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At the end of last year, I began to pay attention to the word cognition. It is also through this word that I constantly reflect on myself. So far, I feel that I have gained a lot from this word!

What is cognition? My understanding is that a person's knowledge and understanding of the world is more focused on the pattern and level, and is the overall perception and perspective of a thing!

This world is a whole. Tangible matter and invisible power are closely integrated and have their own laws of operation. Only when human behavior is more in line with one of the laws can it be easier to obtain Success, recognition and understanding.

But many people can only see a certain point among them, and their vision of the world extends through this point, so no matter what they do, they never get out of this circle.

As far as life is concerned, it consists of thousands of indescribable substances, unexplained emotions, and some unclear but always present spirits. As far as these things are concerned, a The more comprehensive a person sees, the freer he becomes.

In fact, to a certain extent, freedom is just a dimension, a perspective from which to view the world. It is not fixed and everyone is different!

In short, the more a person knows about the world, the more natural what he does. The deeper your knowledge of a certain industry, you may be a professional talent; the deeper your spiritual knowledge, you may be a philosopher and religious scientist; the deeper your knowledge of human society, you may be a sociologist.

Anyone who has a deep understanding of a certain place or a strong ability on a certain issue will have a depth of understanding that is far beyond that of ordinary people!

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My college classmate Mu Mu often says recently that if you want to change yourself, you must first change your own perception.

Like me, he graduated two years ago. The difference is that he went to Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, while I wandered in a small southern town.

The same thing is that nothing has been accomplished yet. He is also doing his business BD, and I am also slowly moving forward on my road.

When he was in college, he said that he must have his own career after graduation. Later, he worked hard for more than a year after graduation.

He is very eloquent and can talk about many things in great detail. He is often the champion in taking orders in his department. However, he said that after contacting many people, he realized that his tricks were just like those of a child. trick.

The most impressive time was when I was discussing cooperation with an entrepreneurial boss. Many of the ideas he was told were beyond his comprehension and had never been thought of before. For example, the other party told him that the best way to change a person is to throw him into a group of powerful people. He may not be powerful enough himself, but the concepts given to him by those powerful people are a kind of influence to him. renew.

Later, after he continued to contact some people, he understood this sentence.

He said that when he was with those people, a word from the other person might open a door for him.

When he first negotiated the deal, he was thinking about the salary after the negotiation was completed, but later, he preferred to listen to those people talking. He said that compared with salary, some words and some concepts are the most important. of wealth.

I met him some time ago and he said that he went to France and saw French romance with his own eyes. There was no hint of showing off in his tone, it seemed like it was just an ordinary trip.

I said, logically you should feel proud, but why don’t you see it?

What he said impressed me deeply. He said that the purpose of some travels is not the travel itself, but to broaden one's horizons and let one understand that the world is very big. !

Yes, many of people’s behaviors actually mark their cognitive map, which is their lifetime wealth. But many people only see the results, only the handsome French guys, and the romance of the candlelight dinner.

I think this is the difference in cognition. And he also started to change his signature from that time to "Changing a person starts with changing perception!"

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I have also seen many people who often talk about changes, but in fact, their lives are becoming more and more the same. There is no shortage of such existence around us.

My friend Xiaoan is such an example.

Last month, Xiao An said that he felt that his figure was getting worse and worse, and his health was getting worse and worse. He wanted to exercise from today on.

When I contacted her last week, I thought about what she said about exercising and thought she had already started. However, when I asked, I found that her life was still the same as before, and nothing had changed.

Same as every day after get off work, I lie in bed and play with my mobile phone. When I notice the time, it’s already past nine o’clock. I take a shower and it’s almost time to go to bed.

I have long said that I want to read a book, but I bought a book that was covered with dust and I didn’t even finish it.

Many times we are like this. We really want to change ourselves, but we are always kidnapped by the things in front of us. Just like there was a question on Zhihu, why many people would rather suffer the hardships of life than the hardships of study.

In fact, this is also a cognitive issue, because whether it is learning, exercising, or doing something you have never done before, you are actually challenging your own boundaries, and everyone will Guard your boundaries.

What are the boundaries? It is the limit of a person's cognition, so the more cognition a person has, the more things a person can accommodate. Similarly, the perspective of looking at things will also change accordingly.

This is also why the more knowledge you have, the less likely you are to suffer!

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A person's attitude towards life hides his level of cognition. Similarly, a person's level of cognition determines his life.

There are all kinds of people around us. Some people never complain, but live their lives in a variety of ways; some people say they want to change every day, but their lives are always the same.

Some people are determined to forge ahead, cutting thorns all the way, passing through obstacles, and living the way they like;

Some people are timid, timid, and live life slowly, slowly Get used to the appearance in front of you, even if it is the appearance that you once hated!

Life has never deliberately cared for anyone, and time has never slowed down in front of anyone. Some people may be luckier, but the success of the vast majority of people has nothing to do with luck, but is positively related to hard work.

What does the direction and degree of a person's efforts have to do with it? The answer is the person's perception.

As long as you have three meals a day, all your efforts can be made in this direction.

If you want to understand life, you should also work in this direction.

The so-called thousands of people have thousands of faces, not only the differences in faces, but also the differences in cognition!