1. Find some ‘***s in common’ between you. If you have something to say, she also has something to say.

For example, food, music, movies, travel, scrolling through each other’s circle of friends, signatures, shared music, status, zodiac signs, messages, comments, etc.

If you are classmates, fellow villagers, have similar growing experiences, childhood memories, etc., you can talk about it.

For example, she is a fan of Jay Chou, and you also grew up listening to Mr. Zhou.

She likes Sichuan food, and so do you. She likes comments, especially the exchange of ideas, and so do you, and you recently watched a movie together and both liked Marvel.

Here is a little trick.

In the beginning, set a boundary. Because girls are not familiar with you yet, it is best for boys not to put themselves in a close position first, but to use 'you' as the subject and develop the topic around it, with 'I' as the assistant.

Because most girls like to discuss and care about themselves, and hope that the topic will be interpreted and centered around themselves (girls psychologically want to be loved, and also hope to gain attention from the opposite sex.)

But , if you meet some girls who don't feel safe enough, please 'self-expose' appropriately first.

When the relationship gets closer, you can join ‘us’ appropriately.

For example, ‘Do you think...’ ‘Me too! '

"What a coincidence, our thoughts went together."

Open with praise, intersperse with 'appreciation', and occasionally act as a 'listener' and 'compliment' Role.

For example, she posted a beautiful circle of friends today. Others just like it, but you can say, ‘The pink dress really suits you. ’ ‘The cherry earrings are very cute. ’ ‘Your temperament really makes it difficult for you to style anything. ’

More efforts should be made to guide girls’ emotional investment and emotional interaction during interactions, and these are often reflected in some inadvertent details.

Finally, when she expresses strong interest, use serious reasons to stop. And pave the way for the next chat.

For example, ‘It’s time for me to go to the gym. You should have fun with the kitten first. ...’

Then, ‘I haven’t seen you for a few hours. Did your little MI miss me? ’ Let’s continue the topic from last time.

The interaction of a relationship is that you can’t look at the other person and keep asking questions if they don’t want to talk. Interaction, coming and going is the key.

Be hot when the opponent is hot, and retreat appropriately when the opponent is cold.

At the same time, be more sure of the other person’s good qualities, ‘It’s not easy for a girl like you to listen. ’

And appropriately praise the other person’s uniqueness. ‘You are a unique girl. ’ ‘You are the most special girl I have ever met. ’

2. It’s not hard to find a topic. There are a few key places that can help you start the conversation.

First, the comment category in Moments. As well as asking questions and asking for help regarding knowledge related to the circle of friends.