First, you must choose the right opportunity to chat with your boyfriend's mobile phone/letter. I usually chat with people I don't know. At that time, I had doubts about 1, and I didn't know when the other person would have time. When you send a message, the other party is busy, so the content of your message is not only difficult to improve the relevance of everyone, but also likely to make the other party like you. So when is the opportunity to send information? You can look at his/her circle of friends first. If you find that his/her circle of friends has just been upgraded, you can take the initiative to chat with him on your mobile phone/letter. Because the other party has time to send a circle of friends, it means that the other party is undoubtedly free now. You have to ask, when you are busy with swearing, can you pick up your mobile phone and send this letter to your circle of friends? Therefore, at this time, send a mobile phone/letter to the blind date. If you are not very disgusted with the other person's reply to you, then whether you can reverse the other person's mentality depends on the following chat skills. Second, the blind date mobile phone/letter chat chooses the topic to discuss. The most important thing is that you and your blind date have just met each other and don't know each other very well, so the headache is the topic of chatting. If you ask questions wholeheartedly, it will also make the other person very tired and make the chat conversation like a news report interview. So, what good methods can make small talk more and more interesting and make the other person feel that I am destined? 1. Check the other person/circle of friends:/circle of friends is his personal business card on social media. He likes eating, playing games and other personal hobbies and his lifestyle. You can find many truths in the circle of friends of blind date men. You don't have to tell others directly that you have seen other people's circle of friends. For example, you have been seeing a person who loves to fry stinky tofu in his circle of friends. You can promise to love a person who fried stinky tofu in your mobile phone/letter, which will cause everyone to discuss the topic, and the other party will feel that it is very compatible with you! 2. ask for help from the blind date: these two tricks can be said to be a hundred-use lark! For example, you can say, "I really want to eat mala Tang recently. Do you know any delicious hot pot restaurant? " In other words, "I have a friend whose birthday is coming soon. I don't know what to buy. Everyone is a boy. What should I buy? " It should be noted that this topic discussion must be open, not closed, similar to "Are you going to work tomorrow?" This closed' topic discussion' is not easy to talk about. Third, the time to reply to the blind date boyfriend's mobile phone/letter should be controlled to chat with the blind date boyfriend's mobile phone/letter, so as to ensure that the other party has the mentality of being engaged in chatting. For example, when everyone was talking about sex, the other party suddenly stopped talking. At this moment, do you have a little ups and downs in your heart and want to talk about each other again? After ten minutes, I will be more and more excited when the other party replies to you. This kind of chat skill can make the other person change sex, and the other person will pay more attention to chatting with you. 4. Chatting by phone/mail is the first thing that must be done. People should clearly understand what a successful chat is. Successful small talk means that it is unforgettable. I want to talk to you again, and even want to meet you. So how can you stop chatting on your mobile phone/email and make others want to chat with you all the time? The way is to end the conversation at the climax of the chat! It should be noted that it is not necessary to stop immediately when the climax repeats. All you have to do is finish the conversation when the other person's passion has lasted for a long time and there is no intention of abating. In that case, it will leave an impression in the other person's mind from beginning to end-"it was nice talking to you." Then, when the other person is bored and wants to talk to someone, the first thing he will think of is you. The key to mobile phone/letter chat is to increase the goodwill of the blind date, and he will fall in love with you inadvertently in mobile phone/letter chat. If we always have a good impression on each other, if we use left-right chat skills, our communication will deepen the development trend. How to blind date WeChat Chat 2 blind date WeChat Chat 1. The opening remarks of WeChat greetings are your social business cards. Opening remarks are very important in the first chat with the blind date. The quality of opening remarks will directly affect your next chat, so it is necessary to master some opening remarks skills in WeChat chat. 1, a boy who pays attention to details can't be wrong in the eyes of girls. You can find details from the girl's WeChat avatar, WeChat nickname, personalized signature, circle of friends and so on. And then start the topic from the details. For example, the girl's nickname on WeChat is "Flying Fish", and you can say the opening words: "Do you particularly like to eat fish, so it's called Flying Fish Cute". For example, girls' circle of friends often basks in pets. You can directly say, "Girls who like pets are very caring." Of course, everyone should be specific according to the specific situation. In short, some details can be used as the opening remarks. 2, praise the details of women is a vain creature, everyone wants to be praised and recognized by others, we know the psychological characteristics of women, we can use praise for girls as the opening remarks, of course, praise is not perfunctory and exaggerated, we must seize the details to praise, praise girls to the hearts of girls. Details can be found from girls' hairstyles, makeup, clothes, accessories, hobbies and so on. Praise for details will be sincere. For example, you can say hello to a girl like this: "Your earrings match your hairstyle and make you look small." Such praise for details will give girls a different feeling. Second, the chat content chat content is how to find a topic. The prologue is just chatting with girls, and the core of chatting lies in the content of chatting. The key depends on how you find a topic, how to talk about interesting feelings through the topic, and how to connect the topic with two people. After two people are familiar with each other, they must learn to talk about the topic with ambiguous feelings. The steps to determine the relationship between two people are: stranger-friend stage-ambiguous stage-dating stage-love stage. Chatting with blind date is also such a step. Just after adding the blind date WeChat, I have a basic understanding with the other party first, and then lead the topic to the ambiguous stage step by step. You can find topics from hobbies, clothes, travel, food, work, childhood, pets, TV movies, current fashion and so on. The topic is best humorous and interesting, focusing on attracting each other in the early stage, enhancing ambiguity in the middle stage, and inviting people to meet later. Let's look at the following chat record: M: "I just went on a business trip and passed by the coffee shop where we dated last time, and I remembered our first date." (Opening the topic) Female: "You remember it so clearly" Male: "Haha, I remember that your face turned red with shyness" (recalling details) Female: "Haha, it's not the first time you have been nervous about dating" Male: "If I put it aside now, I really want to pinch your red face" (upgrading the relationship) Female: "I will pay the price if I pinch you" Male. Continue to try to improve the relationship) Female: "No, I didn't." Man: "I know a restaurant that makes Sichuan food. The food is very authentic. Don't you like spicy food? I'll take you to try it one day. " Woman: "Really?" I'm a little greedy. "Man:" That's settled, you greedy little cat "(confirmation date)