The past is like smoke, and the past can neither be changed nor erased. The human heart is like the sea. Only by letting the past pass can the beginning begin. Don't dwell on the past! People who live the most meaningful lives should be those who have a sense of life.

This is Wei Lan’s emotional experience. By chance, Weilan met a man. Weilan said to call him Mr. Fang. She didn't want to discredit his image in her mind, which would be tantamount to denying herself. Her first impression of him was very good, and she even said that she had a crush on him as soon as they met. She didn't use the word love at first sight because she didn't think it was suitable. Although she didn't want to admit it, there was still something wrong with her ideology. She couldn't forget his existence, and his shadow always appeared in her mind. She seemed to lose control and paid attention to everything about him, and tried to leave him a message. And he replied to her, and his words were full of concern, which made her feel warm. She was completely lost. She longed for the feeling of love, and loved him carefully and wholeheartedly. In the process, her feelings were also very complicated. Sweetness, self-blame, and guilt filled her entire soul, and finally she was covered with disappointment. all.

She found that he didn't love her at all. Although he once said that he liked her, in fact, he only had a good impression of her at most. It was her who was carried away by love. Now that she thinks about it, she doesn't regret it. She is a person full of fantasy and romantic feelings. This time she didn't want to indulge herself anymore, she couldn't lose herself or her self-esteem because of it. It must be treated rationally. Although she had been in pain, entangled, and brooding, in the end she let it all go away. It's not that time has healed her trauma, it's that she understands that she was wrong in the first place, and it's meaningless to dwell on and hold grudges...

Don't dwell on the past, it's time to let it go It's just past, only in the past can new things begin. Life is not always smooth sailing. When faced with hardships and setbacks, please comfort yourself with the words "put yourself to death and live again." Smile and be a strong person in life.

No matter how nice a person is, but if he doesn’t want to accompany you, then he is just a passerby. No matter how much a person has shortcomings, he can tolerate you in every situation and stay with you until the end, that is his destination.

No matter how much you love someone, you cannot be so humble that you lose yourself. The purpose of love is to make you better, not to make you bruised. Some love is destined to be encountered but not sought. If you can't wait, don't wait. If you can't squeeze into the world, don't hold on.

Friends who are falling into an emotional whirlpool, come out and wake up! Looking around, the natural scenery is picturesque. Everything in the past is just a bridge and a ditch in this picturesque scenery. If you step over it, infinite beauty is waiting for you.

——Rose in the Empty Valley