In fact, when you are studying the practice of chatting, experts are already studying the principle of chatting.
Today we will share these chat words to ensure that you can chat with your sister paper until you can't stop!
Seize the core interests and start.
If you want to talk to someone, you have to face dozens of chat invitations every day. You can send a simple "hello" and a vulgar "what are you doing?" Do you think she will talk to you?
From the perspective of love economics, chatting also has a cost, at least it can kill boring time. If you can benefit from chatting with her, she will have the motivation to chat with you.
Let's see how ordinary young people and young artists chat with girls.
Ordinary youth: Hello, are you free recently? I want to ask you out to play.
Woman: I'm speechless (I just ignore it)/I'm busy recently and have no time.
End of topic.
Literary youth: The snow scene is really beautiful recently. Would you like to come out and enjoy the snow with me? The ski resort in /XXX has opened. Let's ski together. ...
Woman: Yes, I like snow best/but I can't ski yet ~
Literary youth: this is easy to handle. Call the teacher quickly and I'll teach you.
W: The teacher is in class, and the students. ...
After some preparation, plus topics or activities that the other party is interested in, let alone direct chat. Isn't it a matter of minutes to invite?
Clever use of friends circle to start dynamically.
Students, this is definitely a sub-topic. Do you have any wood? If you can't do this, the teacher can't vomit blood for three liters!
In fact, this method is very simple and rude. Look through her circle of friends and see what she's doing. Sometimes it's not much, but more than a discount is enough. The information obtained is more than enough for the beginning of the conversation.
Girls like to send some shopping information, where to go today, what to eat today, how to play with their girlfriends today, blabla's …
These are all ready-made topics.
Here's an example from my own experience: I saw a gourmet continuous shooting posted by my sister's circle of friends, so I opened the private chat window directly.
M: Where did you eat XXX today?
Woman: Yes, it's delicious. I haven't enjoyed it so much for a long time. (Not only successfully opened the topic, but also began to talk about feelings)
M: I want to eat, too. I haven't eaten for a long time. Pretend you want to eat, and the other person may invite you to eat.
Woman: Then you can eat. (Very normal reply)
Man: You ate so much by yourself ... (Change the subject)
W: How about two people?
M: With whom?
Woman: My best friend (photo sent).
Man: Is this you?
Woman: Just had dinner with me (and then sent me a photo).
Man: Haha, I just came to cheat the photos.
Woman: gun (angry expression) ...
Man: Hehe, it looks very sweet and awesome (Flower emoticon).
Woman: The expression of snickering. (Continue to send photos)
Girls send you photos just for praise. Don't be too vulgar when praising, say something different.
You can't use this kind of chat much, just use it occasionally. If it is too much, the other party may get bored.
Don't stick to one place when using it. Just like bonus hunter, it is not good to sell Agger to you.
This way of chatting is to start with this, and then extend it in time and transfer to other topics.
Another taboo is not to chat with news or signatures, let alone gossip like a repeater. Chatting should make her feel that you care about her, but the sense of need will not be great.
Play some word games, and then start.
The so-called word game is to deliberately misinterpret each other's words and lead to some funny fragments, so as to quickly reconcile the atmosphere of both sides and achieve the result of happy chat.
Well, that's the way to talk to people. It's to tease girls. No matter where you cut in, you just need to Doby her, deliberately not do what she says, and occasionally suppress her. When she deliberately talks back to you and likes to say "go away, die, get up, get up", you can start an ambiguous topic. This is very effective.
For example, I met a girl on QQ before, and her signature said: "Small fresh meat control". I started like this:
M: Hello, I'm Xiao Xianrou.
Woman: You are not a small fresh meat, you are an old bacon.
M: What font is this? It's crooked.
Woman: You don't understand this, XXX style. ...
M: Well, you know a lot, XXX (her name, I deliberately typed a wrong word, it looks like it)
Woman: Goodbye eyes.
M: Haha, your name is xxx…… ... ...
The key to flirting with girls is to guide them and not give them too much time to think. They are stupid, but you can't just say they are cute and cute, so on the surface, you are actually praising them.
On the surface, I said I would beat you back, but my heart was full of joy.
Of course, you can also talk about whether she is feminine or not and the exciting topic of "weight", as long as it doesn't involve insulting personal attacks.
Bullying girls is silly, and you can play a small game, such as throwing a sieve-the standard expression of WeChat.
If the other person finds it interesting, just follow, and then you can compare the sizes, and whoever is older will continue to throw, or give out red envelopes, and so on. As long as they can interact, everything is not a problem.
For higher orders, you can also send a "1" directly, and send a "2" if the other party is interested. You follow "3", she follows "4", and then you
Don't say "5", just say "6" and she will ask you why. You answer 4 followed by 6, silly. Don't pursue science, it's just a game. What you need is interaction to arouse her emotions.
Of course, nothing can do everything. Maybe she doesn't care about you. Forget it.
Overbearing CEO chat method
Say "hello" carefully at the beginning of the chat, and the momentum will be gone. You wanted to play something, but the weak opening was immediately chased by the other side:
Where are you from? Who are you? How old are you? Why not send photos? Do I know you? What happened? Sorry, I don't know you, hehe, goodbye. ...
Too much talk is all tears. What if it's swollen?
The momentum and gas field must be strong!
Share a friend's chat experience here:
Man: Baby ~
Woman: ... Why? Don't talk every time we chat.
Man: I always talk and I sing ~
Woman: Gee, you don't talk to me much every time.
Man: Let's chat all night today, shall we?
Woman: I dare not! (Actually, I dare! )
Man: OK, give me your mobile phone number!
Female: 1XXXXXXXXXX~
M: OK, I'll call you in XX, and I'll go to work/eat first.
Woman: Go and eat. I will fall asleep then.
M: I like to listen to girls who are a little sleepy.
W: Well, it's good that you're awake.
Be overbearing, show your powerful aura, don't be timid, what are you afraid of?
Your powerful gas field not only makes demands, but also allows the other party to follow you obediently.
That's what girls do. They want to find a man who can control her, but they have been trying to control themselves all their lives.
So at the beginning, you should be overbearing, forcibly instill your views into her, and let her think according to your ideas, follow your ideas and listen to your words.
If she refuses the above article, you can add a sentence or two. I said, "I'll call you as soon as I say it," so that the other party could listen honestly.
Of course, be gentle when you are overbearing. Such men and sister papers have no resistance at all.
Male god chat method
Another trick is the "male god chat method", which requires you to show your high value in the circle of friends and shape your image of a male god.
Then tell her that you care about her, but you won't text her.
You tell her your phone number and ask her to send you a text message, which can be good night or something.
This is the same as above, paying attention to momentum.
These chat methods shared today can be summed up in five factors: showing value, finding content, exerting humor, showing strength and spreading charm.
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