When it comes to picking up girls in nightclubs, all we see are surging crowds singing and dancing, and the music played every time. This place has a high rate of picking up girls, because nightclubs are one of the easiest places to have fun with girls. When you make an appointment with your sister to go to a nightclub, you must wait for her at the door. It's best not to say hello after meeting, because you will be unfamiliar, because everyone knows that nightclubs are a place to promote relationships quickly, so it's best to praise your sister's appearance after meeting, give a hug according to the situation, and then take her to your booth by holding her hand. When you get to your seat, you must have your own brother. They can be useful wingmen, enliven and adjust the atmosphere. If there are many other girls in the seat besides your brother, how do you operate one of the many girls? In this situation where there are many girls around, you must first know the skills and methods of how to open the emotional circuit of girls. The weakness of human nature is that it likes to be lazy. For example, when a girl sees that you are surrounded by other women, she will be attracted to you unconsciously, because she will think that these girls have chosen you, then she will subconsciously think that you are not bad, thus saving time to get to know you. This is called pre-selection. After the pre-selection, I began to play happily with my sister. The key purpose of playing is to take her away. The timing of taking it away should also be controlled. For example, if you can take it away first, try not to delay it. Remember to do the right thing at the right time. What can I do to take my sister away at the right time? We must first judge whether she is interested in you. We can judge by asking my sister if she would like to accompany you to wash your mobile phone. Of course, this step is carried out after some fun. If a girl is willing to accompany you to the bathroom, it means she is interested in you. The key to the operation of the bathroom: it is ok to interact with girls at will at the booth, but there is only one place to enhance your relationship, and that is the bathroom. Because there is little music and the crowd density is small, although the bathroom is not a completely private space, in such a place, you should pull her to a relatively private position. Pulling her to a private place is actually for closer contact, such as hugging and kissing. Of course, this step also requires skill. You can't kiss without saying anything. Although this kind of intense situation will happen, but the relationship has not reached that temperature, it is better not to be so excited. Here, let me give an example in rehearsal: you: "honey, I'm drunk." She might say, "Really? Why do you drink so much? " You: "I drank so much because of you." If she continues to ask why, just say "because I like you!" " She might say, "If you like me, you have to drink too much?" You: "Yes, I am happy to like you. I only drink too much when I am happy. " In this case, she asks any questions casually, so at this time, she takes the opportunity to talk to her directly. There are several different ways to kiss her. You can hold her in your arms, or you can let her lean against the wall, look at her with your eyes and kiss her affectionately. If she doesn't refuse you, it means you have a good chance of taking her away at night. You can tell whether a girl likes you by kissing in the bathroom, but there is no way to determine whether she wants to go with you. At this time, you can take her out, such as outside a nightclub. How to chat with my sister in the evening 2 How to chat with my sister on WeChat first make necessary opening greetings and take the initiative to make polite greetings, such as "Is it convenient? Would you like to talk to me? " Or "Are you busy? Are you interested in talking? " . Some people may think this opening is tacky and cliche, but I personally think it is necessary although it is cliche. First of all, it can show politeness. Second, in comparison, it is easier for the other party to accept some romantic words or indirect conversations. A simple greeting like this will not put pressure on the other party. Secondly, don't ask too many questions. After getting to know her, remember not to ask too many questions in the initial chat, talk about today's weather and what you did, learn about her hobbies from her words and deeds, start with her hobbies, choose topics she is interested in and say what she likes to hear. In the initial chat, in order to better understand her, we must analyze her circle of friends and personality signature, from which we can see a lot of things, which helps us to find the same topic at the first time and understand her life content. Then, be sincere when chatting. What is sincerity? First of all, I allow the other party to ignore me, I allow the other party to say anything, and I respect any words and deeds of the other party. And I will try my best to be nice to each other and make them like me. I interact with the other party in a supercilious manner, and I don't ask the other party to react to me. Anyway, I tell jokes and share happiness with each other with reciprocal ideas. It is good for the other party to be kind to me, but I don't want to, because I will accept whatever the result is. Anyway, everything is for fun, and chatting with each other is just to make both sides happy. This is called providing value in good faith. Finally, there are many topics. When chatting, she likes to say "What are you doing", "Have you eaten" and "Oh", which are all chat terminators. Effective chat, topics must be rich, she likes it. You need to find keywords to chat with according to her words. For example, she said: the last time I went to eat fish with Chinese sauerkraut with my friends, it was delicious. The key word here is "pickled fish", or it can be that place. You can say that you also like to eat pickled fish, or that you have been to that place for dinner. How to chat with girls at night? 3. How to chat with girls at night? 1. Control your emotions. Many boys have implanted strong expectations and psychological hints before chatting with girls. They don't know what to talk to girls, and they are worried about what to do if they don't like it. They care too much about girls' feelings and lose themselves. This question is very common, but it is actually a sign of self-distrust. If you want to overcome this idea, you need to balance your mind and don't worry about saying the wrong thing. Specifically, when chatting with girls, control your emotions, and don't pester each other to talk just because girls have a good attitude towards themselves. They don't know what to talk about if they have a bad attitude. Especially for boys who are not good at chatting, if they really can't find a topic, they must retreat decisively, so as to ensure that girls are interested in you and continue the next chat. Also, don't believe that chatting with girls every day will improve the relationship with girls. If you have nothing to talk to girls every day, it will only expose your sense of need and make you wary. There are piles of ways to express your feelings online, but are they really useful? Not necessarily! Confession must be based on complete attraction. In this case, there is absolutely no need to express this stereotype, and it is natural. Second, the skills of chatting with girls at night When we can control our emotions, we can chat and interact with girls. Generally speaking, chatting with girls is divided into four steps: arousing girls' interest, establishing mutual attraction, consolidating mutual attraction and establishing bilateral relations. Next, we will talk to you step by step about the skills of chatting with girls. 1, cold reading opens the topic, arouses girls' interest and chats with girls. Girls can talk only if they are interested in what you say, but cold reading is actually an inquiry to girls in disguise, because generally speaking, girls don't know each other at the beginning of chatting, and there are not many natural topics, so it is inevitable to ask girls to open a topic, but direct inquiry will make them feel interrogated and make girls feel a little disgusted. For example, ask a girl what she is doing, and ask me directly. I think girls don't want to answer you, but ask them through cold reading: "I guess you must be lying comfortably in bed now." Cold reading is to predict your behavior. This statement is milder than directly asking girls what they are doing, and this speculative tone can make girls feel the urge to get back to you and want to talk to you. 2, create a delay effect, establish contact delay effect is the time illusion method, that is, through chatting, create a look that girls have long known. Here, you can generally establish contact with girls by means of "scene description+induced sharing". For example, I told girls that I was afraid of injections when I was a child, and every time my parents said that they would buy candy and delicious food for themselves after injections. Although the injection hurts, they can't resist the temptation of delicious food. It is through childhood anecdotes that you can find some interesting starting points and women's clubs to share some interesting experiences about your childhood. In this process, we can quickly close the distance with girls, like childhood playmates, increase our sense of connection and upgrade our relationship with girls more easily. There is also the time illusion method, which can also use some realistic descriptions or future imagination. For example, I saw a bag of old-fashioned popcorn on the street and bought it. I remember when I was a child, I had to go to the market to eat it, and I stopped to watch it every time I saw it. I can hardly see it now. At that time, I imagined how great it would be if popcorn could be planted in the sky. This way is to describe the present situation and recall the past while adding your own imagination to make the chat atmosphere better. 3. Push-pull skill in chatting is to release the signal of liking and not liking girls, but it should be noted that when pushing and pulling girls in chatting, we must pay attention to the timing. When girls are interested in you, it is best to push and pull, otherwise it will be embarrassing not to push and pull. For example, girls send a selfie in a circle of friends to praise her beauty, and then tell them that they just need to praise girls' clothes. If you talk to girls about this, it will really stimulate girls' emotions, but it will only make them feel embarrassed. In fact, the process of pushing and pulling is more important than pulling, because some girls have limited psychological endurance. If they don't grasp the process of pushing, they will have a full conversation. Finally, they will use push-pull chains. For example, male: The photos you sent are really nice. Female: Thank you. Man: It doesn't look like you (push) Woman: Oh, man: Real people look better than photos (pull). The push-pull process here must be based on girls' emotions.