them and lose yourself. And if the other person doesn't want you to know, it's a waste of time to guess again. I really don't love you if I don't take the initiative to contact you, I really don't love you if I don't spend money on you, and I really don't love you if I don't spend time on you.

7. Don't dwell on why he doesn't like you.

Why doesn't he like me because I'm not good enough? Not good enough? Or am I not good enough? Why does he like others? Yes, I really don't have that girl. Well, you know, even a big star can't make everyone like it. Emotionally, fate is a wonderful thing. Being loved is accidental, and not being loved is the norm. Stop internal friction! Try to accept it.

8. Ask yourself what is good about the other person and what you like about him.

You can't like him for no reason at first. You should always ask yourself what you like about him. If you like him handsome, if he no longer looks like this, do you still like him? If you don't know what you like about the other person, then you probably don't really like him. Maybe you just like the feeling of warm taste, or what you imagined in your mind.

9. You may just be trapped in a relationship because your circle is too small.

Because you are in contact with the people around you, your object is likely to be the people inside. If you are trapped in a relationship, it only means that your circle is too small and there is no better and more suitable person to replace it. If you knew a person better, you might not have this kind of trouble.

10, you can live well without intimacy.

When you are good enough and strong enough, you can accept that no one in the world loves you. If you think you can't do it without love, it only means that you are not strong enough to give yourself what you want. Before that, you should keep learning, improve yourself and become better. Only if you are good enough can you be more confident.

1 1. Pay attention to whether your emotions and needs are met.

Love should make people happy and make you feel affirmed, valued and loved. If you feel rejected, lost, hit, or even cheated, you must pay more attention to your emotions if you want to stop in time.

12, the key to getting rid of "loving the brain" is to learn to love yourself.

Learn to feel safe. When we have the ability to love ourselves, we will understand that loving ourselves is the highest romance in life. Therefore, always choose yourself first and care about your emotions and feelings. Only you are the only protagonist in life. Be the protagonist in your own life. The rest are icing on the cake.