Yu Junjian and his daughter Yu Junjian like singing folk songs, calligraphy, painting and poetry, but what they cherish most is his precious daughter Mao Mao. Speaking of daughters, my father has a lot to say. When Mao Mao was a child, Yu Junjian also liked to appear on TV. There is one thing he remembers very clearly. When my daughter was 5 years old, she watched "June 1", and the couple invited her to visit the TV station. On the first day, my daughter recited what she had to say, but the next day, she forgot everything in front of the camera. "I was very angry and hit her. I really hate that iron doesn't turn into steel. Later, I found that she was not interested in this kind of thing, and even felt very tired and nervous. But let her do what she wants to do. " When Mao Mao was three or four years old, it was very painful for her music-obsessed mother to help her learn the piano. Yu Junjian joked that playing the piano is like entering a slaughterhouse. The butcher shouts and the pig barks. Finally, my daughter refused the piano. To Yu Junjian's delight, Mao Mao has always insisted on painting. "But we don't force her to study art.. She is still young. When she grows up, she has her own pursuit, of course, she wants to go to the Academy of Fine Arts. Yu Junjian believes that it is difficult to explain the feelings between father and daughter by "communication". He said: "I think the influence on my daughter's mind is subtle." For example, I have a lot of books hidden in my house, so I don't need to ask her to read them every day. But after the family created this atmosphere, she naturally understood that books are good things and needed. Maybe this is also a kind of communication! " "Daughter introverted, maybe it has something to do with the only child. Only children are prone to loneliness. I have a godson, and my daughter is four years older than her. When he was only three or four years old, his daughter disliked him and didn't want him to play at home. I think my parents like my brother and don't like her. Later, my daughter gradually accepted him, and she was able to play with him and tolerate and accommodate him. This is good for her daughter's future behavior. "Talking about frustration education, Yu Junjian said:" Many people think that children should eat snacks and suffer, but I don't think so. Since you want to have him, you should give him the best living conditions within your power. The living environment of American children is much better than ours, and people are still successful. Nowadays, many people mention why children don't live up to expectations, saying that they have been spoiled since childhood. It doesn't make much sense. We should strengthen education in his psychological factors and quality, instead of letting him suffer in life. " I asked, "You and your daughter grew up in different social environments. Is there a generation gap between you? " "We have never argued that different ideas are inevitable. The values and consumption views of our previous generation are different from ours. We don't have to impose our ideas on the next generation. For example, Mao Mao likes to listen to Jeff Chang Shin-Che's songs, and I have no objection. I will buy tickets for Mao Mao's concert in Shenche, Jeff Chang Shin-Che, and help Mao Mao get Jeff Chang Shin-Che Shenche's autograph. Although Jeff Chang Shin-Che Shenche and I have different singing styles. I don't advocate forcing young people to listen to symphonies and Peking Opera. " "Lead by example. Make her feel that you have a lot to be proud of. " "Literati temperament. This will do. "