In the conflict between Chu and Han, Liu Bang was defeated in almost every battle, but in the next battle at Gai, he defeated the arrogant Xiang Yu and established the Han Dynasty. If after several failures, you don't dare to make progress and fight your opponents again, where will victory come from? The winner must have more patience. If you win, don't be proud of the temporary success. You must maintain the momentum of victory and keep up your efforts, otherwise you will fail sooner or later. Winners can also become losers, and losers can also become winners. This is a common occurrence in historical development.

Summarize experience and draw lessons, including successful and failed experiences and lessons. Success and failure go hand in hand. Where there is success there is failure, and when there is failure there is success.

Once you fail, you must be able to withstand the test of failure, control the dangerous and complex situation, try your best to maintain the status quo, and not panic. Losers often have this mentality. Because they are already in a losing situation, they do not dare to fight to the death and are afraid of failing again. Then they will tie their hands and feet and lose the opportunity to turn defeat into victory. What's more, if you fail, you won't admit defeat, don't calmly analyze the reasons for the failure, and are eager to turn defeat into victory. As a result, you will act rashly, which will lead to greater failure. These are all manifestations of being unable to bear defeat. Be able to withstand the joy of victory. Anyone who wins must finally succeed after a lot of hardships and hard work. Achieving success is not easy, maintaining it is even harder. This is because the joy after success often makes people fall into a state of pride and complacency, lose their cool heads, and fail to see themselves correctly. Nor can he view his opponents correctly. If you cannot control your joy of success, failure will follow.

Mark Twain was a writer, but he could not help but be obsessed with money and started doing business. The first time he invested in typewriters, he lost more than US$190,000 due to being deceived. The second time I started a publishing company, I lost another US$94,000 because I was an outsider and didn't know how to run it. He lost nearly 300,000 U.S. dollars in two bankruptcies. Not only was all the royalties he had earned through years of hard work lost, but he also owed a lot of debt. He had as many as 96 creditors. He was so sad about this that he wanted to die. His wife Olivia is a smart and virtuous woman. She knows that her husband has no business skills but has a literary genius, so she helps him give up the idea of ????suicide, endure the pain of failure, muster up courage, and cheer up. , to return to the path of creation. Finally, he quickly got rid of failure, paid off all his debts, and established brilliant achievements in literary creation.

Failure does not mean despair, and falling does not mean that the road of life has come to an end. Stand up, look at what you have to do, look at yourself again, and analyze to see if you are qualified. If not, it is best to find something that you can adapt to. You don't have to run all the way to the dark side and "move forward bravely"; as for The practices of "only success, no failure" and "success or failure" are even more unnecessary. Mark Twain benefited from his wife, who encouraged him to endure the pain of failure and get out of the shadow of failure. For him, it was really like taking a step forward into the abyss, where people would die, and taking a step back to reach the vast sea and leap into the sky.