Zhihu: How a man changes when he has a sweetheart

Zhihu: When a man has a sweetheart, he may live a more free and easy life, but when a man has a sweetheart, he Do you know what changes there are on Zhihu? Follow me and take a look at the changes on Zhihu when a man has a sweetheart. Changes in men who have a sweetheart Zhihu 1

Pay more and more attention to their external image.

Maybe he used to be a person who didn't like to dress up, and even acted a little slovenly, but suddenly one day, he became more and more concerned about his external image and began to show his good side, without having to I suspect he may have someone he likes.

When a man has a sweetheart, he will unconsciously pay attention to his appearance and organize himself neatly. He hopes to leave a very good impression in front of the girl as much as possible.

So if one day you find a person who used to dislike dressing up, but now suddenly becomes very diligent, often dresses up, and always wants to express himself in front of a certain person, there is no doubt that he Must be wanting to fall in love.

Become careful

He will remember your menstrual period better than you, and prepare brown sugar and aunt towels two days in advance. He will remember some small habits in your life, such as coffee with milk but no sugar. He will secretly observe your expression and recall your appearance when no one is around.

Will be shy unconsciously

When you don’t look at him, he always stares at you. He's a little shy when you look at him. This kind of performance can only be shown in front of the lover.

His shyness can only be shown to his sweetheart, so women should not ignore a man's performance, let alone his stupidity and stupidity. You know, all his innocence and stupidity is his love for you!

His eyes are always on you

When you walk past him, his eyes follow you, never stopping, following you, always looking. With you. Because when your lover appears in his sight, his eyes begin to stare at your lover, and his whole heart follows you.

At this time, his eyes are all yours, he can't tolerate anyone, no one can interrupt him, there is no way to pretend in this state. Just because he loves you, he can't help but look at you.

I smile when I see you

Love for someone will show on his face. A man who smiles when he sees you must love you so much, man Only when you meet true love, you can't help but smile. Everything is so warm and beautiful.

Get rid of those bad habits that you don’t like

If you are his true love, he will become cautious and afraid of losing you. Therefore, he must make himself better and become the perfect man in your heart. He will remember what you said you didn't like about him and then quietly change it.

He just wants to show his best side to you. Change is not a simple thing, but love will make a person change willingly. Therefore, when a man meets true love, , will break those bad habits you don’t like.

No one will pretend in front of someone they don’t love. Real love is shy. Men will become very humble in the page of love, especially when they meet their true love. He will definitely make changes for the people he loves most, and this is something he is willing to do. Changes in men when they have a sweetheart Zhihu 2

1. Begin to pay attention to their own image and like to dress up

Compared with women, many men actually don’t care much about dressing up. How comfortable and convenient it is, I just don’t have to spend too much time thinking about it.

What he often thinks is that he is very comfortable, why should he care so much? It would be better to have time to play games and sleep more.

However, when he meets the girl he loves, his thoughts will unknowingly change. At that time, he will not only think about his own comfort, but also often think about what the people he likes think of him.

In order to make a good impression in front of the girl he likes, he will start spending time learning to dress up, start flipping his hair, and start taking good skin care.

At all times, he wants to look good and put his best foot forward in front of girls.

2. The whole person becomes very happy and in an inexplicable good mood

Why so many people want to fall in love may be because love really has such a magic power.

When a person has no thoughts in his heart and no one he likes, his heart is empty.

For a person who has no one in his heart, life often seems to be nothing bad and nothing surprising. It is the same every day, with no waves and nothing special.

But when someone suddenly broke into his heart, everything seemed different. That person is like a beam of light, so everything around him becomes lovely.

From now on, his world is no longer black and white, but colorful. Because there is love in his heart, suddenly his temperament seems to have changed, and his whole person seems to be very happy. Often nothing happens, as if he has encountered something good.

3. Work hard to make yourself better

I know a boy who just graduated two years ago. He is always confused. He spends his own money and gets moonlight every month. He thinks it's nothing, it's a blind date.

Later, he met a girl he liked very much. From then on, he suddenly felt that he could not go on like this.

That is to say, from then on, he began to work actively, trying to make more money every month, trying to get an early salary increase, all just to make himself better and richer .

He hopes that through his excellence, he can attract girls' attention and make girls like him. At the same time, he also hopes that through this, he can give girls a better future.

In life, some people fight for themselves, but there are also some people who really fight for the people they like, and fight for the people they like. This is the motivation of many men.

When a person has someone he likes, he will want himself, and he can also be liked. He will also hope that he deserves to be loved.

Because of this love, he becomes more cheerful as a whole. In order to win the love he wants and keep the people he likes, he will start paying attention to his own image and start making himself a better person.

In fact, whether they are men or women, they are the same. The more similar they are, the more they care about the other person's point of view, and the more they want to perform well. The more you like it, the more you will like it.

Just like a person, he cannot hide. Even if he hides his eyes, he cannot hide his behavior.

People around them can often see through their abnormal behavior at a glance. Changes in men when they have a sweetheart Zhihu 3

1. No longer follow your heart, because you have concerns

When alone, a man may live a more free and easy life, not doing anything They all follow their own temperaments, live as they please, and don't care about other people. But if a man has a sweetheart and is really emotionally moved, he will take the initiative to restrain himself and no longer do whatever he wants.

In fact, this change was because he had concerns in his heart. Your appearance makes him no longer alone and makes him feel more concerned. That's why he changes like this and thinks about you, your mood and your feelings in everything!

2. Become worried about gains and losses, and be afraid of being hurt in relationships

In fact, men’s hearts are not as strong as outsiders think, especially in relationships. Once a man becomes truly emotional, he will also become worried about gain and loss, and be afraid of being hurt in his relationship. Therefore, in the process of getting along with a man and a woman, if you can easily influence him, then he has really fallen in love with you.

You know, men are like this. They look free and easy on the outside, but they are actually very fragile on the inside. Many times, a woman's words and deeds can make him happy or sad. Your presence will make him feel happy, but it will also make him afraid of being hurt!

3. Start working hard to make progress and want to give the other person a better life

Only when a man is truly emotionally moved will such a change occur.

Because, compared with women, most men mature later, and their understanding of responsibility and responsibility is not particularly deep. But if he really falls in love with you, he will suddenly become mature and motivated.

After all, if he wants to live a good life with you, he must work hard to make progress and give you a better life. Therefore, when two people are together, if the man still does not take responsibility and does not think about your future at all, then he must not really love you.

4. Become cute, like a child and a man

In front of the woman he loves, a man will become very cute, like a child and a man. When you are together, he will take the initiative to act coquettishly towards you, seek your attention, cling to you like a child, hoping that you can love him well.

However, when an outsider hurts you, he will become a man and stand in front of you to protect you from the wind and rain. He will not let you get hurt, and will do his best to protect you, making you feel at ease and happy because of his presence.