At a certain age, I don't want to please anyone. My life is as precious as others, there is no need to pretend.
3. Don't look for happiness in other people's eyes, or you will be sad forever; Don't look for dignity in other people's mouths, or you will always be humble.
Life didn't teach me anything, it just told me four words: grab it if you like!
In fact, people's sense of security does not come from love, but from preference. Only when people are convinced that they are an exception will they feel at ease.
6. Easy, but not too kind, cruel, but leave no room, don't guess others with the greatest malice, but never release unprincipled love.