1. White chrysanthemums
White chrysanthemums can be used when visiting graves. In traditional Chinese concepts, white chrysanthemums or yellow chrysanthemums are more commonly used flowers for visiting graves, representing respect for the deceased. Flowers that show respect and love, express condolences and express grief, and express deep longing for the ancestors.
2. Flowers that the other person likes
When visiting the grave, you can use the bouquets of flowers that the other person liked during his or her lifetime. It means that I remember all your likes and dislikes, and expresses my deep longing and concern. No matter how long you have been gone, you have never left my heart. It not only expresses respect and remembrance of the deceased, but also emphasizes one's own reluctance and remembrance.
3. Simple flowers
When visiting the grave, you can choose relatively simple flowers, such as white calla lilies, which can be paired with forget-me-nots and baby's breath to make bouquets. Calla lilies symbolize happiness. Flowers, with longing for the deceased and endless love, send a bouquet of calla lilies and gently place it in front of the tombstone, and the original beauty emerges again.
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Different forms of tomb sweeping:
1. Music sacrifice: play the deceased’s favorite songs during his lifetime to express his memory of the deceased. .
2. Flower sacrifice: Use the deceased’s favorite flowers to offer sacrifices, or participate in the “flowers for burning paper” activities organized by various cemeteries.
3. Planting trees to worship: Planting trees to pay homage to the deceased.
4. Tomb washing and offering sacrifices: washing tombstones to express missing people.
5. Family memorial service: Make a CD of the deceased’s photos and video materials, and organize family members to watch and recall the past life.
6. Online memorial service: express grief for deceased relatives through the Internet.
7. Community public memorial: A full-time etiquette teacher is stationed in the community, and the community organizes residents in the jurisdiction to pay homage to the portraits of deceased relatives and place fruits, fruit, balloons, etc. in their honor. The family members of the deceased read the memorial text, and the public mourners presented flowers.
8. Let your thoughts fly: The community can organize residents to carry out activities to release white balloons and let their thoughts fly.
9. Signature and sacrifice: The community can organize people to sign collectively to remember and worship their ancestors.