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Some people say that you can understand a person by reading WeChat. Indeed, the online name, avatar, and circle of friends can well reflect a person's life and mental state. An important way to understand a person.

Speaking of various "postings" in the circle of friends, the top ones are none other than mothers, and their popularity is unparalleled. My best friend used to be an artistic young woman full of artistic talent. Her profile picture was simple and temperamental. Occasionally, her posts on WeChat Moments were about travel, books, and making food. She exuded a full literary and artistic atmosphere in her every move. But after giving birth to a baby, my best friend seemed to be a completely different person. Her friend circle was all occupied by photos of her baby, and her avatar was changed to an "art painting" that ordinary people could not understand. After asking, it was the first work in the baby's life. It was kept as a permanent memorial by my best friend. In the circle of friends, my best friends have also changed their previous style. Poems and distant places are all on the sidelines. Every day, I post photos of my baby in various ways. I can take photos of my baby in several poses even while sleeping. I am a real baby-spoofing maniac.

The same is true for most mothers. From the time the baby is born to growing up, every footprint is a surprise for the mother. Playing in the sand seems to exude an unconstrained artistic atmosphere. At this time, if the baby draws for the first time, the mother would like to frame it and hang it on the wall with gold edges. Some mothers even refuse to let go of their baby’s daddy. If the color is wrong or the quantity is different from yesterday, they ask various questions in the circle of friends. At this time, there will be some hot comments from enthusiastic mothers. Just tell me. In one word, the level of professionalism puts experts to shame.

Not only that, the mother’s WeChat avatar will also choose baby photos, such as full-moon photos, 100-day photos, and photos of a happy family of three. They change in different periods, as if she has endless energy and extraordinary abilities. After discovering the beautiful eyes, some netizens who have not become mothers cannot understand the behavior of mothers. They can't help but sigh: Once you become a mother, your rank is different. You are a superman with real energy, hahahahahaha.

Sharing babies on Moments is a common phenomenon, but as the saying goes, “there are degrees of baby sharing”, mothers must not step into some of the “minefields” for sharing babies:

In Baoma In my eyes, children are the cutest in the world, and all traces of life are worthy of commemoration. However, privacy must also be protected, otherwise it will be used by criminals, which is very detrimental to the baby. Mothers, please do not ignore your baby because of its young age. thing.

2. Do not disclose children’s personal information

Moments is a sacred place for sharing daily life, and it is also the place where information is most likely to be leaked. When posting your child, it is best not to include your child’s name, school, etc. Wait for the information to be disclosed to avoid being stolen by intentional people and posing security risks. It is best to set up the circle of friends to prohibit strangers from viewing it, and at the same time turn off the positioning function to fully protect the children.

3. Do not post "ugly photos" of your children

Many mothers like to prank their babies and post "weird photos" and "ugly photos" of their babies on the Internet, thinking that it is okay for their children to be small. In fact, doing so is also harmful to the baby. Everyone in the world loves beauty. Even though the baby is young, he still has self-esteem. This kind of behavior must be stopped.

4. Don’t do it too often

Although the baby is cute, excessive exposure will cause aesthetic fatigue and arouse everyone’s disgust. As a public resource, Moments is a good place for everyone to relax and de-stress in their free time. If you often post your babies on the screen, mothers must consider the feelings of others and be "moderate" when sharing your babies.

It is a mother’s nature to like her baby, and it is the common characteristic of all women in the world. However, you must be careful when showing off your baby, and do not act arbitrarily. You must fully consider the feelings of your baby and others, and show off your baby safely. , don’t expose your baby too much, and give your baby more love and protection.

I am Bangma, a senior nanny who will help you solve your problems on the road to raising a baby~