Such a scene, on the one hand, makes people feel gratified that the child is growing up, on the other hand, it is inevitable to sigh: the academic burden is really heavy now, but the child's small body has to carry a big schoolbag.
Not only adults will feel this way, but many children will also complain: "Mom, my schoolbag is so heavy". At this time, how should mom deal with it? It is critical and may affect the child's life.
There is a family in the community. Parents usually don't have time to take care of their children, so grandma comes from the countryside to help and is responsible for picking up and dropping off their children from school every day. 1 On the first day of school, the grandson carried a big schoolbag on his back and immediately refused: "Grandma, my schoolbag is very heavy!" "
Grandma loves her grandson so much that she took the bag and carried it on her back, complaining, "What's wrong with the school now? The schoolbag is so heavy! The child is too tired to go to school. "
As a result, children's curiosity about school suddenly disappeared, replaced by a negative impression-it turned out that going to school was such a tiring thing.
From then on, no matter how the school teacher guides them, the children always reject going to school, especially when they see that heavy schoolbag, and their rebellious mentality comes up. Sometimes I don't go to school and often don't do my homework, and soon I become a problem student in my class.
Many parents may be similar to this grandmother, but they don't realize the seriousness of the problem. When a child is tired of school, it probably has a lot to do with our initial reaction to his heavy schoolbag.
Of course, adults want their children's schoolbags to be lighter and less tired to carry. But this kind of face-to-face complaint will really have a negative impact on children, which will directly lead to children's resistance to learning.
In fact, how can learning be so easy? Even if I went to a private school in ancient times, I had to be beaten by the teacher with a ruler if I didn't learn well. If you want to learn knowledge well, you must study hard. Now that children's living conditions have improved, their schoolbags are heavier. What is this?
Therefore, it is necessary to guide children to look at this problem positively and establish an attitude towards life that is not afraid of hardship and fatigue, so that children can go further and fly higher in the future.
So wise parents will seriously answer this question. Maybe you can say to your child, "The schoolbag is really heavy, because the contents are very important. Mom hopes that you can learn well and use it for a lifetime. "
Dear Ma Bao, what's your answer?