Perhaps the difference between men and women is more in personality. Generally, there are more boys who are so careless, and girls are usually more delicate. Some things about sesame and mung beans will be firmly in mind, and sometimes I will be more careful. Then I told him once that this person is not very good to you at ordinary times and will not help you at critical times. Don't borrow if you don't agree to borrow it. As a result, he said you were haggling over every ounce. Basically it is true that he didn't help me, but at least he is trustworthy. Since he asked for help once, it doesn't matter. Hearing this sentence, I knew that my thoughts were different from his. I just decided whether to lend him money, just because this man once helped him.
Maybe your mind is delicate, and you always feel that many things are for your boyfriend's good, and that your boyfriend is always ungrateful, and there is a feeling that your good intentions are in vain. In fact, I have never felt that there is a fool in this world, and boys are smarter than boys, so I think you think too much about him, just as I think too much about him. Everyone has his own way of doing things and behavior habits. You can also put yourself in the other's shoes and think about what you think too much. Or do you think it is better to do it his way? Sometimes don't just think about yourself, and don't always complain that your boyfriend always turns a blind eye to his kindness. I believe he will take care of his own affairs!