In college, he was always busy with his studies and clubs. Finally, he waited until the winter and summer vacations and was busy working to earn money. At that time, there was a lack of brokers at home, and he studied and worked to earn scholarships and tuition fees. These are all facts and justified reasons. She thinks she should be a considerate girlfriend, so she doesn't force him to spend time.

On her, I even tried my best to share his worries and help him.

After graduation, he started a small company in partnership with several friends, and she found a job as an illustrator in a publishing house. It is difficult to start a business, and it is hard to start from scratch, so she not only helps him with the housework, but also sends him a box lunch and a midnight snack at the company every day, and leaves every time she says a few words, for fear of delaying his time. His colleagues all praised her for her thoughtfulness and propriety, and she would be a good wife and mother in the future. She is also a little complacent and thinks that her contribution has been affirmed.

The company's operation is finally on the normal track. Supposedly, he should have time to spend with her, but he said, "I hope to have my own car and house and have enough savings before I am 30, so that I can get married without any burden." So he became busier and harder, and even she delivered lunch to the company, she often didn't see him. By contrast, she feels like an idle person. After five or six years of dating, she gradually found herself always lonely. Every birthday, Valentine's Day, Christmas, she is a person watching TV. Colleagues always laugh that her boyfriend is just a "legend", and even friends doubt whether she really has a boyfriend.

These days, her thoughtfulness and understanding have gained nothing but praise from her male friends and sympathy from her sisters. So, she began to make a small "reaction" to him, but she was always restrained by his kind words. "Today's efforts are for tomorrow's happiness! Two people stick together all day, but breaking up is faster and easier! " On Valentine's Day, at her request, he finally agreed to accompany her to Yangmingshan to see the night scene at night. She looked forward to it for more than a week, but her dream was dashed by a phone call from a friend asking him to socialize. She can't help feeling lonely these years. She cried and complained, telling her grievances. "Do you think I like busy? I have worked hard for our future for so long! " As soon as this was said, she was speechless. He wouldn't let go, and she wasn't going to leave, but things didn't get better. But unwilling seeds have been planted in her heart, taking root and sprouting, waiting for the day of flowering and fruiting. He has a job, friends and social activities, so he has no time. She has these, too, but she has long chosen to stay at home, wait for his call, and let herself be on call, pushing away her friends at work.

Now, she doesn't want to wait for his luck alone. She is determined to find her own day. She would rather sit in the office and chew bread, draw illustrations or come up with new ideas than send him lunch and midnight snack. Instead of calling him on time every day, she would rather have coffee with her sisters, talk about right and wrong, or spend time dressing herself up, which will increase her confidence. He gradually realized that something seemed to be missing from his busy life, but he couldn't figure out what it was. Half a month passed before he realized that she was missing. On a whim, I dialed the phone, but I was splashed with cold water. "I'm busy now. I have to hand in the manuscript tomorrow. I have to rush the manuscript now. " Say that finish, she immediately hung up the phone. He thought she could finally get busy, so he wouldn't often complain that he didn't have time to spend with her. Everyone is busy. Life went on for another two or three months. On this day, he negotiated a big business and was in a good mood. When he wanted to celebrate with her, he was rejected again. "I'm busy now. I have a meeting later. I shouldn't be available recently. " Meeting? He never knew what meeting was needed for her leisurely painting work. Facts have proved that her illustrations are very popular with readers, and the publishing house plans to publish a series of photo notebooks for her. After more than a month, he finally bought the new car he dreamed of. Remembering that I haven't seen her for a long time, I decided to take her out for a ride. "I am very busy now, and I have to rush to the new book launch conference." "I'll drive you!" "No, the editor will take me there. I am not available now. " He can't stand it any longer.

They haven't seen each other for over two months. Every time I call her, she always says she is not available, so she hangs up in a hurry. She wasn't like this before. What the hell is going on? "You still when I am your boyfriend? Do you love me or not? " "I'm busy now. I love you when I have time! " Press the end call button, she threw the phone into her purse and handed it to the editor-in-chief of the next publishing house, ready to walk into the venue of the new book conference. "Boyfriend?" "Not anymore." "So ... are you free after the autograph session?" "As long as you are free, I am free at any time." She said with a smile.

The advertisement for Maxwell Coffee once said, "No matter how busy I am, I will have a cup of coffee with you." Now our life is very busy, but have you forgotten your other half? Maybe things have priorities, but let's look at each other. Do you want to be treated like this? Don't always put your other half last. Think about it carefully, maybe the past can only be recalled. Cherish what you can grasp and what you can have.