When you focus on the goal, everything is just an obstacle to overcome, so you have the courage to face the difficulties.

From August 2 to August 11, we attended a 1-day target training camp in Zhihua Personal Growth Club. It seemed easy, but it was not easy. Comrades in sales can choose the index value to adjust. What should I choose as a child-rearing?

I thought about it for two days, and looked at my mind map made at the beginning of the year, 22 abilities, and how to break through one ability after another. Choose parent-child reading that you want to do but haven't done for a long time. In the medium of parent-child reading, we should find children's cooperation, adjust our interaction, cultivate children's understanding and expression ability, and absorb knowledge.

In the first three or four days, I completely followed the form I made. I asked and answered questions. On the fifth day, I began to record video and audio one day. In these 1 days, I recorded three videos, one of which was recorded by myself in my absence. We have 5-6 minutes for each interaction.

After the end of the 1-year target training camp, this task has been completed, but I still have a worry. I have not cultivated children's interest, not children's problems, but my ability and better guidance. When I have such insecure thoughts, I am aware of my emotions and thoughts in time, my expectations and vision are high, and I have high expectations again.

since the goal is to complete the video recording, the children have already finished it, repeated it, and we have interacted with each other, so it has already been achieved. It's time to celebrate briefly

In this process, I have given up and had anxiety, which are all challenges to my self-thinking mode. This is the summary of the ninth day:

During the reading process, I intensively read every article in the form of interaction for the first five days. I was tired and wanted to give up in the middle, but I thought I could read and lower my expectations. Today, I realized this on the ninth day.

On the one hand, I have requirements, on the other hand, I am worried about the unhappy mood caused by this.

In fact, all these things have happened. What I expect is that harmony can stimulate children's interest in reading.

When children have bad emotions, I don't manage my emotions well, and I am afraid of resisting reading.

On second thought, this is a project in which we are in a medium and let each other improve themselves. We should stick to it.

Yesterday, I saw my pattern and my child's pattern. I couldn't stand such questions. I tried to adjust myself, and she was adjusting. I dropped two tears and continued reading.

In this process, I saw my model, with high expectations and high requirements, and I also had the idea of going to heaven one step at a time. In fact, there is no shortcut to anything, so I have to follow the current situation and gradually improve myself. I have to have a plan and direction. Allow ups and downs and mistakes at the same time.

Finally, I would like to thank my best friend for her support, encouragement, empowerment and different suggestions and reminders in the target training camp, which made me determined to stick to it. In the process of supporting her, I also feel like a coach. My best friends are holding each other hostage. Her breakthrough was achieved, and I saw my strength.

I finished my target training on the 11th, and I felt very comfortable when I drove off on the morning of the 13th. There was a light energy under the sun. During the 1-day training, I also noticed other emotions, and pulled away from that moment in time, and saw my reciprocating behavior pattern, which made my mind more clear.

Actually, this is just a small goal. In the process of writing this summary, I saw my sister's summer homework, and I still have a lot of unfinished work, so I began to feel anxious again. This is my next goal, how to motivate my sister to make plans spontaneously and automatically.

after thinking all morning, I have a train of thought.

First of all, encourage and affirm the child's habit from a little resistance to the final acceptance in parent-child reading. During this process, she adjusted her inner psychology and arranged her own day yesterday, and rewarded herself with more than one hour of watching TV. I arrange my time very tightly. Finally, we stayed up late to finish the fifth grade. We are very responsible for our actions. My daughter is very responsible.

Secondly, thank you for sharing your day's arrangement and mood with your mother in time. Otherwise, I wouldn't know how you feel, and I would be worried. It's the best filial piety for you to reassure your mother.

There is only one problem. Yesterday, when I signed my name, I found that all the places were vacant. I also saw that there was an exam at the beginning of school. What should I do? There are still 16 days left, when can we fill up so much? I believe you have your own plan. Will you share it with your mother tomorrow? Let's exchange ideas. I also want to recite the Analects of Confucius. I haven't found a suitable method yet.

on second thought, this is a challenge that we both face together. How can we overcome it together? This is also the time to use brainstorming. If you are in trouble, your mother will always be by your side. Just face it directly. Don't push the child to the front alone, let the child face it alone, and it needs training. This is an opportunity to lead her to face it better than her mother alone.

great, I will have a new experience in parent-child companionship. Children will also have a new experience when facing difficulties. Because my goal is what kind of person she will become, not this exam.