1, career always comes first.
Although money is not everything, it is absolutely impossible without money. Although this sentence is vulgar, it is absolutely reasonable, so please put most of your energy into your career before you are 30 years old.
2. Don't take money too seriously
Don't complain about the low salary, the bank deposit is below 4 digits, and there is no future in sight. What you have to do now is to study hard. Even if your diploma is higher, it will take a long time to apply theory to practice. Society is always the most extensive university, and what you learn is far more important than what you learn in school, so similarly, don't mind your low academic qualifications. Before the age of 30, few people bought their own cars and houses.
3. Learn to be considerate of your parents
Don't worry about their nagging. When you become a father, you will know that you are the inheritor of poverty. In their eyes, you are still a child, but they are really old. Now you must make them happy. Maybe just a phone call and a small gift can reassure them, which is easy to do.
Step 4 make good friends
Friends have a great influence on your life. Don't make too many fair-weather friends, but at least have a friend who can help you at a critical moment. If you meet such a person, no matter whether he is rich or poor now, cherish it and it will be useful in the future.
5. Don't trust love too much.
There must be love in your heart, but please don't say and don't believe those vows of eternal love in Aunt Qiong Yao's novels. There is no eternity in the world, what matters is responsibility. But when a woman's heart is in the sea, her heart changes, and everything is in vain. All you have to do is to let go when it is time to let go, and don't hesitate when it is time to let go. Love before the age of 30 is true, but most people just don't have the ability to really grasp it, so they should learn to do what they can.
6. Don't worry, you still have your first kiss.
Love is not much, but essence. Don't think that you can't find a wife just because you haven't touched a girl in your twenties. You will have many opportunities to meet girls in the future. You know, although there are more men than women in this society, the reality is that women are actually more worried about this problem than men. A man is thirty flowers, and you are appreciating rather than depreciating. Mature love is often better and longer, so don't chase girls like a mad dog, learn to taste loneliness.
7. Don't indulge in anything.
As the saying goes, playing with things is tiring. Online games are played before leaving school. You don't have extra time and energy to spend on them now, or you will have to pay back everything you overdraw in the future. One should have interests and hobbies, but please distinguish them.
8. Youth has not failed.
Don't lose heart when you encounter setbacks. Young people should always keep a positive attitude. Fail and start again; If you lose it, fight for something else. If you miss it, you must analyze it. Next time you come, you should grasp it. Naive, next time, grow up. Never mind, it will be fine, even if it reaches the extreme, don't give up, I believe it will survive. Don't be negative, it will be fine. Once wrong, the past, always can't aftertaste the past. Now, it's good, tired and comfortable. Don't hurt, there will always be someone to support you.
9. Don't worship or despise a person easily.
Everyone has an idol, but please have your own personality. Don't deliberately imitate a person, because you are you, unique, unique and confident. Don't completely deny a person. Everyone is valuable. If you can't understand him, please learn to accept him.
10, responsible.
No matter what you used to be, please be an upright person from now on. Men should have a sense of responsibility No matter at work or in life, a responsible person can make others feel safe and make others feel that you are a trustworthy person. We shouldn't be cowardly, but please don't hurt those who love you and those you love, especially kind girls, because there are not many kind girls in this world, even if you don't want to have them, please keep her beautiful heart.
1 1, a man's appearance is not important.
Don't worry too much about your appearance and height. A kind and upright man is far more handsome than those handsome and tall men with dirty hearts. If someone judges a book by its cover, please don't care too much, because you don't have to feel sorry for a person with low taste.
12, learn to protect your body.
Don't think it's okay to smoke, drink and stay up late now. That's because your body is in the golden age of life. After 30 years old, you can understand the meaning of the word "weakness". Health is the capital of revolution, and nothing can be done without good health, so try to live a regular and healthy life.
13, don't think that you have accomplished nothing.
You are not qualified to talk about success now, unless, of course, you have millions of assets. A career that is too fixed at first is not necessarily a good thing. Maybe you will learn more knowledge, tap your potential and find the job that suits you best by constantly changing careers.
14, please work hard.
No matter how boring and low-level your present job is, please take it seriously. You know, any successful person starts with the smallest thing. Maybe you can't learn great knowledge now, but at least you should learn good working attitude and working methods, which is very important in the future.
15, please take your feelings seriously.
Don't envy those playboys who turn women into shoes. Taking part in accidental love will only waste your time and energy. The most painful thing for a person is not that he can't find a lover, but that there is no love in his heart. When you turn the words "I love you" into the easiest sentence you can say, it will be difficult for you to find true happiness in the world of love. There is no justice in love. There is always one person who pays more than the other. Even if there is no result, don't feel worthless, because your contribution is not only for her, but also for your own love. It is very valuable to pay for love. Praise yourself.
Please be childlike.
Deep down, even in a small corner, please keep a childlike innocence, not naive, but sometimes simplicity will make you happy. So don't care too much about gains and losses, life is not perfect.