This question is actually very interesting, because everyone who has been there has experienced this period of emotional ignorance when they were in school, when boys were obsessed with girls, and girls also had deep feelings for boys. Those years were the purest and also Most sincerely.

However, in the same way, people who are over 90 years old end up without a cure. They can only bury the other party deep in their hearts, never flirt with each other, and never touch them. However, after many years of class reunion, it is easy to let this long-lasting relationship disappear. Zaishuren's emotions burst out again.

So this is also the reason why many married partners do not want their husbands or wives to attend class reunions, because the other person’s past is harmful to the current marriage and future life.

As my friend Jiang Ning said: "When my wife is going to attend a class reunion, she must report it 10 days in advance and investigate whether there are any abnormalities in her recent ideological trends before she can sign and agree with confidence."

It sounds like a joke, but it actually illustrates your partner's aversion to the word "class reunion" in disguise.

Zhang Peng and Du Ningning met at work. At first, they were just colleagues. They had some contact because of work. Zhang Peng was three years older than Du Ningning and came to the company at the time. Ning Ning was also very tall, so she took good care of the newcomers at that time.

Du Ningning’s beautiful appearance and cheerful personality also made Zhang Peng, who usually had a narrow circle of friends, feel happiness that he had never experienced before. In addition, Du Ningning also had some obvious feelings for Zhang Peng. The two had a good impression, and the two broke through the layer of window paper, and naturally got together.

After getting along for about a year, their relationship gradually stabilized, and they also met each other’s parents. Especially Zhang Peng’s parents were very satisfied with Du Ningning and wanted to marry Du Ningning immediately.

After getting married, Zhang Peng loved Du Ningning in every possible way. He was afraid of melting into his arms when he held her in his arms. He was just called a good husband with 24 filial piety, but he also shifted the focus of his life to his family and his wife. On the body.

However, although Du Ningning loves Zhang Peng very much, he is still surrounded by opposite sexes, which makes Zhang Peng both happy and distressed. The joy means that his wife does have a good personality, and the distress means seeing her calm look. There is no other way but to be generous.

One day Du Ningning said that he was going to attend a college class reunion. This matter made Zhang Peng very concerned. Zhang Peng knew that Du Ningning once had a boyfriend who had been in love for 5 years and was a college classmate, so he probably You will definitely encounter it this time.

It’s not that Zhang Peng is nervous because he doesn’t trust him. It’s just that meeting old classmates and his first love will inevitably bring back memories from the past. It’s not that Zhang Peng thinks the worst of people, but life. When you are happy, you are afraid that something will go wrong, and you have too much helplessness.

Du Ningning said that this was the first party after graduating from college, and she didn’t know when the next time would be, so she wanted to go. Zhang Peng couldn’t object anymore, so he agreed.

At around 9 o'clock that night, Zhang Peng saw that Ningning had not returned home yet, so he went to the hotel to pick her up, but after much deliberation, he didn't go in or call her. She thought that it would be okay to come out and pick her up, and didn't want to disturb her interest.

I waited until 10:30 to find a group of people wandering out. One of them was my wife Du Ningning. It could be seen that she had drunk some wine and was being supported by a man.

Seeing that everyone else had left, when Zhang Peng wanted to pick up his wife, he suddenly found Du Ningning hugging the man, and heard Du Ningning say in a coquettish voice: " Why did you just leave? Do you know how sad I was crying at that time? Do you know how much I suffered because of you?"

And the man was extremely gentle to you? Du Ningning said: "Although we have been separated for so many years, I actually always have you in my heart, and there are still so many happy times in those years. As long as you are willing, we can start over at any time."

Zhang Pengduo She hoped that Du Ning could let go of this man instantly and tell him, "It's impossible, I have a husband I love deeply." However, Du Ning didn't answer or let go. He just hugged him tighter and even wanted to cry. Everyone could see that her heart was moved. Du Ningning seemed to want to raise her head before speaking. However, when she raised her head, Du Ningning froze. In front of her was her stunned husband Zhang Peng.

Du Ningning reacted immediately and broke away from the man's arms, but the man still looked confused and looked back at Zhang Peng.

Zhang Peng looked at his wife who was once very familiar to him, but now she felt strange. Before Du Ningning could say a word, he squinted at Du Ningning and said, "I'm really unnecessary, I'm disturbing you." ”

After that, he drove away immediately. No matter how Du Ningning explained, Zhang Peng was unwilling to listen anymore. In the end, he even moved out and filed for divorce from Du Ningning.

After the divorce, Du Ningning did not stay with her first love.

Many people say that Zhang Peng may be too sensitive. As long as the matter is explained clearly, he will not be beaten to death with a stick. When they were together, she still loved Zhang Peng more.

However, I think from Zhang Peng's perspective, he might not be so rational, because Zhang Peng saw the scene at that time, so what about the scene that he didn't see? I believe Zhang Peng doesn't even want to think about it.

Although Zhang Peng's words before driving away were simple, every word was like a knife, spoken from the bottom of his heart. After all, he was so serious and loyal to his feelings, but his wife disappointed him with such a performance. , then it is appropriate to rather live in pieces than in pieces.

In short, once many relationships are over, they are really over. It is similar to a class reunion. A relationship like this with an ex-boyfriend is really not as good as being involved in it, because if you have not contacted him for three years after checking, , it means that each other is no longer in life, so instead of missing each other, it is better to forget. Forgetting can no longer do anything about the past.

The fact that Congdu Ningning is not with her first love also illustrates this truth. Nostalgic for the past is of no benefit to her current life, and may even be extremely harmful. If she couldn't care about it then, it still does now.

As a wife, such as Du Ningning, you must understand where your responsibilities and happiness lie, and cherish the good times with your classmates. This is true, but your family, husband, and children are your present. and the future, as a person you must always know how to respect yourself and love yourself. I believe this incident will teach Du Ningning a deep lesson.