1. Conversation without interaction.

1. Leave a message in space

Don’t go up to talk when you are still strangers to each other. It is difficult to choose a conversation topic between two people who have not met each other. The first impression of the conversation If it is destroyed, there may be no chance in the future. So before talking, you need to know yourself and the enemy. Read the articles in her space and give comments. It is best to read all her articles for the first time, or look at the direction in which she reprints the literature. Comments are your first DHV, they must be long, show your understanding, the similarities between yours and hers, seeking common ground is the key to this message. Experience should not be less than 200 words. Eye-catching, high quality.

2. QQ message

Even if you see her online, you can't speak. Wait until she stops leaving messages. This first message will let her get to know you. You tell her what kind of person you are and show your multi-layered hobbies. This is a high-value display in order to attract her desire to talk to you. Don't talk about the memories of your hookups. Don't comment on her appearance. The purpose of this first message is to let her know your high value, generate attraction, and show yourself, not interaction. After you leave a few messages, she will reply to you. Once you are attracted, you can start a normal chat.

3. Mood Tracking

Always pay attention to her signature and mood. This is your compass for choosing chat time. Don’t choose when she is unhappy, otherwise your efforts will be half the result. . Women are emotional beings and choosing to do it when she is in a good mood is key. Don't judge a woman's mood. Remember, this is critical. Women's moods change rapidly and are difficult to grasp, and your follow-up comments can sometimes be counterproductive.

2. It is better not to chat than to be bored.

1. Control desires

Many people find it difficult to see beautiful women online, so they just chat with them, as if the longer the time, the better. It's so boring that I don't want to give up anymore when there is no topic. Until people are boring. In fact, if you run out of topics, just log off decisively or become invisible. This will leave you with an opportunity to chat next time. If the atmosphere here becomes boring, people will directly block you next time. The boring behavior of holding on to the topic is DLV.

2. Be good at leaving

Can a few more words make a woman fall in love with you? no! You have to control the image of yourself chattering in front of women and stop abruptly at the climax. Let her look forward to your next conversation. You have to be the conversation stopper every time. This is your strong attitude.

I usually say that when a friend comes to discuss a plan with me, I leave first. This is a DHV. A suggestive framework, a strong expression.

3. Ask fewer questions

Excessive questions show your desire to ask questions. In fact, what you want to attract a woman is not how much you know about her. Just because you know more about a woman, it doesn't mean you can TD her. So all you have to do is present yourself, do your job of attracting, and women will fall in love with you. I have a case that I pushed forward. I have fucked her several times and I don’t even know her specific name or what she does. It’s not important to know a woman, it’s important to make her want to know you.

3. Master the rhythm of chatting.

1. Contact rhythm

Don’t chat with her online every day. Sometimes you should be deliberately cold. Either they would ignore it if they saw it, or they would simply not let her see it. You have your own life, not chatting online all day long. Even if you are not busy, you must show that you are busy. You are not a nerd hanging on the line all day long.

I usually have an interval of three days or two days. Slowly and often. Because you are very busy, let her adapt to your rhythm and schedule. You also need to find time to chat with other sisters.

2. Story advancement rhythm

You create your own story, don’t tell it all at once, tell it a little bit a day, or your DHV story needs to be released slowly. Make women fall into complexes. Instead of telling people everything about themselves right away like AFC, I want people to know everything about myself at once. Telling stories slowly and showing the rhythm well is a kind of attraction.

3. The rhythm of this conversation

As for the rhythm of a certain conversation, you don’t have to rush to reply to her statement. Reply as soon as possible. This is DLV in itself. Chill her for a while. Delaying your reply shows that you don't attach much importance to this chat, and also gives you time to think about how to reply. Third, you don’t need to prepare too much conversation material within a unit of time. If a woman asks, are you busy? How should you answer and explain your behavior? Go to the Henan group to consult me. Haha

4. Create your story.

1. Language stories

To pick up girls, you need to learn to tell stories. Telling stories well is very important for picking up girls. I will only talk about the experiences of Ah Q, Heizi, Lao Wang and other experts in picking up girls. In fact, storytelling is a kind of emotional output, not just humorous stories, but also stories that show your personality, stories that show your love, and stories that show your vulnerability. What you want to create is that you are a story-telling, interesting, and real person.

2. Background cues

The so-called background cues are actually silent wingmen. Your space is your silent wingman, your articles, your diary, showing your all-round self and your life. Women will be attracted after reading your article. I remember that the Hollywood plan of "The Pickup Artist" was to let the women who came watch the home videos they edited. After watching the videos, many women automatically became intimate. This is the benefit of the silent wingman implied by the background. Create your space, it will be your online wingman.

3. Show photos

Your photos show the real life and your social value. Take more photos with friends, take more photos with women, and take more photos with you. Take photos at large events and often when traveling. This is a display of your high social value, your pre-selection, your aura, and your life.

5. Use the jitter window to bury your anchor.

1. Virtual movement

Because it is purely text communication and lacks body language, the shaking window of QQ brings that slight shaking, but it is a kind of silent feeling. Dynamic, I call it virtual movement. Increase kinesthetic sensing beyond verbal signals.

2. Establish personality

Very few people use jitter, but I use it often. Sometimes I barely need to type, and a jitter can make women feel my greeting. Shaking is the body language of the web. If you use dithering well, you will create a unique image from the side. As time goes by, even if someone else uses the dithering window, she will think of me.

3. Bury an anchor

When you guide her to tell happy stories, use jitters instead of smiley signs. The establishment of such a bond several times actually puts her in a happy mood. Established a connection with this jitter. When you chat in the future, without text, as long as you shake from time to time, she will be very happy.

6. Chatting is a boring project.

1. Set up a plan

Dating is a plan that can be standardized, but chatting is not a plan. Many people chat as they please. Before chatting, they don’t have a road map in their mind. Today I will tell that story and what IOIs are to be obtained. Either you didn't show the high value you wanted to show, or you missed something to show, or missed the opportunity. Therefore, your DHV needs to be planned after several presentations, and you need your own chat plan.

2. Progress step by step

After formulating a chat plan, strict implementation is crucial. Chatting with the target is not a pleasant process, but a battle. You must strictly implement the battle plan. You have to show your DHV, you have to pass various tests, and you have to constantly push and pull. Therefore, you can’t chat as you please, you have to have a clear understanding of every sentence. Should I push or pull? Many people ask whether this is tiring. In fact, it is tiring at first, but once you become proficient, it becomes very simple.

3. Gradually standardize

After you become proficient, it is actually standardization, which is to constantly improve your plan. After you continue to test and inspect, you will leave something useful and you have standardized it. Chat plan, you will reach the state of transformation. No more fuss, but an execution.

7. Some of my personal views on the ambiguous method of chasing girls.

1. Temptation is played on the spot

Many people like to tell adult jokes and sexual hints on QQ. In fact, I have always been opposed to this way of expression. It is not because of my moral constraints, but because I feel like this is not the right game. You can seduce a single girl who wants to have an affair, but if you meet a girl who has a boyfriend, is not very attracted to you, and has a more traditional moral sense, your temptation will actually be sensed by a woman's sixth sense. Heart. Take it first instead of leaving it to chance, and it just so happens that the woman wants it too. Then you have to play it right. Take a look at the books about charming men, and they say in Bringing Women Home, you can’t stay too long, I have to go to work tomorrow. The woman's protective shield and ASD will not be touched until entering the room.

2. Ambiguity leads to disconnection between Jin and Nuo

Many people are too ambiguous online, which will lead to death in public. The fundamental reason is that the Internet is virtual and lacks physical movement, and, as tango said, "Unlike playing video games, you cannot expect to continue playing from the save file at the end of the last meeting as soon as you see the target. You , need to be warmed up again. "Many people are ambiguous online and pretend to be serious when they meet, which makes women feel very different and makes them feel restrained. Some people think that online is very passionate, and they hug each other when they meet. Women's bodies are not warmed up yet, so they are easy to get shot. In fact, the fundamental reason is that the disconnection between ambiguity and advance leads to unsmooth promotion. It is necessary to follow the correct game and use body language promotion instead of simple language promotion. This avoids many erroneous factors during the meeting.

3. Stuck in the illusion zone

I have to admit that women like to play with ambiguity and can easily fall into ambiguity. In fact, women are essentially emotional animals. As long as there is an ambiguous feeling, she can fall into it, but she is not anxious about sex itself. In fact, the ambiguous zone is also a type of friendship zone, which is an emotional backup. The ambiguity has lasted for a long time and lacks the driving force of mysterious passion. Failing to advance to the next stage.

8. The end mark of the network phase

1. Obedience test

How to make her obey in the virtual space, make an appointment for her next online time, and let her Waiting for you during the chat. Let her find information for you. Then she will revise the article for you. Gradually make her obey virtually. Let her invest in the relationship. I usually say, send me a text message when you get off the plane. In other words, when you get off the plane, call 886. You must call this. This is obedience.

2. Move towards reality.

After all, the Internet is just a step towards dating. This step is the amount of obedience and IOI you accumulate from women. If you think it's okay, go online, use text messages, and make phone calls. You have to get off the Internet and go to her real side. appear in her daily life. This way it doesn't feel unreal.

3. Dating node.

Go off the Internet and into reality, and you can go on a first date. And this node is the woman's active interaction and asking you to go online. Take the initiative to say hello to you. Take the initiative to find topics. Your attraction and comfort needs to be done online. This time should not exceed 1 month. In fact, according to the rhythm, in more than half a month, I can make an appointment for TD. You must seize opportunities when they arise, otherwise they will be lost over time. It's not good to meet early, and the appointment won't be effective. If it is too late, the chance to move towards reality will be lost. After all, being around him can still make her forget about other men.

9. Be wary of vests that appear during chatting.

If you chat for a long time, you will have this experience. Many girls who are fascinated by you will wonder how such an interesting person like you could fall in love with me. They have low self-esteem and doubt themselves, so they use vest numbers to test you. If you pass the test and are not attracted to her, then you will win her heart. Otherwise, you're out. This is an unavoidable test.

The vest number has several identifying characteristics

1. She took the initiative to add you.

2. She and your target are generally not online at the same time.

3. You are not invisible to the target. If you are invisible to her, she will know that you are there.

4. Do not share your mobile phone number, make phone calls, or open videos

5. I am very interested in your love life and do not like to talk about myself

6. Most of the newly registered numbers have empty information

After identifying the vest, you have to crack it and tell her that you are not a casual person. You can't appear impatient, she wants to examine your attitude towards other women and see you from the other side. Also confirm your feelings for her. Maintaining a kind attitude and chatting without ambiguity is the way to break the vest.