It is true that every woman has these labels more or less, from birth, daughter, mother, wife and mother-in-law. . . A series of labels are attached to a certain stage of life, just like a magic potion at every stage of life.
Drink it and become what you should be in one second. These magical potions are lined up on the shelves of life, selling the image of a good woman.
You are somebody else's daughter, get into a good school, marry a good family and have a lovely baby. If you don't do it, your breath will drown you.
You are somebody else's mother, you should hold a fork and spoon and be ready to fight at any time, because you are a steel mother.
You are somebody else's wife, you have to get into the hall, get out of the kitchen, go out to work, and say you don't care about your family.
Being a full-time wife, watching her husband's face, getting paid to ask questions every month, and being told how good it is to be at home.
Now there are dishwashers and automatic washing machines, and I am not tired of working. I want to ask; Can clothes be washed automatically without putting them in? Just washing dishes and not cooking.
Now that you are her mother-in-law, your daughter-in-law who came to visit for the first time won't give her a gift, and you are embarrassed to see her. When you hear that someone else's mother-in-law gave a big red envelope when they met for the first time, but someone else's mother-in-law didn't, it burns your ears to think about it.
Who gave women so many labels? If you don't play according to the label, you will lose. The stereotype that "women should be like this" in society … have you faced it?
You are over 30 years old, aren't you married? Why don't you have children when you get married? Why don't you have a second child? Why not have children?
If you don't have children, who will support you? Excuse me, who stipulates that women must get married and have children? Is it necessary to support the elderly with children? Many people sue their children for unfilial behavior in court.
Please remember: it's your daughter, your wife, your mother and yourself.
I remember Yang li Ping's hot discussion about not having children. "No children and no daughters" was criticized by netizens as the biggest failure of being a woman. Yang li Ping replied: I think I'm doing well. I didn't hurt anyone.
As women, we don't want any label-style life, we just want to be true and unique, we don't want public labels, we just want to be women.
We can work hard in the workplace like men, and we can be independent ourselves. I want to get married because I found love, not to complete the task.
It's your wish to get married and have children, not to carry on the family line.
Don't label women, even if they are forty or fifty years old, who is not a wrinkled child?
Even if she is 60, she can dress up as a fairy every day when she is a mother-in-law.
We just want a unique life, we don't want to live the same life as others, whether it's a strong woman or a lady, a fairy or a little sister, we just want inner peace.
Do whatever you want. Life is an experience, so you must enjoy it. Otherwise, why not come to this world for nothing?
In a world where women are half, how to live is your own business. Don't live a life of labels, be yourself with a soul.
Tear off the label, live in your own love instead of others' eyes, don't let others define women, be yourself bravely.
Note: For the rest of my life, I wish you to return to your original heart, find yourself and live your best.
I wish you or you.