Self-mockery is a rare panacea. If all else fails, why not? Black? Himself, bring yourself? Are you kidding? You will get good results.

2 Deliberately misinterpret and cause accidents

Understand the meaning of another sentence first, and then think about another meaning. Then, seriously express another meaning and create a contrast of thinking.

For example, Bo Huang in the entertainment circle is a well-known artist with high emotional intelligence. Once, I was mistaken for Wang by fans at the airport. The fans pulled him excitedly and said they liked him? There are no thieves in the world? . Bo Huang looked a little confused, but he didn't turn away, nor did he refute. Instead, I always chat with fans? There are no thieves in the world? .

Finally, the fans asked him to sign the T-shirt, and Bo Huang signed it seriously? Where is Wang? . This move skillfully resolved the embarrassment and brought unexpected fans.

3 create suspense and get rid of the burden

In daily life, it is easy to create a sense of humor and make people laugh by creating suspense in different ways, stimulating the curiosity of the chat object, and then throwing off the baggage and talking seriously.

4 hyperbolic combination

Some ordinary things, deliberately exaggerated, will have a funny effect. It doesn't matter if we use our imagination. This also requires us to accumulate rich knowledge, and only in this way can we think of things that others can't think of.

Make full use of this problem

With the help of people or things at the scene, even the other person's language, we can deduce new ideas and create humor. Using these questions can help us achieve our goals skillfully. In daily life, on some occasions, some words are not suitable for the direct part. At this time, the clever use of borrowed themes will have unexpected effects.

For example, you suddenly feel that your plan is a little wrong, but the plan has been handed over to the leader. When you are sad, you will meet leaders in the teahouse. The leader told you that she had a class reunion tonight.

At this time, you can make full use of the topic and say, what do you want to wear for the reunion? I think that dress you wore yesterday is very beautiful. It must be beautiful! By the way, I can modify the plan I just gave you, so as not to drag you to work overtime, and old classmates rarely get together once every few years. ? .

You see, if you speak with questions, you can not only achieve the purpose of planning and modifying the plan, but also make the leaders feel that you are very caring. Isn't this killing two birds with one stone!

Humor is a symbol of a person's high emotional intelligence, which can help us resolve the crisis and get rid of embarrassment. We say that humor is a lubricant in communication, because it can not only enliven the atmosphere, but also enhance feelings and resolve some contradictions. Therefore, high emotional intelligence humor is also a good artifact in the workplace.

There are many similar humorous ways, so I won't list them one by one. If we want to use them easily, we should accumulate more in our daily life.