Absolutely capture the heart of any girl

——When the other person is frustrated, it is a good time to pursue——

If you compare yourself to a balloon, then, a balloon In a cloudless sky, the psychological state of rapidly ascending is the so-called sense of expansion. On the contrary, the psychological state when being wet by the autumn rain and lying on the ground is the so-called sense of shrinkage. A person who is in the midst of "expanded feelings" has less urgent need for the opposite sex. If you taste the feeling of shrinkage, the situation completely changes. At this time, he will seriously seek his true lover.

The so-called feeling of atrophy means that a person has suffered some kind of failure, setback, and is in some kind of crisis; feels deeply lonely; is frustrated and has hurt self-esteem; and falls into a severe feeling of inferiority. ...If you have someone you like in the workplace, you can approach her when she feels a sense of shrinkage. For example, when she is scolded by her boss and her expression becomes sad and she sits there by herself, this is a good thing for you. opportunity. If she catches a cold and doesn't recover for a long time, this is a great opportunity. You can tell her directly: "You have to take care of yourself, otherwise, I will be poor and worried!" When your lover is in the hospital, bring flowers to visit the doctor, so as to take this opportunity. This is a commonly used method for increasing intimacy, and you might as well seize the opportunity to make good use of it.

——When love is hindered to some extent, it rises instead——

Suppose two men and women who love each other say: "We want to get married," and their parents and relatives , friends, seniors, and acquaintances all praised him and even blessed him. In this case, the relationship between men and women often fails to burn. Because everything goes smoothly and lacks excitement, I feel at a loss instead. On the contrary, if there is a stubborn mother in love who says: "What! Before I die, no matter who intercedes, I will never allow me to say no just because I can't!" With such firm opposition, both parties will be in a hurry. The ants use their brains to persuade. If this way fails, they even think that since they can't be persuaded, they will just get on the bus first and then buy the ticket! .

——It is a good time for professional women to pursue when they are tired of their work——

The following is a good time to meet professional women;

·After three months of working, the tension has gradually disappeared, but I am still a little tired, so I subconsciously hope that someone of the opposite sex will care about me.

·After three years of working. At this time, I was a little tired of work and had generally learned various ways to have fun, so I was eager for new excitement and adventure.

·When the job fails. Because of the blame from my boss, I felt very unhappy and wanted to have fun and vent my depression.

·When I received the transfer order, I felt complicated and unstable.

·When implemented in groups. Because the atmosphere is completely different from that in the company, innocent girls will also be attracted to male colleagues.

——It is a good time to get acquainted when women’s guard is relaxed——

The following are the periods when women are in a relaxed mood and it is easy to get acquainted:

·Restaurant 30 minutes after eating. After eating in the restaurant, you will be full of wine and food, refreshed, and your emotional needs will increase.

·After drinking white wine with ice. After drinking, your guard is relaxed and you are very excited. Men should understand this.

·When recovering from a serious illness. Being sick is most likely to lead to dependence. When you first recover from an illness, you will feel a desire to seek support.

·On rainy days, most people stay indoors, feeling depressed and less alert.

·The day you get your salary. When you receive your salary, you will naturally be happy and want to enjoy your love.

——Be accommodating to a sixteen or seventeen-year-old girl——

You should be gentle and considerate to her and treat her like a fragile doll. If it's not a matter of principle, you should try your best to accommodate her and make her happy. If the time is right, you can convince her. Girls of this age are playful and lively, so taking her to entertainment venues will make her very happy. Make sure to take her with you to any exciting activities. It is important to "coax" with some things.

——Be romantic with a girl in her twenties——

Try to show her your financial ability, show a slightly romantic sentiment, and choose yourself Talk to her on the topic you are best at, so as to show off your skills. It is best to win her respect and confidence. Choose a romantic place for your date. You must bear all the expenses of the date. Don't be too demanding. For women in their twenties, they are your prey. You must take it step by step. Don't keep thinking about getting her! .

——Be cautious with mature women around thirty years old——

You have to show your maturity and sense of maturity, and you must not act like a teenage boy. pester her. Be proactive and available to her on the date. Generally, women of this age have maternal feelings and will naturally show maternal care and love to you. Therefore, you may wish to show your male vulnerability to her appropriately and act coquettishly to her, but be careful not to overdo it. If you appear too vulnerable, she will feel insecure and disappointed. When it's time to show your manliness and bravery, don't be afraid to back down.

——Be sincere but not arrogant——

Both men and women should go to appointments on time, so that they can feel each other's sincerity. If you are unexpectedly late, you should apologize and explain the reason. After the meeting, you should look calm and relaxed. Being too shy will cause the other person to feel restrained; being too free and easy will often arouse the other person's suspicion. When listening to what the other party is saying, avoid being absent-minded or staring at the other party intently. It is better to have a natural expression.

——Clothes should be neat but not frivolous——

As the saying goes: “Seven percent looks, three percent grooming.” For those who go on a date, they should dress better than usual. It is an expression of taking the date seriously and respecting the other person. The woman can wear brighter clothes, but the man should never wear dirty clothes on a date. In summer, you should pay attention to the cleanliness of your collar, and don't forget your handkerchief. If possible, choose clothes that best suit your skin tone and body shape, and be sure to "advantage your strengths and avoid weaknesses" when dressing. Of course, excessive pursuit of fashionable clothing will often have the opposite effect.

——Speak enthusiastically but not frivolously——

Probably it is a Chinese custom that the protagonist on the first date should be the man, while the woman is more reserved. The man should take the initiative to ask some questions to stir up conversation. Both sides should avoid long periods of silence. The content of the conversation needs to be popular and broad, the questions should be short, and the other party should be willing to answer and able to answer. You can talk about work, study, hobbies, and trivial matters in life. Don't embarrass the other person because they don't know, let alone ask questions that make it difficult for the other person to talk. If the other person is silent and unresponsive, you should quickly change the topic. Both men and women can consciously introduce themselves, including their family members, personal hobbies, specialties, etc., but avoid bragging. Some young people develop some bad habits, so don't let them ruin your first date. Don't use swear words, otherwise it will be regarded as disrespectful, uncivilized and impolite to the other party.

——The topic during the date should be lighthearted and pleasant——

Conversation during the date is the best time to get to know each other and express yourself. At this time, you should take the initiative in the hospital conversation, learn as much as possible about the other person's interests and hobbies from the conversation, avoid exposing your shortcomings to the other party early, and make the situation develop in a direction that is beneficial to you. The topic of the date should be one that makes the atmosphere pleasant. Therefore, you must be happy and in a happy mood and state of mind when dating. Because dating is not a class, there is no need to preach, let alone inspire personality, so the topic must be light-hearted. If she likes to talk, don't interrupt her. Might as well just be a loyal listener. At the same time, you should not talk about some academic topics yourself. When dating, the topic should be based on things that often happen around you, such as TV programs, newspaper social pages, etc., or about music, and talking about cute pets around you, such as cats, dogs, tropical fish, pigeons, and small animals. Like birds, because talking about light and interesting topics can bring you two strangers closer together.

——Dating etiquette cannot be ignored——

Dating, as a special form of social interaction, should be permeated with the color of modern civilization, and etiquette and politeness should run through the whole process of dating. When proposing a date, be courteous and courteous. When the initiator makes an invitation, whether it is a direct invitation verbally, a phone call, or a letter invitation, he must use a polite and considerate tone, and cannot use an imperative tone to ask the other party. When deciding on a date location, you must first seek the other person's opinion and take the other party's convenience as the principle. If the other party clearly states that they want you to make a decision, you can then put forward your own opinions and ask the other party to make a decision. Only when the other party deems it appropriate can you make a decision. Etiquette and politeness on time issues are more important. Generally speaking, the person who made the invitation should arrive first, which shows respect for the other party. If you encounter special circumstances and cannot keep the appointment on time or need to change the appointment time, try to find a way to notify the other party. If you really cannot notify the other party in time, you must apologize to the other party afterwards. Because breaking an appointment is an act of disrespect. The party who arrives first should also be considerate and comfort the party who is late or misses the appointment due to special reasons, and should not be unreasonable. The proposal to terminate the date must be made by the dateee, the woman. If the inviter, a man, is in an emergency, of course he can also bluntly propose to terminate the date, but he must apologize to the other party. During a date, if you feel that the other person is not the person you like, don't just talk for three to five minutes and then leave. If there is nothing to say between two people, they can talk about other things. After a certain atmosphere is established, they can politely say goodbye. After the date, the man should send the woman off, which shows his respect for women. If it is not late or it is during the day, you can put the woman in a car or tram and watch her go; if it is late in the evening, you should offer to take the woman home. If the woman does not object, you should send her to your doorstep.

——Have you paid special attention to observing the other person——

Love is based on mutual understanding. You want to know the other person's character, personality, strengths, etc. one by one. You will often show up there unconsciously on occasions where the other person often comes. Even if you just look at the other person, you will feel inexplicably excited. As long as you have the opportunity, no matter how long it takes, you will pay attention to observe the other person's every move and gesture, and then further understand the other person's psychological activities. As you follow your eyes, the other person, as the image of your love, will also be sensitive to the negatives of your soul.

——See if you like the other person unusually——

Liking comes from the beauty revealed in the other person. It starts from a certain part, expands from there and turns into a favorable impression. For example, you start by liking the other person's big eyes, and then you may gradually like the person as a whole, and the more you look at them, the more beautiful they become. This is what people often say: "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." In your opinion, the beauty of the other person is different from other people, which can arouse praise and pride in your heart, making you stay with the other person.

——Do you feel that you need the other person from the bottom of your heart——

We often feel this way about the people we like. When you are happy, you want to tell the other person as soon as possible; when you are troubled, you always want to talk to the other person, and you even want to ask the other person for advice on how to deal with certain things. It seems that everything about you is inextricably connected with the other person. As long as the other person is around, you feel at ease in your heart, but once the other person leaves, you feel at a loss and at a loss.

——Do you love and care for the other person in every possible way——

If you love the other person, then you will be very concerned about everything about her. If the other person is going to take the filial piety exam, you will take the initiative to help the other person review; if the other person encounters something unpleasant, you will try your best to solve it for the other person; if the other person's life is in danger, you will also be willing to give your own life to protect the other person . "If you keep cutting, things will become messy." When you fall in love with someone, the silky inner emotional experience is enough to make you toss and turn, and your heart will turn a thousand times!

——Does she often make excuses to be with you——

Anyone can take the initiative when men and women fall in love, but due to the influence of traditional concepts, most women are ashamed to do so. It's obvious that she really wants to be with you, but she always finds an excuse to hide her true motives.

It is not difficult for a sensitive man to detect a woman's affection for you from her ambiguous speech and behavior.

——Does she often ask others about your situation——

Inquiring about the situation may be out of "curiosity", but often asking about a man's situation is not "Curiosity" can only explain it, but most of it is due to concern for this man. This kind of concern is a manifestation of silent devotion to him. It's just that because of face, I didn't dare to ask the man directly, so I adopted a tortuous way of expression.

——Is she particularly sensitive to your words and deeds——

There are some small things that you didn’t even notice yourself, but she did. “Why haven’t you seen her recently?” "Are you working?" "What are you busy with?" "Where have you been?" These questions are both a colleague's concern and a woman's love. Of course, if it is the latter, the tone of speech will be different from the former. This difference can sometimes only be noticed by careful men.

——Do you want to ask you some questions related to love——

Some women like you very much, but they are embarrassed to express their feelings, and they are also afraid of wishful thinking. So I often use a subtle way to test whether you have a love partner. For example, she will find an excuse to ask you when you will treat her to wedding candy. If I heard you say, I still don’t know that it will be the year of the monkey and the month of the horse. There will be an expression of relief between her brows. These subtle changes in expression are mostly signs of love budding in the heart.

——Does she seriously remember what you say casually——

Sometimes you say: "I have to buy a new scarf this winter." Before long, she They will find excuses to give you the scarves they have knitted, or they will quietly tell you where to buy a suitable scarf. Sometimes you express interest in a certain book unintentionally, and she will unknowingly send this book to you. In most people's minds, going to the movies together seems to be a public expression of love. Generally speaking, when a woman excuses herself by saying she bought the tickets on your behalf, this may actually be a hint that you invite her to watch a movie.

——Does she like to know about your past, future and family affairs——

If she is not interested in you, there is no need to find out about you. The reason why a woman likes to know this is simply because your image has sown seeds in her mind, and she needs to further gain a comprehensive and three-dimensional understanding of you. Caring about or even asking about the situation at your home actually serves the same purpose, and it may also mean that she is considering whether to establish a relationship with you.

——Is she similar to you in terms of interests——

For example, you like to watch football, but she has no interest in sports. However, it may be strange. As things happened, she became somewhat interested in sports. When you spoke "insider talk", she would add a few "layman talk" or show concern for her interest in sales. Sometimes, when someone talks to her about a certain issue, which is originally boring to her, she will be happy to accompany them and show a lot of interest. This is not only influenced by you, but also actively adapts to you. It has the element of "love" subtly infiltrated into it.

——When she receives your love message, does she express it brightly——

For example, she seems very excited when you make excuses to stay with her. . You write to her, and she writes back to you quickly, and in addition to the "words", there is also "understanding". These are messages of love.

——Be brave and strike up a conversation with her——

When I think of approaching a girl and talking to her for the first time, I feel excited and uneasy, worried that she will ignore her, which will be embarrassing. ! It is this fear that hinders your determination to approach her. In fact, you don’t have to worry about it. For most girls, they are very eager for a man to approach her and talk to her. Even though some girls appear calm on the surface, they are already in love inside. Why don’t you boldly give it a try? You can start by having a symbolic "talk" with her.

After choosing a suitable opening statement, you can then say whatever you want. As long as you can think of it in your head, you can talk about it as a topic. Maybe, in the process, the girl will develop a good impression of you.

——Be calm and be mentally prepared to hit a wall——

When you muster up the courage to approach a girl, you may get a “white eye” from her. This is normal, everyone has times when they feel discouraged, and there is not just one man in the world who is frustrated. If you become depressed, depressed, or become cautious like a defeated rooster, then you are simply too stupid. The important thing is that after hitting a wall, you must know how to laugh at yourself, and you must calmly think about your failure. The reason may be that the way you approach the girl is inappropriate, it may be that you chose a bad time first, or your heart is not sincere enough... Find the reasons, summarize the teachings carefully, and try If you try it again, you might succeed.

——Be frank and praise her appropriately——

The difficulty lies in the initial contact. Once the woman responds, the rest will be easier. If a girl says something to you it means she doesn't hate you. At this time, you can talk frankly about your first impression of her, and praise her appropriately, such as "You are so beautiful and charming," "This skirt is perfect for you," "You are very cheerful. I feel happy being with you” and so on. After hearing these words, she might be shy, but she was still very happy. It should be noted that your words must be artistic, frank and artistic, and you must pay special attention to propriety. If you praise the other person too much, it will make people uncomfortable; if you are sanctimonious and talk about benevolence and morality, it will make the other person lose interest. If you say some vulgar words, it will make her feel disgusted.

——Respect yourself and don’t be too attentive——

If you are lucky enough to meet a beautiful and lovely girl, you are attracted by her, you are enchanted by her, you can do whatever you want Do whatever you can to get close to her, let her get to know you and fall in love with you, but don't make it self-defeating. But be careful not to be overly attentive. If you try to please her like a lapdog, you may be self-defeating. Most upright girls don't like spineless men. In this way, you will be fascinated by her and try your best to please her. Although you are so infatuated, the girl ignores you. You are like a bowl of boiled water, which makes people look at you to the end. There is no interest in you anymore, so the girl has no choice but to say "goodbye" to you.

——Being frugal and spending extravagantly will definitely win your heart——

Some men appear to be very generous when interacting with girls. When he goes to the store, he will buy her this and that. When he enters the restaurant, he will always ask for "seven plates and eight bowls"; even when he meets a beggar, he will give her a lot of money in front of the girl. It seems that this is the only way to do it. Shows his manliness. As everyone knows, while he is spending a lot of money, his image has gradually shrunk in the girl's mind. Because most girls will have some associations when seeing this kind of behavior. She will think about how you will live in the future, and she will think about what kind of person you will become in the future. Your behavior will undoubtedly scare her away, but it doesn't matter, your approach can also win the favor of individual girls. But as far as most girls are concerned, they hate spendthrift men the most. Therefore, even if you are very rich, don't spend money like water, and don't leave a girl with the image of a fat man.

——Be gentle, this is the only way to win your heart——

There is a small ice cube in the girl’s heart. Although it is small, it is not easy to melt. It is both hard and cold. If you want to dissolve the ice, you must first dispel her wariness with gentle words. If you appear nasty and have a shabby attitude, there is no hope. Not only are the lumps hard and cold, they won't clump any bigger than before! The reason why girls like gentle and considerate men is because they have absorbed countless experiences and lessons from their colleagues, relatives and friends around them. They have heard and seen enough that they have to take warnings. Unless you treat her with genuine tenderness, she will not reciprocate the same affection for you. Therefore, whether you have just approached a girl or your relationship has already progressed, you need to be extremely gentle.

As long as you show gentleness, consideration, and kindness everywhere and give people a sense of trust, the girl will naturally like you. Of course, this kind of tenderness, consideration and kindness must not be hypocritical. It must come from the heart. If showing tenderness and consideration is just a means, it would be a big mistake.

——Create a special occasion where you two can do some activity together——

For example, you pick something very common and then continue doing it, like Have breakfast together and talk about the day's trivial matters, and then spend more time on these activities, savoring them slowly. This will help your relationship and make it more worthwhile for you.

——Occasionally give something that is not easy to store for a long time to the person you love——

Of course, it is best if the thing you give is something the other person likes. Some people may think that spending money to buy flowers or toss in coins to sing songs is too wasteful, but in fact it is not. This is the gift that the two of you should have. So when you want to do something for the other person, you might as well spend some money to do this kind of thing. In addition, when buying gifts, you don't have to buy practical gifts for the other person. Occasionally, you can show that you pay less attention to practical functions. This can help you realize the value of love itself - even if the gift does not bring us any practical value.

——Express your love by touching——

It is generally believed that touching the other person is just a way of expressing sex, so you rarely touch the other person. In fact, when you touch the other person, you are purely expressing your love, and it does not necessarily involve sexual intercourse.

——Try to do something you like to do with the other person——

Picnic, outing, watching movies... whatever it is, and Try to remember the things you enjoyed sharing with him before you do it again, and don't pretend you can't. It is best for two people to meet in a well-lit post-event atmosphere to share happiness and sense of accomplishment with each other. Even if the gathering is very short, you might want to study how you behave and how comfortable you are when you are having a good time together. And with the same mood, we can do more things together.

——Be sincere and simple when expressing love——

When expressing love, be loyal and honest, and let the other person realize that you are telling the truth. The following methods of showing love are more popular:

(1) Say naturally: "I like you very much."

(2) Look into her eyes and say: "I like you." You."

Say directly: "I love you!"

(4) "Let's live together!"

(5) "Do you intend to walk the road of life with me?"

(6) "I hope to stay with you forever."

——Choose A good place to show love -

The following are better places to show love:

(1) When listening to mood music in the car

(2) When you can A place where you can see the sea

(3) In a place with no human traces around

(4) In a more romantic place such as a coffee shop

(5) The two of them were on their way back from having fun

——The language of expressing love can be like a love movie——

The more uncomfortable the sentence is, the more uncomfortable it is for people to listen to it. It has a practical effect, that is, the more it smells like this, the more women will start to think that you may be telling the truth. So you don't need to convince her with theory, you just need to stimulate her emotions. Here are some expressions of love in love movies, you can try it if necessary: ??

"This is a very important beginning, don't you think so?"

"You know you Have you fallen in love with me? ”

“Only now do I understand how happy it is to be with the woman I love.

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“Next time I introduce you to my friends, can I say that you are my woman? ”

“I have a problem recently, no matter what song I listen to, I will think about it

——Men who are successful in their careers are more likely to be favored by women——

For a For men, what does it mean to be successful in dating women? Perhaps, netizens will think that it is enough to "please" female colleagues and it has nothing to do with work; but, which girl is willing to love a "nobody" who has no achievements in her work?

——More exposure to women will make people more mature——

Love is like a touchstone. When you compete with your opponent, you can not only get to know the other person through love, but you can also get to know yourself through love. A few years ago, there was a play called "We Don't Understand Love in First Love", which was very popular. Later, it was changed into a movie. The title tells a truth: first love is often blind. Because people in first love are still too naive psychologically, the object of first love is often not a rational decision, but driven by emotion or even an inexplicable psychological agitation. One or both parties can easily jump into the ocean of love and be dizzy with love. , people at this time have love, but do not understand love. If you enter into a marriage based on the unreliable impulse of first love, if both parties do not strengthen their psychological construction after marriage and promote mutual understanding and psychological maturity, the marriage will often be in crisis. Therefore, for a person to truly understand each other and understand himself, it often takes many trials of love to achieve it. After several struggles in relationships, I realized that "the outside world is very helpless", I understood what kind of person I am, and I also understood what kind of person I need.

——If you want a more stable love, it is better to be “well-matched”——

For contemporary young people, it seems old-fashioned and outdated to still talk about being well-matched when it comes to marriage and love. , but a well-matched match in marriage and love has its scientific side, that is, it contributes to the stability of marriage. When we say that we are well-matched, we do not mean to hate the poor and love the rich, but to emphasize that both parties in the marriage have similar backgrounds in family, society, culture, education, and living customs. There will be a lot less friction and misunderstandings when communicating with each other. It doesn’t mean that a marriage with “the wrong family” is necessarily bad. But both parties in the marriage must have strong psychological endurance, and both parties or one party must have great changes. For example, when a rich girl marries a poor person, one of the two parties must sacrifice a lot of their own things, and it is impossible for both parties to maintain peace of mind for a long time. It is in this sense that when we are looking for a marriage partner, we should pay attention to "match the dragon with the dragon and the phoenix with the phoenix." However, nothing is static and there is no absolute truth in the world. It is not uncommon to find happy marriages with "the wrong family", which is determined by the men and women's views on marriage, the subjective and objective environment, and the quality of the people.

——Don’t expect to marry a woman with both talent and beauty——

Don’t be too demanding about the so-called “talented and beautiful” woman. In this world, this is just a term. Unless it is due to natural intelligence, beautiful women are rarely talented at the same time. Because beautiful women rely on something, they are often unwilling to work on their knowledge. On the contrary, women who are not beautiful cannot be relied upon because they lack the "capital" that can be used in life. This is natural. You can't have your cake and eat it too. What about spiritual beauty? Or is it beautiful? When a man wants to choose a woman, he should decide beforehand.

——Don’t stand in the same boat——

If you have many good female friends, this is certainly understandable, but if you really fall in love with one of them Girls, then please stop dating other girls. In addition to being frivolous, hypocritical and insincere, running around everywhere shows that you are not single-minded and hunt around, like a swinger. As long as a girl with a little bit of brains knows your tricks, she will immediately walk away and ignore you, no matter how chic and talented you are. Therefore, do not "step on a few boats", otherwise, you will only end up capsizing and falling into the water.

——Don’t waste time blaming others after falling out of love——

Resenting others will make you feel discouraged and depressed.

Of course, when you encounter this kind of thing for the first time, you will inevitably feel resentful towards the other person, but you should still get rid of her as soon as possible without resenting her. If you meet in a narrow road by chance again in the future, your attitude must still be generous. Otherwise, it will be tantamount to surrendering to the other party. Because whether you say nice things or scold someone, it objectively reflects your psychological weakness and failure. You don't have to waste energy on this, but you should pack up your feelings as soon as possible and find another person who is more suitable for you.

——You don’t have to beg her to come back to you——

Begging for mercy is a very cute idea. Even if it is not a fantasy, it is foolish and childish. You must abandon it. This kind of thought controls oneself and works hard.

——You don’t have to reminisce about your past love history——

You should try to avoid going to places where you two often went when you were in love, and reduce the things that trigger you to recall the past. Social activities. If you encounter the above situation, you should stop your unnecessary passion, return to normal reason, and eliminate the traces of past love as soon as possible. This must be realized with reason, and you cannot indulge in the memories of the past

——Don’t rush to find another lover to really fill your emptiness——

It is best to take your time. Get in touch with new friends of the opposite sex. Because your inner trauma has not yet healed, you should first focus on some interesting hobbies to divert your attention. It is not advisable to fall in love with other girlfriends until your mood returns to its normal state.

——Don’t give up on yourself——

Don’t think that you are useless from now on just because you have lost your love. As everyone knows, you are still a lovely young man with your own cuteness, so why should you be negative and inferior? However, you should learn a lesson. If you make friends with the opposite sex in the future, you should be very cautious and do not reveal your enthusiasm early. You must value your feelings and not abuse them again and again. A man looks down upon his girlfriend who gives him affection easily; while a woman deplores those who are emotionally "watery"

——There is no need to live in seclusion and not see people——

At the beginning You are in love, so naturally you don't have many opportunities to interact with other friends, especially friends of the opposite sex. Now that you have no burden, you should go out and interact with them. On the one hand, it can make you forget the unpleasant thing, and on the other hand, it can give you the opportunity to find someone more suitable than before among many people.

——Don’t keep breaking your heart——

Why do you need to tell your friends about the past over and over again? Nothing good will come of it, let it be the past. No one can help you get back on your feet, you have to rely on yourself! You still have valuable enthusiasm, you still have a bright future, and you still have many relatives and friends. Why should you be heartbroken for the rest of your life over this incident? Don't think wildly, don't get into trouble, use the vitality of your youth, plunge into the fiery life, and discover the new continent of love in the ocean of life. As long as the tree of life continues to grow, it will eventually bear fruitful fruits of love. The solution to falling in love is: cheer up!