2. Everyone should keep some secrets for himself, but learn to find an outlet for his emotions. If you don't keep a diary, you can talk to your friends or communicate with netizens. You can also write it on paper, and then tear it up, so that the bad mood can be thrown away with the paper
3. Hehe, you take imitation too seriously. Everyone has herd mentality, which is not your fault. If you think you lack self-determination, try to exercise, start with small things, make a rational analysis and make a decision that you think is reasonable. Don't be afraid of making mistakes, it's better than stopping
4. Hesitant? With all due respect, you must not like to think. I love to ask others when I am too lazy to ponder, but I may have suffered some losses from trusting others, so I am more hesitant. Briefly talk about how to analyze things. For example, if you want to buy a car, there are a lot of other opinions. You should first think clearly about your financial affordability to determine what price is good, and then let everyone recommend it to you according to the performance you need. Look carefully at the information of recommended models, choose the one that appeals to you most in appearance, and then go to a reputable car dealership to buy it, and it's OK!
It's not difficult to make your own decisions. Act according to the regulations, calm down and analyze, and consult people who you think are smart and kind-hearted.
good luck!