Now that this has happened, you can know what kind of people they are, and then from a distance, your initiative gives them the feeling that you owe them feelings. Yes, people are twofold. You respect me a foot, I respect you a foot, and so does family and friendship. You will gradually sum up a principle that best suits your temperament, that is, mutual respect and affinity. I believe that all good friendships are formed naturally, not deliberately. Too lively friendship is often empty.