with different views, it is difficult to maintain friendship;

when you see a person clearly in time, you will know the horsepower from a distance, and you will see people's hearts for a long time. "Time sees a person clearly", this sentence is my friend's personality signature when I occasionally read her WeChat, which was very shocking at that time.

Because we haven't been in contact for more than half a year, although we are in the same town, close to each other, and have a good relationship, colleagues and friends, but it's not "talking about everything", because she rarely talks, and doesn't say a word for hours. After several years, she feels that she can't get to the other person's heart.

Sometimes I often want to talk to each other "from the heart", but it always backfires. At first, I felt that the two people had similar personalities. Later, I found that she had a lot of girlfriends, and I was not her favorite. Moreover, she had little information and never took the initiative to communicate. Recently, when she was asked about the relocation, she was disgusted, meaning that "everyone was busy making money, as if I was bored and asked such things every day, and she was not interested in the relocation".

Because she is a girl and I am a boy, the relocation is closely related to the children's marriage, because my girlfriend is going to buy a house in the county, and my baby is several years older than her baby, so it is easier for girls to find a partner.

I have four best friends, two of whom are very close to me. They often make phone calls to ask questions, often have dinner together and exchange information with each other. Some information is really important, such as "salary adjustment for children", bank loans and personnel relations. It can be said that we talk about everything.

in a good mood or a bad mood, people will talk to each other. In fact, the party is not for eating, but for exchanging information and deepening understanding.

You regard the other person as your best friend, but the other person doesn't approve of it, at least she never thinks so in her heart.

Secondly, she is a realist. She is often busy cooking, cleaning up housework, buying vegetables and washing clothes, and she can't spare time for parties. Moreover, the other party rarely takes her mobile phone when she goes out, so she can't contact, and she doesn't answer many times. She can't make an appointment every time she eats. After a long time, she naturally breaks up without any reason.

The rhetoric is that when I bought a house in the provincial capital, my money was tight, and I couldn't even make money for dinner. Even if my best friend paid for it, I didn't have time. I just wanted to live alone, and my heart was very fulfilling.

Many times, several people kept up with each other. I deliberately walked slowly and wanted to be alone with her for a while, but she said, "Hurry up and keep up with them. You are on the same road" and "I know you are the wrong person". No matter how you behave, it is redundant ...

Her husband is 15 years older than her. They are married naked. She is 21 years old, and he is 36 years old. She got a marriage certificate and got married. She has no new clothes, no favorite quilts, no furniture, no banquets and no blessings. She is still so happy. Now there are very few such people. There is one pair in 2,. "I only met three pairs, and the other two are born after 9."

Many times, in the summer, it was after 1 o'clock on September 3, and they just went downstairs for a walk. After the housework was finished, they cleaned up and enjoyed their own time, because at this time, many people who walked went home and there were few pedestrians on the road ... Maybe in their hearts, it was just each other ...

They had a lovely daughter who was very close. It suddenly occurred to me that "Yang Jiang said" the three of us ... children are the crystallization of two people's love ...

Then there are different values. She is very frugal. She cooks most of the time, rarely buys clothes, and buys them very cheaply. She doesn't know about the tourist attractions and farmhouses near the county, and she never goes, asks or asks, and can't make an appointment. She is preoccupied with "getting along".

Being alone and keeping your mouth shut in groups, being diligent in self-cultivation and frugality are in line with her taste. Happiness is not in others' eyes, but in your own heart.

Many times, she also told me about a pair of celebrities, Zhang Jizhong Du Xinglin, on TV. The age difference between them is 31 years old, 69 years old and 38 years old. They don't marry rich people for money, but really love each other.

There are Xue Pinggui and Wang Baochuan. When she said these words, her eyes were full of light and admiration. Falling in love with someone may really have nothing to do with material things, right? In this era when money and power are paramount, love is really a scarce thing ...

We often say, "Do not forget your initiative mind, so as to achieve your final goal". Don't forget why you started at the beginning? As the Buddhist said, "Who am I? Where did it come from? Where are you going? " What am I doing here? Only by asking yourself a few more reasons can we carry out the revolution to the end. Now I know that this is what Master Hongyi said.

When the relationship is in crisis, ask yourself "Why did you marry him in the first place"? Love? Or matter?

I sincerely wish her and her husband a long life together.

between people, the last defeat should be time.

Time never said anything, but answered many questions.

I'm glad to answer your question: I personally think that among people, the poor are still defeated by the rich. The poor are poor because they are incompetent, have a poor mind and are always living in the calculations of others. The individuals in our family are still very poor.

interpersonal relationship is the most complicated. Because people are too realistic nowadays, my uncle and cousin Chen Mou and I live in the same city, and we haven't seen each other for several years. We rent a house for several hundred yuan every month, and the monthly income is not high, so we can only eat, drink and live, and the deposit is basically zero. At most, after the end of the year, we will be empty-handed, while my cousin is on the high side. He has more than N houses and drives a Porsche, and the deposit has reached hundreds of millions!

Recently, some of his associates always accused me of not giving gifts to my cousin. The relatives of these relatives don't keep in touch with each other, and there are some sour words. I don't think they came from my associates. My wife must have asked my associates about our living conditions. If she can work, she will certainly get along well! This is definitely not a good word, but it is a very angry word. Rich people can say whatever they like, and all their associates follow her. This is a matter of course, but I have to thank them for bringing me to this city. I didn't have a job before. You took me to your construction site to work, and we were homeless. Didn't you take us to your house for dinner at that time?

My mother is gone, and you still use her words as propaganda, saying that I was born in the countryside and find someone who can work. My family's craftsmanship is really good. You have been talking about this as a joke until now. I don't know how many years it will take. It's not a shame to be able to work, but you can laugh again in the eyes of the rich. Do you remember that my mother lent you the fare before you started coming to this city, when my family was there? I witnessed it with my own eyes. The people we work with are not as good as people. It doesn't matter if you laugh at me. You have a good life and I haven't touched you. You think my reason is that you still owe me money and blame it on others. I think you can't pay it now. You want to default.

As a result, my wife gave it back to me secretly. Originally, your shift supervisor didn't calculate our salary well, but also deducted our living expenses. You kept it for four or five years. Of course, when I paid back the money, I offended my wife. It was my fault. That's not what I meant. You know, I have been kind since I was a child, and I can't say anything malicious. Someone else taught me that day. Pay me back. As a result, as soon as I put the phone down, I regret it. I shouldn't have said it. You are still bitter about it. Don't you owe me money? It's our hard-earned money! I hope you adults don't hold grudges. I didn't hold grudges, and I didn't speak ill of you behind your back. You are prominent people, which is a trivial matter, right?

but I remember living in your house for a long time when I was a child, and my mother didn't have time to take care of me. My uncle taught me to read couplets, and I am really a teacher! You all say that I am stupid because my uncle is towards me. I am a stupid person. You have no money to spend. I will tell you the password. You took all the money for me without mercy. Today, I still remember the kindness of your Chen family, as well as my mother-in-law and aunt in the front room. They are better than relatives if they are not relatives. I will never forget the great kindness of the Chen family.