People in China always attach great importance to naming, and many parents want to know how to name their children even before they are born. Sister and brother-in-law have given their children names, such as Luo Shu, Tu Hao, Luo Peng, Xu Cui and Mars. According to the trend of social naming at that time, there were only two words for surnames and first names. When my own child was born, the name I chose for her was a combination of three words, because I insisted that there were many people in China, and it was easy to meet people with the same surname and the same name. One more sentence can avoid a lot of inconvenience. It turns out that I was right. I went back to my hometown for a holiday one year and went to the city park to see the scenery. I met a young girl about my daughter's age who sold me a house and gave me her business card. I saw the name on the business card, but I was short of my daughter. If I choose a two-word name that conforms to the social trend, my daughter will have the same name as this girl.
Can a name determine a person's fate? Obviously not.
When I was studying in junior high school, one day the dean gave our class a history lesson and criticized a classmate who didn't listen carefully. He said, "There was a student named Chen Feng in Senior One who said that he didn't study well, but he didn't make trouble in class and sat quietly listening to the class; There is another student named Chen Feng in Grade Three, who is honest and studies hard in class. Chen Feng, a junior two student, is the most embarrassed. He didn't listen carefully in the last class! " After that, many students laughed at the bottom. I know three Chen Feng with the same name. I am a classmate in grade one of primary school, and I am very talkative. I like to pair in groups, and my academic performance is not good. After finishing junior high school, it is said that my father died unexpectedly, so I took my father's class and went to work in a tax office in a town. Later, he got a college diploma and was promoted to deputy director. Chen Feng, a junior high school classmate, started a small business in the vegetable market after graduating from junior high school, then married a drugstore girl and opened a drugstore through her father-in-law. A few years later, he made a fortune and many people in the town flattered him that he was a rich boss. In the third grade, Chen Feng had a cousin who was also my classmate, so I knew him. Later, I heard from my classmates that the honest Chen Feng went to high school instead of college, took his mother's class and went to work in a cotton purchasing station. After the planned economy was reformed into a market economy, he was laid off, and then his parents died of illness. But he is too honest to find a job or a wife, and now he is a single loser, relying on his sister and brother-in-law to support him.
The name is just a code name, whether elegant or vulgar, which has nothing to do with fate. Most ordinary people have to work hard on their own if they can change their destiny!