As the saying goes: One pregnancy makes you stupid for three years. This is really not an alarmist statement. Many mothers are really completely different after giving birth to their children.

Mom A: I am a teacher. I took maternity leave when my child was born in June. I waited for more than half a year. When I stood on the podium again, all I could think about was " "The baby must be hungry at this point", "Will the baby sleep honestly" and so on, the lectures were really messed up, and it took me a week or two to get used to it again before I slowly regained my composure.

Mom B: When my child was almost two years old, I went out to look for a job again. I was really frustrated during the interview. When I answered the questions, my logic was confusing, and the previous sentence did not follow the next sentence. I I even wondered if I had undergone brain surgery. I was also a department manager before having a baby. I was really stupid to have a baby.

Bao Ma C: I don’t know how much you charge for phone bills. Anyway, the 2,000 yuan I paid for phone bills has not been spent yet. That time my husband asked me to help him recharge his phone bill, and I was about to recharge when I heard the baby crying. I pressed an extra zero with my hands shaking in panic, and I didn’t react at all at the time. If my husband hadn’t shown me the text message reminder, I won't even admit it.

Seeing the silly experiences of pregnant mothers, one really has to believe the saying "one pregnancy makes one silly for three years", but in fact the mothers' silly pregnancy reflects their The love for the baby and these two reasons behind the silly pregnancy let you know how difficult it is for the mother.

1. Hormonal changes in the body can cause emotional instability and slow reactions

The hormones in the mother's body will change before and after pregnancy, manifesting as a sudden increase and sharp decrease. , the ups and downs of hormone changes will cause pregnant mothers to have ups and downs in mood, and may even lead to mild depression if not handled well.

In addition, pregnant mothers also suffer physical torture during pregnancy, such as morning sickness in the first trimester, body edema, insomnia in the third trimester, etc., which will cause the mother to suffer and lead to mental problems. There is some confusion.

2. After giving birth to a baby, your work and rest are disordered, and you are exhausted physically and mentally from being tortured by the baby

Before giving birth to a baby, a mother has to go through a lot of hardships, and after giving birth, the hardships become even worse one after another. First of all, after the baby is born, there is no rest for a moment, and some mothers even do not have a full sleep in the first one or two years after the baby is born.

The baby cries at night and feeds at night, which will exhaust the mother. And if the baby feels uncomfortable in any way, the mother will be worried. In short, three years before and after delivery For a while, the mother is destined to be tortured physically and mentally by her baby. I believe that under such circumstances, not to mention the mother, even the father will be stupid for a few years.

After reading these two reasons, do you still think my mother is "stupid"? From now on, don’t laugh at your mother for being stupid for being pregnant for three years, because during this period, all she thinks about is her beloved baby.