The highest state of chatting is that every sentence has a desire to chat.
The following is mainly for "online" chat, which is applicable to everyone. Especially suitable for girls who have just known boys for a long time.
Of course, one situation is not applicable, that is, boys are tired of you and ignore your situation.
1. Know yourself and yourself.
At the very least, you should know his basic character and be lively and cheerful? Introverted and shy? Silence? Humor? Wise and talkative?
Generally speaking, what kind of person he is also determines what kind of woman he is interested in. How did you know?
Second, the topic: Learn to "cold read"
Cold read his basic information: avatar, nickname, personalized signature, especially friends circle!
You can also inquire through other channels and the information he revealed during the chat.
Third, don't talk nonsense seriously.
He likes basketball. Some girls say this: Exercise is good/Exercise is good for health/Exercise is good/What other sports do you like besides playing basketball? ...
Come and go, all these pleasantries. How to solve it? ↓↓↓
Fourth, learn to expand the topic, this is very important!
I really don't understand basketball, but I have won the second grade in basketball in our class before. Anyway, I just screamed and applauded with those girls, hahahahahaha.
I really don't understand basketball. My sports cells are zero ~ when I was a child .../You seem to love sports. I think I am so poor because there has been no good coach to take me/the teacher to ask!
Fifth, establish taste.
This is a very very important content! ! The most important essence of this content is: guiding dating and meeting.
M: Sorry, I fell asleep last night and didn't see the message.
W: I thought you wouldn't disappear. A pouting expression.
M: No.
W: Say good night before going to bed in the future, or someone will wait blindly. M: Well, all right.
Woman: Penalty! ! ! I must punish you ... (guiding the date to meet)
Sixth, finally, take the initiative to end the topic.
When you are talking very high, take the initiative to end the topic and let him feel unfinished all night, and you will succeed.
Pay special attention to
Never argue with boys, be serious! This will make you difficult to get along with.