1. Do your best and listen to your destiny. Have a clear conscience, not be confused by feelings. Take advantage of the situation and be happy with it. Correct when you know your mistake, and go back when you get lost. Focus on those who like you, and forget on those who don't like you. It's good to live like this.

2. No matter what you do, don't disturb others' lives with your own values and lifestyle, or even try to change others. Sometimes smiling and agreeing will make you cuter than vehemently refuting.

3. No matter what you live, there will be people gossiping about you behind your back. Not arguing, not caring, and laughing it off is actually the best contempt.