For this result, a netizen said, "As a bystander, I can't accept it, let alone Jiangge's mother."
Life and death are separated. It's hard to imagine what Ma Jiang's life would be like without Jiangge's company. ......
"People who lose their loved ones are called widows, and children who lose their parents are called orphans. What are the parents who lost their children? "
"There is no name, because this is a cruel and indescribable identity."
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If the murderer is sentenced to death, can Jiangge's mother get out of the pain of losing her daughter?
No, anyone with parents and relatives can know this.
However, although we know that the Japanese judiciary may not sentence Jiang Shifeng to death, we still have to help Jiang Ge's mother petition, because we feel sorry for this sad mother and for Jiang Ge's death in vain. Between the ungrateful playwright's best friend and the frenzied murderer, we choose to stand beside Jiangge's mother, choose kindness and justice, choose to protect her, support her and bless her.
I am the daughter of my mother who had a similar experience with Jiangge's mother.
The victim is my brother, who was 18 years old when the accident happened. Due to the negligence of the staff, he and another colleague were killed by leaked carbon monoxide at night because they did not close the valve of the gas stove in the operating room.
The perpetrators finally got the punishment they deserved, and relatives, friends and neighbors who were concerned about the matter stopped visiting frequently.
My mother fell down until my brother's funeral. She is just in her early forties. Before the incident, she liked to watch the 8 o'clock stall, like to cook good food, and she would visit Miss Sister's house when she was free.
After the incident, she couldn't hear the high decibel noise and couldn't help crying when she saw the lively scene on TV, so my dad cut off the power of the TV and locked the game machine and walkman in the cupboard. The house began to be shrouded in silence, and the loudest noise during the day was the sound of bathing at night.
She refuses to go out, no longer cares about the price of serving food in the market, no longer compares which fabrics are cheap, and besides cooking three meals every day, she just wanders in her brother's room.
Some elders advised my mother with tears: You should move on and take good care of these two daughters. Xiao Quan sees that you are so worried. ...
My mother has dried her tears and leaned against one end of the sofa and said, why didn't I die?
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Less than 10 years old, I learned for the first time that life is not just about playing and candy, but also about never waking up and living a broken heart.
When I grow up, whenever I see the victims in news events, the pain that can't be expressed in words will flood my body again. My internal organs are pulled by a tension, just like being slapped, and my whole body hurts. You are struggling to grasp your distant relatives with your hands, and there is only a dark hole in front of you. This is where will you go, and nothing can be done.
Jiangge's mother is a very brave mother, and this bravery is the function of Jiangge's great death. She lives for Jiangge and also for her love for Jiangge.
Jiangge was rejected as a daughter by her father who preferred sons to daughters when she was born, so Jiangge's mother divorced him and let Jiangge take her surname. Such a decisive and brave mother is rare in today's society. More than 20 years of single-parent life did not drag her down. After Jiangge was killed, she fumbled to learn to use Weibo WeChat to get justice for Jiangge.
Judging from the information posted by Jiangge's mother on Weibo and WeChat official accounts, every piece of information is clear, organized and well-founded, without hurting anyone except her own pain. In desperation, I got the identity information of Liu Xin's family and posted it online. Later, I learned that it was inappropriate or deleted. Can be said to be a comprehensive and decent person. So as to cultivate a warm, kind and brave Jiangge.
She finally died in a foreign country.
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In the video sent by a friend who helped at the scene in Japan, Jiangge's mother hugged and shook hands with everyone who went to sign the petition, which seemed to be in good condition. But I'm always worried about where Liu Xin will go when the murderer gets to the scheduled destination and gets rid of the pressure of public opinion.
Some psychologists say that it will take three or four years for his family to get out of the haze after the sudden departure of their loved ones. My mother's recovery cycle is longer than three or four years. During that time, my home was almost completely closed. My mother is not interested in all topics except thinking of my brother.
She stopped crying suddenly when she was doing housework, woke up suddenly when she was sleeping, and then stared at the door hoping someone would come back. ......
My sister and I learned to speak softly for the first time, and also learned how to encourage my mother, comfort her when she is in tears, and accompany her not to eat when she doesn't want to eat. My mother loves us dearly and always insists on eating something. Even so, we accidentally took five pairs of chopsticks while eating, and our efforts will collapse in an instant.
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Looking back now, the general feeling is that during that time, the wounds in our hearts have been dripping blood and there is a lingering haze on our heads. When we go out, we can't see the sun and the wind can't notice the cold.
In fact, such a cautious and intense numbness is a stage that all people who have experienced the death of their loved ones have to go through.
Some people say that when time passes, the wound will heal slowly. People will encounter all kinds of setbacks in this life, and their bodies will be covered with invisible and tangible injuries. Some will heal, others will bleed all their lives until their lives are exhausted.
People who are lovelorn can buy a former trash can with a smile. People who have had a serious illness will heal their scars and forget their pain. The life of a mother who lost her child is no longer complete.
Even if you encounter happy things, there will be bitterness in your smile.
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In the last year of junior high school, my mother went to school to attend my parents' meeting. When she came home, she met a group of seniors in senior three. The sun was high, and they walked past us talking and laughing. My mother suddenly stopped. She came to her senses and said bitterly, your brother used to be like this.
After more than ten years, my peers have become other people's parents, and my sister has been promoted to a new mother. My mother happily began to help my sister take care of the children.
Now, she seems to have grandchildren and everything. She likes to eat well and dress beautifully, and she has time to catch up with plays every day.
But I know the hole in her heart is still there.
On the eve of Lantern Festival the year before last, she took a nap on the sofa and suddenly woke up, calling my brother's name.
Jiang Qiulian, who lost Jiangge, and Lin Dad, who lost his wife and children, spent the rest of his life more terrible than most people thought.
There is a joke that says, "We know your life is meaningless, but oil is really expensive." . Life may be meaningless to you, but to your parents and family who love you, you are more important than their lives.
So, love them and cherish yourself.
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Finally, a few more words, single girls should learn to protect themselves correctly and share a very preventive article for you online. Author Ai Xiaoyang.
1. As a woman, please always remember that you are a vulnerable group in violent crimes. This is not gender discrimination, but gender equality. Therefore, women should always put self-protection first in life, not protecting others.
The second point that girls should keep in mind is to avoid confrontation with men at all times. Don't argue with men alone.
The greatest magic weapon to avoid conflict is "I don't look at you". Avoiding eye contact with malicious people can avoid 90% conflicts.
When there is conflict, it is good to think of people as bad people. Psychological warning is very important. With psychological warning, we can correctly judge the situation and don't stick to our own opinions. If you want to make your psychological warning sensitive, you must think of people at the worst.
5. Be responsible for your own affairs and be measured in other people's affairs.
6. We should not only believe in the goodness in the world, but also understand the evils in the Jianghu.
7. It is necessary to understand that no matter how powerful their profession and personality are, women are an appropriate vulnerable group in the face of violence. It is wisdom to show weakness and not be ashamed.
8. Life is greater than reason, wealth, affection and everything.
Please note: all men who struggle to break up are dangerous. They are typical paranoid personalities: suspicious, sensitive, stubborn and self-centered. A man with no defect in personality, if a girl insists on breaking up, even if she loves again, she will not entangle.
In this case, falling in love hurts IQ. True love is to respect each other's choices and let them live high.